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writes:dear cupid, I like this guy his a bus driver I know him about 3 years we talk a lot on the phone not every day but ever other day so on holidays I get him gifts but now he what’s me to get this other women gift she also a bus driver which she's my nieces and nephews bus driver she thinks its from the kids why dose he do this when I give him gifts I give to my nieces and nephews they give to her and she give to him she thank it from kids. is he doing this try to see if keep my promise so he know if can trust me if other girl say they will but never keep their promise or is he up to some else. please help me find out why he is doing this thank you very much.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (29 April 2016):
 Maybe this bus driver is married and this other female driver knows his wife, therefore if you are giving her a gift then it does not make it look suspicious that he is getting one as well.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 April 2016):
 I find this whole story bizarre.
How is it ANY of his business WHOM you give presents to? Why do you HAVE to prove that he can "trust" you to "follow orders"?
Are you sweet on the guy and hoping he will return the affection? Is that why you give him gifts? Or are you just wanting to be a nice and kind passenger showing your appreciation for his polite manners as a bus driver?
And WHY do you not tell him that AS A "gift giver" YOU get to pick and choose whom you bestow gifts on?
But like Tisha said, ASK the man for a straight answer, but STOP thinking you HAVE to prove any kind of "trust" by buying some other woman a present. It's weird!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 April 2016):
 “So, Lance, why are we playing these odd games with the gift-giving? It’s puzzling me, I don’t understand why you feel the need to do this. Can you please explain this so I can get where it is you are coming from?”
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