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writes:What should I do now?My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years now. It started off really well, Then a major problem at work put a toll on our relationship. My ex-boss was determined to get rid of me and went through great lengths of doing that. Anyway, he was very attentive and after a few months he told me he felt as though he was walking on egg shells at times. We talked it out and moved on positively... I moved in with him temporarily as I was in the process of closing on my apartment... we loved living together, he even said it... then things became tensed between us and I moved to my apartment a little earlier than I had planned... but it was ok, I always planned to move to my place. Things went to a head a few months down the road and we had a long chat. We figured there is a lot about out relationship that is worth fighting for - so we said we would work on it. The reality was he didn't do very much.. we just went about as usual - doing our routines.. etc we've had several more chats in between.Things, I thought, were progressing well this year. The last few weeks, we were having fun being together, he would buy me chocolates out of the blue.. there was no tension.. then all of a sudden he sent me an email today to say that he doesn't feel that close at the moment and he is not happy about how things are going for us. We'll be having a chat about things tomorrow... but what should I do? On one hand I feel that we can't be left in limbo forever but on the other, I am having difficulty in walking away because I do see a future for both us. What should I do?
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reader, rcn +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Both of you need to realize, a relationship doesn't sit on autopilot and everything ends up okay. Everything within your relationship is created by both of you. If you want a good relationship, create it. If you don't, keep doing what you've been doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): What you see and feel seems to be totally different from what he sees and feel. If you can't see things eye to eye..then this is bound to fail. close the door and move on !
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