A
female
age
30-35,
*sLithium
writes:Hello, i have a very strange problem which i would like some advice on. There is this guy i met recently. We have become fast friends even though we have only met a few times. He's sweet, charming, and we are into a lot of the same things. I am pretty certain he has a thing for me as well. It might seem everything is well, but the thing that is odd to me is this: i get a very weird feeling when i think of him. I wasn't initially attracted to him, and i really am not sure if i am now; but i get this odd feeling that's more intense than when i've had a crush or felt butterflies before. It feels like butterflies or a pleasant tingle, but has a strange sense of calmness about it. Just this sense of peace and excitedness, like i mentioned before i really didn't think i was attracted to him but my gut seems to be telling me otherwise. Any suggestions as to what it could be?
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 April 2016):
 Its not a strange problem at all, you are just confused because it sounds like he is not the type of guy you would see as attractive yet your body is reacting different. My advice would be to trust your gut and go with the flow. This could turn out to be the perfect man for you, just take it slowly and see how you both get on, see how the friendship progresses.
A
male
reader, Denizen  +, writes (14 April 2016):
 Sip the wine, don't gulp. In other words proceed in a resolute but cautious way. This is new territory for you. You need to examine your feelings. Trust your gut, but one step at a time.
Sorry if I'm mixing my metaphors. I think you understand what I'm trying to say though?
...............................
|
