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writes:So I went on a date with a guy on Saturday night, it's now Monday evening and I still haven't heard anything- should I contact him first? Any advice appreciated Thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2015): Hi, well I look at it this way, not to long ago, I met this woman, I've been trying through a dating site, it went really good, I think, we keep texting each other, but then she went, on two vacations, in the second vacation, I mentioned to her, when you get back in town, tex me,well never heard from her again, so yes call him , he probably would like the idea of you getting a hold of him,men like it, when the woman, gets ahold of us first, that shows you are interested, call him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2015): if this guy hasnt contacted you he may be playing keep it mean to keep em keen! Dont be tempted to break the ice first unless you agreed that you would phone him.There is no crises, he just wants to see if he has sufficient pull to get you into bed quicker and maybe pay for the treat too..so leave it be for now.
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reader, BE125  +, writes (22 September 2015):
I'm going to take this at a different angle than the previous post because I'm not sure we have enough information about how the date went in order to give you good advice. Did he indicate he wanted to go out again? Or perhaps ask you when you were available again? You obviously exchanged numbers which I would see as not negative but I think we need a little more detail as to what he said and/or did. It's a little hard to make a determination with the information given. Sometimes things happen unexpectedly like illness or a family emergency etc. so I would not get too worried just yet, let's start with more detail
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (22 September 2015):
 Hi,i would encourage you to 'NOT' contact him, but allow 'HIM' to ring you, if and when he's free and able, pertaining to the simple fact, that he is truly interested in you.If you don't hear from him at all, after say 1 full week, take that as a strong sign, that he most likely isn't interested to get to know you better.It is quite simple actually. When a man is very keen and very interested in a woman, he 'WILL' contact her, even if not immediately.Not immediately, meaning a number of days, but not weeks on end.If you don't hear from him in more than 1 full week, i would take this as a big warning sign, that he isn't too keen, because if he were, he wouldn't wish to wait it out so long.He would want to hear your voice again and re-connect with you. He would display, very soon after, his deep interest in you.Even if he did finally contact you after more than 7 days, you'd still have to ask yourself, why did he take so long to ring me?I do hope you hear from him soon, but if he fails to ring, don't take it personally and know that you're better off without somebody who isn't interested in you and this leaves you free to find your ideal suitor, somebody much better suited to you.All the best! :-)
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reader, yasiper26 +, writes (22 September 2015):
I wouldn't.
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