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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

What do I say? When he asks me why I like him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3319 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I am 26 years old and I have always been a little socially awkward and reserved!i met this guy that I really like and care about a lot but let's just say I am unable to express that to him,he asked me why do I like him so much and I have no ...

She's stopped making eye contact! How do I let her know I really like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

30 September 2015 (M) - Hello - Please help!! I have a girl in my office who earlier smiles at me while having eye contacts, she even mirrored me, she use to play with hairs while looking at me, she tried to talk to me. But, when i tried to make an eye contact with her, ...

I'm attracted to another mother at the school. I want to make a move, but how?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - I have recently met a mother at my children's school. I am so attracted to her. I first met her when I was just coming in from an errand and I was parking my car and then I saw her stop, waiting on me to park. She was one of the most beautiful woman ...

Why did he disappear when I expressed interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him ...

I'm not happy and his dog also causes me problems. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3328 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone Hope someone could give me some good advice me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 4 years we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old and he Has a dog a rottweiler that he had when we met we moved in together. He is at work all day ...

Can I save this situation? What can I do if the girl I like is starting to show less interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

29 September 2015 (M) - Dear all To summarize, a girl i like may be losing interest. what should i do? I met this girl online 15 days ago, she lives about 1 hour away. we did not meet via a dating website, she chose to contact me as she had just moved to the area. ...

I'm 14 and in UK. He's 17 and in USA. How can I manage the crush I have for him? The first thing he asked is "did I want to see his .

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Okay so I have been talking to this guy on Snapchat and Instagram he's 17 and lives in America first thing you need to know is he's a boy and I think I've kinda fallen for him. He asked me if I wanted to see his dick and of corse I said no then...

Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Is my local Starbucks barista flirting with me? So everything I go to my local Starbucks the same guy is there. When I first encountered him he told me that my nails was pretty. I'm guessing that that is a icebreaker. And another time he told he ...

I am falling in love with my housemate.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Ok so I've just started uni and I've already got feelings for one of my housemates which is essentially breaking the cardinal rule of freshers. It started when he was being really sweet trying to encourage me to get involved with of the flat (I'm ...

If I don't hear from her, do you think it's ok to message her again tomorrow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - Hi I met a girl on a language exchange site, usually it's for meeting people in other countries but a girl who had moved to study near to me from another country, saw my profile and sent me a message. She asked for my number and we've been chatt...

How do I message a girl I've never talked to before without seeming creepy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - So there is this girl who I follow on Instagram and have thought was gorgeous for a good year now. She is best friends with a friend of mine (whom I still talk with occasionally). I got out of a year and a half long relationship at the beginning ...

I lack the confidence to ask someone out. What needs to change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3334 days ago

26 September 2015 (M) - I'm a 19 year old man and have been stuck in limbo for the last 10 months, just over a year ago I met a girl who came over to the UK to learn English. She was only staying for 6 months and I was teaching her how to work in my old job (waiter/...

Should I try to talk to this guy who's pictures fascinate me? Could he be interested in me? I've never met him nor talked to him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3335 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Few months ago I saw a picture who someone shared in a blog, they said the guy of the picture looks like a singer who was famous at 20's (I don't think so, they're very different and I'm not a fan of that singer, just opened it searchin...

I want to do things right, this time, with this intriguing girl, and not mess things up. What do I need to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3338 days ago

23 September 2015 (M) - So, today we were in English class and we discussed as an excersie the new Maze Runner film. A couple of classes ago she had asked me a lot of questions (i'm the only boy at the classroom) and we seem kinda have the same interests. We talked a...

LD Crush. Should I consider this guy as a friend and nothing else? Age differences and difference cultures.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - A few years back I used to work with a nice guy. We always got along great and I don't know if the feeling was mutual or not, but I was always attracted to him. At the time he was married (and I knew who is wife was, talked to her on several ...

Could you forgive someone who lied about their age and their name? Turns out she the daughter of my boss!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - I met this girl "J" at a bar back in late July. She is beautiful and has an amazing smile, I asked her to dance and we ended up talking all night. She told me she was 23. We exchanged numbers and the very next day I called her. We ended up Hoo...

She's trying to steal my man!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid, Ive been in my relationship for a year and a month. I've fallen in love with my boyfriend and we have no problems except his best friends fiance diana is also in love with him! When I come around she gives me the dirtiest looks and she ...

