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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:So there's this disco that everyone goes to and this boy I kind of like wants me to kiss him at it. I keep trying to text him but he doesn't reply. My best friend who knows I like him and want to kiss him at the disco keeps flitting with him. She does it right in front of my face . She says they're just friends but any time I go near him she comes over and drags him off. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2016): He isn't interested. Your friend likes him and he let's her drag him off because he isn't interested and would probably rather you leave him alone. She likes him and wants you to back it off already.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2016): First of all she aint your friend. Second of all if he want to kiss you he'll kiss you. If he wants to talk to you he'll talk to you. If he wants to text you he'll text you. This is some teenage drama play that isn't going to end well. I would stay out of the disco stay away from this friend and stop texting this boy who does not reply and stay away from this boy who allows himself to be dragged off by this so called friend.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (19 April 2016):
 How do you know that this boy wants to kiss you at the disco? Has he told you or did it come from someone else? You keep trying to make conversation but he doesn't bother replying which makes me think that he is not interested in you at all, because if he was well then he would write back to you and make an effort with you.
Okay so your friend knows that you like him, but it sounds like she also likes him but is afraid of telling you. Maybe you need to talk to her and ask her does she like him and why does she keep flirting with him, he is not your property so she is allowed to flirt with him, but off course it is hurtful when she is your friend, so you need to talk to her about it and ask her why she is doing this.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (18 April 2016):
 Well, I'm seeing two different issues here.
1) Seems like your friend does like him. Maybe she feels bad because she knows you like him, so she keeps saying she doesn't? Or maybe she doesn't even recognize the jealousy that she's facing? Either way, if she has feelings for him and is telling you otherwise, if she is truly your best friend - I don't thinks she's doing it to hurt you.
If they really are just platonic friends, she may know something you don't. Which brings me to item #2.
2) The bigger issue here is that you keep texting him and he keeps not replying. I'm guessing that he's just not that into you, sweetness. It's only a guess, but if he's not going out of his way to engage in a little conversation with you? Maybe he wants to kiss you, but if he doesn't even want to talk to you... that's no good at all, and you deserve way better. I'm sure there are plenty of cuties at the disco, I think you should try moving on to one of them.
Good luck, sweetness!
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