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*assidy123456
writes:I've known Jon for a while now and we are friends. I was passing by his desk one time and he was talking to another co-worker and then he saw me and he was like "Oh, I like your shirt. The colors on it." And I just said thank you and left. I had to go back to a computer at the front and he noticed me and ignored me when I passed by, even thought I was obviously there. Later on, I went to the front desk and he began to talk to me about different things, like asking about my classes and how work was going. That day he showed me his new phone and he was like "you inspired me to get a new one." (this was after I had shown him mine, a couple of days before.) The next day, We were both talking for a while until a lady interrupted and I had to go help her. After that, I went back to the front desk to submit paperwork and Jon started talking to me again. He asked if I had this game app on my phone and he probably wanted to add me. He explained all about it to me and then some other co-workers joined us. Jon sat next to me, we almost touched shoulders, while he let me watch him play against Steve, another coworker. While they were playing, another girl stood over another co worker's shoulder, watching him play and then Jon told her he couldn't help Instead, Jon was like "only Kathy (which is me) can help me." Soon it was closing time and Jon was in the middle of another game so he was like "take over for me while I close the door." He handed me his phone and left. So he left and I played the game, which I ended up losing. Later on, the other girl needed to take some mail to the mail room and she didn't want to go alone so she asked all of us if someone wanted to go with her. I didn't say anything and neither did Jon. After a while, another co worker went with her. Jon and I stayed and he began to speak to me again, kind of soft 'cause I couldn't really hear him. He teased me for losing in the game and then when I "apologized" he just laughed and said it was ok. He spoke to me about some "personal" stuff that he's been having to deal with lately. He put his head on the table at times and then he would look up at me. When we stayed alone, I casually looked at my feet during the conversation and I saw Jon extending his foot towards me, almost touching my foot. He told me about what he was planning to do after work. He also added me on our social media accounts and then he had to leave. Does he like me or am I exaggerating?? please help. i've never "dated" anyone to actually know about this stuff. Thanks in advance! :) and sorry for the length
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reader, Kassidy123456 +, writes (3 April 2016):
Kassidy123456 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Our boss is really laid back and he knows that business can be slow. He doesn't mind when we do that on the days that no one stops by our office.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 April 2016):
 It is a good start, you both see, to be communicating well. Just play it cool and see how it goes. Keep getting to know each other, and see how it goes. You are still young and all this should be exciting so good luck and I hope it works out.
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reader, Kassidy123456 +, writes (2 April 2016):
Kassidy123456 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much miss frank :)
I really appreciate it
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2016): He probably does like you. Don't get too excited and try to see how it goes. However I am more concerned you and you co-workers playing phone games while being paid to work-a sure recipe for getting fired.
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reader, miss frank  +, writes (2 April 2016):
Hi there - he definitely sounds like he likes you to me! And to him you would appear to be playing it cool, not inexperienced. If you are now on social media together, don't go mad and like or comment on all his stuff! Instead maybe give it a day or two then like or comment on something less is more, as he'll notice and like that you've done that. Maybe make it funny or engaging the comment you make. Maybe get him to 'remind' you of the game you played for him, saying you liked it and will add the app if he fancies a game. These little types of things will show him he isn't wasting his time and he'll persue you, hopefully asking you out properly. Remember less is more- you are a catch! Be ready with a smile and warmth that will hook him in, but let him do the chasing!
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