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female
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41-50,
*lueCrystall
writes:Hi there me again, the guy that i've met 2 years ago invited me to his place last night, he stay's on a farm a few km outside town when I got there he has lighten the fire place and got us a nice dvd we were lying on the coough watching the dvd he was holding me asked me out how have I been (did not see him for 3 wks) it was special for me, he asked me If I would rather sleep over he will wake me up early enough so I said yes. When the dvd was finish we went to bed he hold me we talked for a while then he started to be very romantic. Its the first time in my life that I have experience something like that. The after that we smoked a siggaret and he told me this is not right what we are doing in 2 months its the third time that we have slept toghether, I asked him why and he just kept telling me its not right. He asked me if im going to stay over I asked him does he want me to he said its for me to decide so I left. When we saw each other again he told me that he likes me after a while he told me that he just wants to be friends but he still likes me Im confuced I like this guy and I dont want to loose him even as a friend. Please help me I did not heard from him sins last night Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): If he thought it wasn't right, why was he doing this? Is he married, or just in it for the sex? He could be playing games, or confused.
It is difficult to be just friends when you are attracted to each other. Unless you want a casual relationship, it may be best to avoid him.
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Why is it not right? I don't understand either.
I would get to the bottom of it. Does he have another lover? Does he think your too young for him.
Answer that question, why he believes it is not right?
Just be prepared, as he might have a good reason. If it's a bad one, maybe you can convince him that there's no reason to stop what you guys have.
Just be clear with him, that you want him, and so you want to know the reason.
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