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writes:Dear Cupid,Few months ago I saw a picture who someone shared in a blog, they said the guy of the picture looks like a singer who was famous at 20's (I don't think so, they're very different and I'm not a fan of that singer, just opened it searching for another post in that blog). So I became fascinated for that guy and searched who was him. I found him and started to follow him. One day, I liked a very old picture of him at Instagram for acident, and disliked it after. So he started to like my old pictures (and sometimes dislike it after), but he do it on a high often. My friends say I should talk with him, but I don't guess so. He lives at United States, and I know it will not result nothing because of the distance. Do you think I have to talk with him? Can he be interested on me?I really hope you can help me.Thank you since now. Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella  +, writes (26 September 2015):
 I think it is not unusual for a teen to have a mild crush on a celebrity who they will never meet.
People online and celebrities may come to your attention but that alone is not a reason to try to get closer to such persons.
Your friends sound like they are encouraging you to reach out to a stranger who you do not know. That can be risky for you.
Celebrities fare even worse when a person tries to track them down and stalks them, Stalking of course is illegal.
what do you know of this person ? You "liked" some pictures. Is that enough to know who the person is?
I do not think you have to talk to him at all.
He may even find it a little creepy if you over-step the mark and want to talk to him a lot.
Is there a group that you could join in your country and meet up face to face where they too collect old pictures?
Old photos do fascinate people and leave an enormous legacy for the future, such as this collection in New York:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2134408/Never-seen-photos-100-years-ago-tell-vivid-story-gritty-New-York-City.html
Some of the 1920s pictures look so contemporary that they could have been photos taken today. Others look more recognizably 1920s
http://mentalfloss.com/article/30856/18-fabulous-photos-famous-flappers
Try to develop relationships with people closer to home and aim to develop friendships with people who you have come to know and trust.
A photography club might allow you to discover more about photography and how to take better photoo yourself.
I think it better that you not pursue this person in another country. As you mention - "because of the distance" that is true that it may come to nothing due to the distance.
But you certainly could learn more about photography and learn to take even better pictures yourself. Just a thought?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2015): I recently went through a similar situation. I talked with him for around 4 months and we were becoming kind of "pally". But he wanted to skype... but I'm not as confident as him and I kind of declined many times. So then now he doesn't even say hi or like my pictures etc.I miss him. But I don't know why he stopped talking. He was saying he was gonna start dating. So I'm assuming he has found someone to date.Yea heartbreaks and all. but nothing serious. However now when I see him online I have to immediately go offline, and I can't even unfriend him because it would seem rather dramatic? So I'm stuck thinking I should have never started talking in the first place :|. This is a downer I know... it was nice talking to hi though. So maybe go ahead.. but be prepared to see it fizzle by 4 months.
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