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At what point should you give up on a crush?

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Question - (11 April 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Sometimes I feel that it is just a waste of time crushing on somebody, because in the end, he just won't like you. It's not even because I don't have confidence in myself that I have a chance with him, it's just that I see him with interacting with other girls (not romantically), I can picture them together and they honestly will look so much cuter and better together than say, me and him together.

So at what point should a person just give up on a crush?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008):

Don't give up on a crush! Boys are hopeless - they have no idea when somebody fancies them - they are notoriously bad at picking up the signals! He probrably doesn't even see himself as the object of somebodys desire! I'm sure he'd be flattered if he knew. Get a friend to drop a subtle hint. Don't ever put yourself down that he looks better with other girls. Anyway, things are never as they seem. Imagination plays a funny trick with us all at times. Just be yourself, smile be pleasant, get help from a friend and see how it goes.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008):

Maybe you have had a narrow escape if you think he's a bit of charmer.

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A female reader, cute angel Australia +, writes (11 April 2008):

cute angel agony auntwell according to me hun don even think of giving up your crush unless and until u have tried..i am going through the same thing but i think he would look the best with me lol..well if u have tried and then things dint work out its definitely okay to move on but this is just the beginin what if he likes you too..u don wnat to keep wondering all your life rightso anyways if u want to know more just reply back at this post and i can give you my id if it helps!!!tc

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