When did dating become so confusing? Do I cut him off or give him a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - I have known this man for 2 yrs, we were friends first. We dating a bit last year and were physical when were seeing each other. All was going well and then he disappeared on me. We kept in touch but it looked like he was dating other peop...

Advice please? should I contact him first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - So I went on a date with a guy on Saturday night, it's now Monday evening and I still haven't heard anything- should I contact him first? Any advice appreciated Thank you...

Could his reaction, to me touching him, be regarded as him flirting with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I like this guy and i met him 3 weeks ago in my college and he has 2 of the same lessons as me. We take the same bus home and i sit next to him. Today, i sat next to him and kept touching him and he was like stop touching me or i'll punch you. ...

How do I stop obsessing over a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hello Agony Aunts. I've been talking to this guy online for the past couple of months. We get along great. Him and I message and call each other. I can tell he likes me. We live really far from each other. But talk on a daily basis. I've star...

Desires versus beliefs, what are my options?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

21 September 2015 (M) - I am in love with several different ladies. I want to make love to all of them. Yet I am a strict Christian, and have not acted on my desires, yet it is getting harder not to. What should I do....

Should I assume he likes me? What should I do the next time I catch him starring and smiling at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, What should I do the next time I catch him starring and smiling at me? I started a phd program in a new school a few weeks ago, and in the department almost everyday a lot of the grad students and some prof's gather for coffee or...

How do I manage the huge crush I have on my cousin, who I have never met?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3339 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Oh where the heck to begin? Ok, so this is kind of messed up. I'll go back to the beginning so you get all the facts. About 3 years ago, I reconnected with a cousin that I didn't know existed. He didn't know we existed. So, in 3 years we have ta...

Why do guys give the promiscuous flirty girls so much attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Do guys usually like the flirty and promiscuous type of girls? I need some advice because I hate to say I'm a little jealous of this girl I know who gets so much attention from my guy friends and just a lot of guys in general. She sleeps around wi...

I need some dating advice and some clues to help me decipher body language. Can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi guys and girls I am a female aspie (mildly autistic). I am hoping to get some dating advice here. Here's the thing, there's this cute guy at work, I totally have a crush on him. But having Aspergers, I am pretty bad at deciphering body language. ...

Is falling for/crushing on other people really inevitable in long term relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - I am a 20 year old girl. I have had a few past relationships, and have been in my current relationship for a year. My boyfriend is 23. Just to be clear before I start: When I talk about "crushes", I mean the whole "can't stop thinking about he...

How do I get enough guts to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

17 September 2015 (M) - Hi guys iam 15 year old guy I like a girl which is very-very Beautiful I just want to talk to her but can't get enough guts she even noticed that sometimes I look at her with lustrous eyes but she ignore it Plz suggest me some ways that how I ...

My ex has confused me. Why would he block me? Was he mad that I defriended him on FB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - I would really appreciate it if I could get an outside perspective of this situation I'm going through. I'm really upset and don't understand what's wrong with this guy. I recently turned 20 and my ex is 21. I met him during the end of January (...

Boyfriend admitted that he's attracted to another woman but says it ends there and has no feelings for her. Do I believe him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend (not sure what to call him right now) have been dating for over a year now. We have had our ups and downs but have a lot of love for each other. I just broke up with him last week because I found out that 8 months ago he had a crush o...

I like what I see but I don't want him to know that I'm paying attention

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - Its this guy at work,he's handsome and im the kinda flirty type but I can't bring myself to say nothing to him,not only look his way,but u can talk and kid with every other guy but him.it seems as though he try to make sure that I see him everyday ...

Is this what men are really like in their thoughts and feelings?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I have only had one bf before and I'm just really confused if it is my lack of experience or in fact, what men are. My new bf been with him for over a year. We live together and he tells me how I'm perfect and how much he loves me and wants to be ...

Guy does lots of eye contact, but never start a conversation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - Hello, recently I've been thinking about this guy a lot, nonstop. I've liked this guy for years, but finally I decided to try to give him signs that I do like him. So a year ago, after I've worked on my confidence issues and tried to be more open ...

I'm in love with a difficult housemate and I don't know if I should move out or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

14 September 2015 (M) - Around 9 months ago I received a facebook message from someone I've never met before and a friend request :" Hey man, how are you? You were proposed as a friend and I think I remember having you as a tinder match. ;) You seem like a nice person, so ...

