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writes:Hello,I told a guy on his birthday like this:" that you special and that God created you and sent you as a gift to all who know you .On your birthday, I want to thank you that you have been able to change things in me that no one else could"The guy answers me" You are so sweet. Thanks for your beautiful words that warm my heart"What does he mean by saying that? Is he interested?Thanks for your answers :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2016): His response is very generic and shows no interest whatsoever.
If he is interested he would follow up with an invitation to a drink or dinner.
However, based on his response, I doubt he is interested.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (14 April 2016):
 I have to agree. He's either not interested or just not as interested as you clearly are.
The message was a bit over the top in my opinion which may have made him uncomfortable. If someone said all that to me I'd be putting some distance between us.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (13 April 2016):
 Forgot to add: if he liked you, he would have returned the gesture by saying you are special as well, and added something about his heart as well. It was right there in the open, as you have pretty much declared your love for him already in your card. No love declarations in return means he is politely declining.
This is flirting basics. No return of similar or exact words = not interested.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (13 April 2016):
Nope, not interested, just appreciating the gesture.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 April 2016):
 It is difficult to say, however I think if you like him, then you should ask him out, what is the worst that can happen? go for it, you only live once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2016): Sorry I forgot to say that he has earlier shown several things that shows his interest.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 April 2016):
 That is impossible to say.
I think he was being very polite in his answer. That is really all I can glean from it.
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