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36-40,
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writes:There's a guy who works in the same company as me, just in a different office (same city) and he's my superior. He's definitely older but I'm not sure how old.. he doesn't wear a wedding ring. All this to say that we've exchanged a couple of flirty emails and I think there's a spark there. The problem is that now I'm leaving the company and I don't want to lose the opportunity for something to happen. Is it really forward to ask him for a drink just before I leave? I'm also worried that I've invented the spark as he is quite a charming person.. Also he may not be interested in someone younger. Help! I keep thinking about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2016): Go for it!!! You might get a pleasant surprise :)
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reader, RubyBirtle  +, writes (13 April 2016):
I don't see why you shouldn't ask him out for a drink together before you leave. Some people might think it's "forward" but it's only a drink you're suggesting so I think you should go for it.
But as for your other questions: Would he be interested in someone your age? Is the spark you feel real or imagined? None of the aunties on here would be able to answer them for you with any certainty.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (13 April 2016):
 You have nothing to lose here at all. You are leaving the company so even if he does turn your offer down at least you won't have to face him everyday. I say go for it, ask him for a drink, the worst he can say is no. Who knows you both might hit it off. Age shouldn't be an issue as you are both adults. Good luck.
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