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writes:Long story short, I tend to freeze up and get nervous in front of my crush, even though during other times I am a pretty easy going and funny person. So from what he has seen, I pretty much look like a really dull person with no personality, because sometimes no matter how hard I try, I just cannot find something to talk about with him!So how do I let go of these fears and just talk to him like a regular human being? If I am to ever have a chance with him, I got to actually make some conversations!
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reader, Stuartily.  +, writes (12 April 2008):
Heyy :)
Ha i used to have the same problems, there used to be the random awqurd silence. But in the end i just relaxed once i got to know him more. And i was more myself around him.
So relax :)
Good luk x
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reader, greenmonkey00 +, writes (11 April 2008):
 1) Compliment him. "Those jeans are smokin." His ego will soar and he will probably wear them for a week straight.
2) Ask him to explain something to you. For example: "I was watching a football game the other day and I have a question. What's 'roughing the passer?'" Not only does this get him talking, but then you can make some flirty joke about roughing him up.
3) Do what guys do. Quote funny movies. "Is that sex panther cologne you're wearing?" (Anchorman).
4) Pick on him. Guys love that. "Is that your car outside with the rainbow flag on it? You should probably take that off if you don't know what it means." That's a lame example, but you get the idea.
Also, it might not hurt to appeal to his jealous side and let him see you flirting/laughing with other dudes.
Good luck!
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