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writes:How would you like a guy to approach you if you were shy???I have a girl in my class who i am interested in, and i think she is interested in me too. everytime i turn to look at her, she is looking back at me, and my friends all say she looks at me all the time. I am a pretty outgoing guy who can talk to pretty much anybody, but the problem is, she is very shy. I have heard from her friends she is very shy, which worries me. If she were outgoing, i think i wouldn't have as much troubles approaching her, but she's very shy, so i'm not sure how to approach her.My question is, from a "shy" girl's point of view, if you like a guy, how would you like them to approach you? and from a guy's point of view, how would you approach a "shy" girl???
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Many,many years ago I was a very shy girl. Take things slowly. Catch her eye and smile, nothing more. Do this for a few days. Then catch her eye, smile and say hello or just make some comment about something that may just be going on around you at the time. Do this a few times thus showing her you are on the same wavelength. She should start to come out of her shell, but try to catch her on her own because she'll die of embarassment if other people are around. Ask her questions where she has to answer you with a few words and not just yes or no. She's probrably bursting inside to get to know you.Remeber what they say 'Still waters run deep'. Good luck!
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Hi there, i myself was a bit shy and would prefer a guy to come straight up and ask me as believe me, she will never do it if she is shy. The way i was, if i liked someone, yes i would watch them, but as soon as they looked at me i would smile at them or look away as just didnt know what to do, but once the guy approached me and i got to know him better, things worked out really well. So ask just go and ask her. Good Luck xx
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reader, polarkite +, writes (11 April 2008):
 It can be easier to talk to a shy girl in some respects, as you will come off as confident and cool if you do it right. Just talk to her, suggest that you do something, shake up her world a little. She's not gonna do it, so someone has to get this show started!
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