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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi everyone , so im waiting to go on my 2nd date tonight the thing is the guy im meeting did say to me he was busy last night wouldnt hear from him much as he was at his friends house and i said thats ok id text him today.I've texted him twice and heard nothing (my phone tells me when someone gets the message i sent ) he 'promised' he would turn up am i just worrying myself or does it sound like he doesnt plan on turning up. i dont tend to listen to people when they say they promise as i know its just a word , i know all the other stuff his phone could have died he could have lost his phone it could have broke ive heard all 'excuses' from people before.im just worried he's bailing even though he's been honest with me since day one about anything and everything I'm not the most confident of people either which doesnt help but he did say a 2nd date would happen
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 April 2016):
 Good for you!
You held YOUR end of the date (by showing up) and he didn't, which means... you can now in good conscience block and delete his number.
And good luck with the new date.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2016): update , i turned up to meet him he didnt turn up so i went home random thing is i met a lovely bloke on my way home and got a date , happy days
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 April 2016):
 Don't do to much to soon or you will come across as clingy and needy at this stage you need to play it cool. So don't keep texting him. You have texted him twice which already is way to much. Try relax. Okay so you may not have much confidence but this won't work out unless you take a step back. Try get to know him slowly, don't expect to much. Get ready and see if he turns up if he doesn't well then you know he is not to be trusted.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2016):
If you have set plans for a date tonight, I'd just get ready and expect him to show. Now IF it DOES turn out that he doesn't show... feel free to block and delete his number.
But IF I were you I'd chill a bit, it's ONLY the second date.
You have already texted him today, so I'd back off and not text any further.
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