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Archived questions from: April, 2016 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

How to know if he's interested and show interest for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I am almost 40 and divorced. Nothing traumatic, we just drifted away after 20 years of being together. But I a really out of practice! I'm falling in love with a guy whom I met a couple of weeks ago (my age, as far as I know not married, but who...

Why is he ignoring me? What would I need to do to win him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

29 April 2016 (F) - I met a guy 9 years older than me through a dating site two months ago. We seem to have a lot in common. I only met him once because we live 45minutes away from each other and usually varsity work keeps me busy. The day I was going to meet him he t...

Our break-up was awkward. Should I get in touch with her, after 2 years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

29 April 2016 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Once upon a time, when I was 16, I was utterly and madly in love with this girl who I met through one of my friends. We were in a relationship (officially) for about 6 months and I can undoubtedly say she was the first lo...

Why doesn’t he want this other bus driver to know who the gifts are from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

28 April 2016 (F) - dear cupid, I like this guy his a bus driver I know him about 3 years we talk a lot on the phone not every day but ever other day so on holidays I get him gifts but now he what’s me to get this other women gift she also a bus driver which she's ...

What in blazes in going on here? What's the Guy Code and is that what you see in this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3119 days ago

26 April 2016 (F) - Men, there is such a thing as a code of honor among friends when two or more like the same woman, right? The past two months have been strange and I'm confused. Three male friends of years and all the sudden they are all showing strong signs of ...

I really liked him, we made out and the next day he pretended it never happened! What made him not like me anymore?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

25 April 2016 (F) - Hi i had this boy i knew i really liked him and he liked me and one day we made out at night.The next day he pretended like it never happen like he never liked me and i texted him and told him did it mean anything and he said no and that broke my ...

Are we just really good friends, or does she like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

24 April 2016 (M) - I have known this girl-I'll refer to her as "H."-for almost two years now, though we have been actual friends since about August. I am a sophomore in High School, and she is a Junior in High School. My freshman year, I met her in my Theatre I cla...

My friend and I have the same crush on this boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - I'm sorry if it's gonna be a long story, but I really need help and advice for this problem. To be clear, I will call my friend “A” and the boy “C”. And I will give some background for the situation first. A sit besides C now. Me and A are classm...

Is he into me or just looking for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3123 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short, I recently met this guy in one of my classes. He seemed really cool and he asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him Friday night. First off, we both paid for our own ticket..I mean we're college students and imax movie ...

He's with a girl I know. I have a crush on him. Is it love? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Dear Cubid Basically I have had this crush on this guy for a long time now. I know I feel something for him however I do not know if I love. I am young and I do not know what love is yet, but I know I care about him a lot He is is so sw...

Filled with fears of rejection. So what can I do?? How to get the courage to talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

24 April 2016 (F) - Long story short I like this guy in my college. Our mutual friends are really close so me and this guy are always in situations where we could talk. In fact we're usually stood right next to each other but talking to other members in the circle. I ...

Is there a chance my co-worker might be interested in me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - There's this guy at my work who just got hired 5 months ago. Initially, We hardly talked to one another and I was indifferent towards him. This all changed few weeks later when I ran into him in stairway-the first thing he asked was if I go to the ...

Do I cut all contact with him? He left me feeling disrespected when he took my virginity and then just left.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3125 days ago

23 April 2016 (F) - I've been friends with this boy for just over a year now, for a good 3 months last year we were seeing each other but things just didn't work out. He then had a giflriend and we were like bestfriends but now they've been broken up for a while an...

I know it cannot be. So how can I overcome this crush and this jealousy I am feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

20 April 2016 (F) - dear cupid, i have a huge crush on a teacher at my school, he is just amazing, when i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and when ever someone mentions hom i go crazy. today at lunch he spoke to my best friend and i was not there but i real...

Should I accept? Ex bf has a gf, but wants to start over with me as friends and see where things go

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3129 days ago

19 April 2016 (F) - I need to start off by saying I am emotionally in a bad place these last few days, and I may be all over the place with this. I severely need help from unbiased views. I feel uncomfortable talking with friends about this. An ex bf of mine (was ...

Any time I go near this guy my friend comes over and drags him off. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3128 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - So there's this disco that everyone goes to and this boy I kind of like wants me to kiss him at it. I keep trying to text him but he doesn't reply. My best friend who knows I like him and want to kiss him at the disco keeps flitting with him. Sh...

Do you think this short break from each other might bring us back together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

18 April 2016 (F) - Hi....i would like to thank everyone in advance for replies. My ex whom i adore still rings me most days.....pops in to see me.....helps me with jobs.....we have tea together and his body language suggests he has strong feelings for me. He says h...

Is this older, married man, hitting on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3130 days ago

17 April 2016 (F) - Can anyone help me understand what's going on with a older (48) MARRIED man from Church? I used to really like him as a friend/ advisor kind of role to me. Lately I have wondered if he likes me more than he should. When we talk only always rubs my ...

I've developed a crush on my straight boss! Help me get my feelings under control!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3129 days ago

17 April 2016 (M) - Hello all, I have developed a crush on my straight boss and any tips on how to handle it would be welcome. We are both in long term relationships (5+ years, homosexual in my case, heterosexual in his). Apart from being extremely handsome, h...

Any solutions possible? I have a difficult time trusting women because of a past ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

17 April 2016 (M) - This is a whole pretty complicated story, I'll try to explain it as quickly as I can. My mother has been putting a lot of pressure on me lately to start dating, especially since I've been out of college for a year. I want to be able to date,...

