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writes:Hey Aunts, Ok, so there was this guy who I was close to and really liked. He said he liked me too or at least thats what I thought. However, lately when I've tried to talk to him or be all lovey dovey, he said that I am not on his list and I just want to know what that means. I am so clueless... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Everyone ! Your advice is much Appreciated !
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2015): If you have had sex then you are no longer on his 'to do' list. He's definitely not worth your time.
Get some self esteem... don't be a needy doormat
Find a guy who values you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2015): He means that he's got girls lining up for him and you are not one of them, therfore he doesnt intend to shag or romance you as you are just a friend. Cut d lovey dovey stuff out and you might still have a friend or act all hurt and he might wonder if hes got time to fit you in ..or better still date someone else.
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reader, Slippers +, writes (10 September 2015):
Not on his list .. means your not a priority or an interest for him, sweetie.
Best thing to say is .. I don't wait inline anyway .. If he ever sends it again .. and I'd move on .. clearly he has .. put it down to experience and then kiss the ground your not dating him and even more invested ..
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reader, Zoroll +, writes (9 September 2015):
 Maybe the confusion was mixed signals between you both, and both of you never really knew what was happening, didn't know how to act and that's how it got all tangled up.
If you feel like giving him a second chance, speak to him - but if the signs are clear he doesn't feel the same way as you then girl, you need to show him what he's missing!
Don't get too tied up into one guy, try moving on from it and you may become a lot happier!
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (9 September 2015):
Why are you being "lovey dovey?" Are you dating this guy, or do you think that you are? Or do you mean that you are flirting to try and get his attention? In short, I’m afraid his comments are his way of telling you that he’s not interested. Forget about him and move on.
I wish you all the very best.
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