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female
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36-40,
*inderela
writes:Hello, I am here again since I got a good advice from here hope I will get from this too. Here is the case I have a boyfriend (I don't know if I call him my BF) we work together he is a driver I have Msc. At first we never even say Hi thought give me service then we begin say Hi then we begin to have coffee then dinner.. months go then he begin to tell me he like me lately I begin to tell him I like him too, then one day he took me to dinner where his boos and others are invited.Before his boss left I told him it's gonna late and he have took me home he say ok then we left we kiss at his car for the first time and it was more than kissing but not sex. His boss called and he told him I'm his GF and he is taking me home and he will be back in min. then after a week he come to office and ask me when is my graduation I told him then I have a photo of my graduation then he took a photo with his phone and told me he need to keep it on his on his phone we didn't meet for the next 2 weeks we due to work we some time meet on phone but there are times that he didn't pick up his phone which make me angry thought I know he work late and have guests. Before he finish the work we meet one day he took me to hotel where the organization gives them till the work finished. we kiss and I ask him that our relationship must be serious and what he thinks. He told me that he want to have a serious relation ship and we need to think of our feature... I agree we didn't have sex till now except kissing.Then I told him about my graduation and give him card for the ceremony entrance but he didn't come even never say congratulation on phone or message I rely hurt me and begin to think if he is not rely serious with me. it's been 5 day since we see each other and call, I meet him on work never get chance to talk, some times he never pick up my phone I rely become hate to call him. What Shall I Do? some times I think of stop every thing and move on but I do Love him. Is he thinking of Inferiority because of our education gap?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2015): You really should ask him if he feels uncomfortable in anyway being with you. You have to open communication between the two of you; so there are no misunderstandings. Ask him why he hasn't picked up some of your calls or answered messages? It's better to ask and get his reasons; than to guess, form your own opinions, and be angry. You might be wrong. Let him know you would appreciate an answer within the day, if he's too busy. Don't just ignore you.
Slow your feelings down some. You don't want to get too far ahead of his. He may still be figuring out how serious he wants to be. You've only been dating for a short time, and you really can't be too demanding. You had better get it clear whether he really considers you his girlfriend. Ask him straight-out; so he you can get a clear yes or no answer. Not a maybe!
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