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writes: I hung out with this guy, that I'm starting to have a crush on, and out mutual friend the other day. We were all talking about Hawaii and I mentioned that one my my ex lives in Hawaii and my crush asked me about my past relationships and it took me off guard. He also asked me how many Guy's I've dated before and told me to tell him the truth, so I did. He didn't really have a reaction after I told him so I asked him how many girls he's dated and he said 0. He's never had an actual girlfriend before I'm starting to feel bad and felt like I should've lied about the amount of guys I've dated. Anyways on my way home the car was getting stuffy so he asked me if he could lower the window because it might mess up my hair. He does really sweet things like this and I can't help but fall for him more. But I don't know if he actually likes me back. What do you think?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 April 2016):
 No never lie, it is never a good way to go. Okay so he has no experience but that doesn't mean that you have put him off at all. It could be just that he is shy as well.
Keep getting to know him, be friendly with him, flirt and then see how it goes. Remember telling the truth is always much better. Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (16 April 2016):
 You really shouldn't have to LIE about your number of sexual partners/boyfriends. Lying about that is pointless. It is what it is.
If HE has a problem with your number, well then THAT is his problem. It can be that he feels intimidated by it because he hasn't HAD any relationships. He might feel he can't measure up.
Does he like you back? Hard to say, but I think he was trying to show you (with the whole window thing) that he is not a selfish person.
I'd say keep talking and get to know him. Either you two will make good friends or more. Only time will tell.
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