A
male
age
30-35,
*nrique
writes: Hi there. There's these two girls I like but i don't know which one i should focus more attention on. One is incredibly beautiful and has a good personality (we'll call her sarah), and the other is still attractive but not quite as good looking, but she's really cool and just seems to have a good view on life (we'll call her jamie). I really don't know which one i want. I feel like i have more of a chance with sarah, because she always pays a lot of attention to me. But sometimes jamie will pay just as much attention to me, but others she seems a little "annoyed" but not quite annoyed, just troubled maybe with other things going on or something. Help me! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Try making two lists. On one list put the first girl's qualities and on the second the other girl's. Then put their faults in two lists. Look at the lists and decide which you want. That's if you have to decide straight away.
You could just be friends with both and wait to see what they are like when you know them better.
Or you could toss a coin to decide and if you are disappointed with the result, or pleased, you will know the answer.
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