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writes:Hi!I've been with my boyfriend for quite some time. We are very close and have alot of good memories together and I couldn't ask for more. I love him so much.But, this is what I found out strange. He hasn't contacted me for 2 days now (normally he would call everyday).Even when we broke up (just wanted a break) he contacted me 3 days later. When we got back together 2 weeks ago it was great although, this no contact thing is really weird I wonder if it was that little agruement we had (nothing serious)..it shouldn't be because, we argue lightly everytime but, at the end we've always been there for eachother.Also, I know his not busy this week expect Saturday. I was supposed to go out with him today and return his jacket but, no call. I told him a few times after we got back together if he wanted space and he said no straight away. So..what's the other delay? He's not busy or doesn't want space at the end it's right to be patience and wait for his call right? I do trust him it's just this isn't a normal pattern in our relationship..Appericiate some advice! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI took all your advice and contacted him through his mobile (that was the wise thing to do!). He is fine and well. He was actually expecting me to call him and I can understand since, there was current bad service at his place and he had no money on his mobile to furthur contact. We live quite far from each other though, it was already late if were to meet anywayz.
Thank-you for everyone's time for answers. They've really helped! Best wishes to all! xxx
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Maybe he's comfortable enough, now that you have been going out this long that he has just simply let a bit of time slip. I wouldn't worry about it. Just call him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Hunny
Call him, And see if everything is ok. I would be a little worried if this was my guy and it was a routine thing to call me, and it would be really strange if he didnt call expecially if you had made plans hunny..If he is having a little space at least you no he is alright hunny..TAKE CARE SWEETHEART LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, sadeyes +, writes (11 April 2008):
I would say prepare yourself for the worst,if this is totally out of character then i would prepare myself.It sounds as though he is having some time to himself to decide what the best is.Have patiende and wait for him to call you,if he hasn't by Sunday night I would call him as you deserve an explanation
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Well there could be a million and one reasons for him not to have called you it's a bit strange. Have you tryed calling him? or text him he may just be waiting for you to contact him some men are like that like the girl to chase them give it a try. If not go round to his house.
Good luck . x
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