I'm in a pickle about what to do. Am I expecting too much, or is he not putting enough effort in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3130 days ago

16 April 2016 (M) - Hi bi guy here and really need help please read all. So back in September I met this guy via an online dating site. I was drunk and he was at work but it was a good meet. We started seeing each other regularly and everytime he was opening up about...

I've fallen for my best friend, his girlfriend hates me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3132 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - Am I truly in love with my bestfreind? My best friend is a boy i have known him for several years now and we used to spend everyday together without fail. Now we live far away from each other. within the last year of us living close to each other we...

Do you think he's interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3130 days ago

16 April 2016 (F) - I hung out with this guy, that I'm starting to have a crush on, and out mutual friend the other day. We were all talking about Hawaii and I mentioned that one my my ex lives in Hawaii and my crush asked me about my past relationships and it took me ...

Should I hurt him now or wait for him to hurt me in a few months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3131 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - Hi im 18 years of age and I'm at college I had previously broken up with am older guy that I had a long term relationship with I wasn't looking for anyone and I was happy but my friends all had partners and they decided to set me up wits a friend of ...

What do these feelings mean? He leaves me feeling a strange sense of calmness

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

14 April 2016 (F) - Hello, i have a very strange problem which i would like some advice on. There is this guy i met recently. We have become fast friends even though we have only met a few times. He's sweet, charming, and we are into a lot of the same things. I am p...

Romance or convince? Or would you gals rather meet a guy at a mutual level of interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3134 days ago

14 April 2016 (M) - Hello Everyone Not a douche. Just wanted to put that out there. Can you trick a girl into liking you? Not trick in a malicious way but rather convince after her initial hesitation or last minute resistance? Im thinking romancing. Oh and girls...

Do you think his response to the card I sent indicate that he is interested in me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - Hello, I told a guy on his birthday like this:" that you special and that God created you and sent you as a gift to all who know you . On your birthday, I want to thank you that you have been able to change things in me that no one else could" ...

Would it be too forward to invite him out for a drink before I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3135 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - There's a guy who works in the same company as me, just in a different office (same city) and he's my superior. He's definitely older but I'm not sure how old.. he doesn't wear a wedding ring. All this to say that we've exchanged a couple of flirty ...

He has a crush on me and it's making me uncomfortable

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3126 days ago

13 April 2016 (F) - I'm in need of help! I'm just gonna get right into this bc it's one long story. A few months back this boy in my class started to chat with me. After a few weeks we became really good friends. We started to text and FaceTime/Skype a lot. Now this...

Why does a guy get shy and awkward around you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3136 days ago

12 April 2016 (F) - A friend of mine who knows I'm attracted to him isn't very clear about what he feels for me. Every time we meet, he admits being shy and awkward around me. His friends say he isn't like that around them. He admitted he got so awkward while hugging ...

I like my friend but he's in a FWB relationship with another friend. Do I say anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3137 days ago

10 April 2016 (F) - i have a crush on my best friends and i have been liking him for a while. the problem is that he like someone else which is one of my friends . they used to date but not anymore. i tried to tell him how i felt on valentines day, but i didn't work ...

Was I wrong for coming onto her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

8 April 2016 (M) - I apologize for the length of this in advance! So i had a rough day today. Got cursed out by some old guy on the road who nearly killed me and i almost went bat shit on him. I didn't know old people could be so foul. Later i went to the mall to b...

What would be the easiest way to get rid of my feelings for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3140 days ago

7 April 2016 (M) - I'm looking for the easiest way to get rid of feelings for someone. I'm in a very odd situation with a girl that I know. Basically we started out as fwb, it messed up when I wanted more but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship aft...

How can I make her feel more welcome and help her to enjoy life again after her woes with her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3139 days ago

6 April 2016 (M) - I have been dating this great girl for two months and falling for her. She moved here recently because her ex made her and she has a young child. Couple times a month she goes back home to see her friends and when she comes back she is depresse...

Used to flirt with him non-stop. Should I tell him I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3143 days ago

6 April 2016 (F) - I've used to flirt with this guy, a lot. Nonstop flirtation, texting, talking, etc...One day he asked my brother: what do you think about we as a family? I did not see that one coming, and I thought that he finally would take a step.. But ...

Have you ever seen the same person over the past few years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3142 days ago

3 April 2016 (F) - Have you ever seen the same person over the past few years? When I was 22 I went to my very first hookah bar with my best friend, I was having a blast! But while I was in there two guys came in and sat across from me and my best friend. They wer...

How do I pursue this situation, she has 2 kids and divorced and I'll be leaving the country for a year?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3145 days ago

3 April 2016 (M) - Quick background: I'm 25 years old, male. I've known this girl for about 10 years, since high school and she's always been my high school crush, way before I had my first girl girlfriend. She became my friend during early high school. After hi...

Is he interested? Is he bailing, even though he's been honest with me since day one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3145 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - hi everyone , so im waiting to go on my 2nd date tonight the thing is the guy im meeting did say to me he was busy last night wouldnt hear from him much as he was at his friends house and i said thats ok id text him today. I've texted him twice an...

I think a guy finally likes me !! Am I exaggerating? What are my options?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3146 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - I've known Jon for a while now and we are friends. I was passing by his desk one time and he was talking to another co-worker and then he saw me and he was like "Oh, I like your shirt. The colors on it." And I just said thank you and left. I ha...

I need a strategy. Should I play it cool? Have I tried too hard?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3146 days ago

2 April 2016 (F) - I asked this guy, who works in the same building as I, out and he said yes, but about 2 hours before he sort of gave me an excuse. Prior to my asking him out, we had been flirting and messaging. Most likely I have made myself too availabl...