I kissed my crush when drunk and now he says he wants to forget everything that happened

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3347 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - heyy So yesterday I and a guyfriend got really drunk at a party, and we ended up making out outside.I have always had this mini crush for him, but he is kindaf obsessed with this other girl who doesn´t like him back. He says he wants to forget e...

How to get over this crush on my bank teller?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3347 days ago

14 September 2015 (M) - recently i have my own bank account and i mostly go to the bank to cash in my check on fridays and one of my bank tellers is a beautiful young lady who is kind sweet and gentle to me and helps me despot my money and sometimes she calls me dear and ...

How do I address his questions, with answers, when he is sober?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3349 days ago

12 September 2015 (F) - So I have been on about 8 to 9 dates with this guy I have been recently seeing..he usually is not a drinker but this time when he was out with his friends to a party he invited me but I did not go he got drunk..and he sent me a text saying "how much ...

What could or should I do? Isn't life too short? Does her response offer me any hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3349 days ago

12 September 2015 (M) - Right, there's a girl that I like, she's been dating a guy that I've been told was messing her around. She put it on the line to him and said that she doesn't want to be messed around any more and his reply was 'I do like you' so I don't know if h...

How can I get over this silly, school girl crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - Hi there. So I think my friend has feelings for me, and it's kind of a sticky situation because he's not only my friend, but my boyfriend's friend as well. I'm in a happy relationship of 3 years with a wonderful guy who treats me well. He has a b...

He always stares at me, but never talks to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - Hi, so I've been in love with this guy for so long, I'm so confused if he likes me or just being friendly. So a year ago, I would always catch him staring and glancing at me a lot. I'm a very shy person so I just avoid eye contact. The past few ...

He said I am not on his list?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - Hey Aunts, Ok, so there was this guy who I was close to and really liked. He said he liked me too or at least thats what I thought. However, lately when I've tried to talk to him or be all lovey dovey, he said that I am not on his list and I j...

I don't want to break them up, but I don't like how she says that she loves me but is with another person.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3352 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - My best friend just started dating someone, and I'm so happy for her, the only thing is that a week before she was asked out from her boyfriend, she confessed that she loves me and asked me out. I sadly had to say no because I wasn't up for dating ...

Is he thinking of Inferiority because of our education gap?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3354 days ago

7 September 2015 (F) - Hello, I am here again since I got a good advice from here hope I will get from this too. Here is the case I have a boyfriend (I don't know if I call him my BF) we work together he is a driver I have Msc. At first we never even say Hi thought give ...

I've been dumped before but this time is different!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

7 September 2015 (F) - I can’t believe I’m writing in, but my situation is desperate! I’ve been in relationships before that have lasted far longer than the one I was recently in. I’ve dealt with rejection and being dumped by guys I really like and got over them but this...

I have feelings but he wont open up.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

7 September 2015 (F) - Can anyone tell me what these texts mean? . I have feelings for a man and his dad sent one text saying good luck and hope it goes well. Dont spend all your money on her.Another text he sent said don't be upset if it doesn't work out. The man I li...

What message should I send with a bouquet of flowers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

6 September 2015 (M) - There's a girl that lives in my village that I like, she's been kind of seeing a player, from what I've heard on the grapevine, he's unreliable and just likes to party. anyway, I'm a pretty romantic kind of a guy, that's just how I am, and I'm ...

Does taking such a long time to reply indicate he's not interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

5 September 2015 (M) - I have started dating (I am gay) and I have met this guy and we spoke for a couple of months, we finally met the other day and I enjoyed (a little awkward at first) but we spent hours together and at the end of it, he kissed me and he said it was so ...

I don't want to have sex before marriage. what is the best way to deal with my crush on this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - I have a problem. I'm in love with this guy and he's been broken hearted so many times he's developed this dick mentality. Hot, ready to f^^^ and worships him. I'm a virgin and don't want to give it up till marriage. I consider myself average and ...

I know the crush is wrong, so how do I get over it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3357 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - Hello! So, my issue is my boyfriend's friend. I have a bit of a crush on him and I feel like that may be reciprocated. My boyfriend and I have been together for years and have a life together, so I'm not going to leave him for someone else, but I ca...

I have a crush on my friend's Bf. How to deal with this and stop feeling jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

4 September 2015 (F) - I have a huge crush on my friends boy friend and I'm trying to avoid from getting jealous,but every time I go home I start crying.can someone help me with my problem or help me avoid getting jealous?I want to tell her that I like him but I'm scared ...