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*ennyboyca
writes:Right, there's a girl that I like, she's been dating a guy that I've been told was messing her around. She put it on the line to him and said that she doesn't want to be messed around any more and his reply was 'I do like you' so I don't know if he's going to up his game.Anyway, I found this out after I ordered her a bouquet of flowers to be delivered to her the following day.. That night, she sent me a message on Facebook saying 'I really wasn't expecting flowers, I love them' then she said 'it's such a shame you didn't tell me you liked me before because I would have gone out with you but I'm already seeing someone' then went on to say again 'I really do love 'my' flowers'..I really do like this girl and wouldn't mess her around, life's so short and I was just wondering 1. What you guys think to her response and 2. What you think I could or should do?Thanks.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (12 September 2015):
 "I do like you" does not mean they are exclusive. It's used a lot for casual guys who offer positive remarks without promising anything. Did she tell you that's what he said? She's hesitating because she has feelings for him, and is afraid of losing chances with him if she dates you. It is a headache dealing with two guys. It confuses her and makes her weak. What you could do is downplay the whole dating thing because she's making this a big deal to make her life simpler and convenient. Say a date is not what you are looking for. It's nothing serious and there's no pressure. Just say there's an event that you want to go to and it would be great if she can come.
In her message she was saying to you that you two could have potential but her heart is occupied. Your goal is to gradually make her stop thinking about him and more about you.
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