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writes:I am in love with several different ladies. I want to make love to all of them. Yet I am a strict Christian, and have not acted on my desires, yet it is getting harder not to. What should I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2015): Do you reckon you'll hop on one in a frenzy of lust? Just pick the one you love most of all and convince her to marry you so you stay a devout Christian. Or do what the rest of us do and find one to date and hope God will understand and forgive
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2015): Hello, I think you should do other activities to take your mind off sex. Do some charity work maybe. Change your focus to fight lust. Also find one woman who is practicing celibacy and develop a relationship with her. This will keep you on track.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (21 September 2015):
First of all...Christian or not...Women are not your play things for you to go around having as much sex with as many as you can...that is just...stupid.
Second...you cannot be in love with all of them...that is called LUST...and as a so called Christian...you should know that is the number one sin to lead you down the wrong road.
My advice to you...choose one and stay with one. As a Christian you should know this...
I am sure you would not like it one bit if you found out one your many women was having sex with as many men as possible.
Remember that meaning of the commandments...Treat other the way you would like to be treated.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (21 September 2015):
Well, if you’re unwilling to compromise your beliefs, you obviously can’t make love to them, but if you aren’t just interested in having sex you could decide which, if any of them, you might like to date with a view to forming a relationship. If that person wants to date you, you can spend time getting to know her before it leads to love-making. How many of them are you actually in love with, and how many are you actually just lusting after? I think this is the first thing you need to think about.
If you can’t satisfy your sexual urges for now, do you masturbate? This is probably going to be the best solution for you. I know Christian views on this subject vary enormously; in the Catholic Church to which I belong, that too is considered a serious sin, but I firmly believe that many people, myself included, privately disagree. Other churches do not condemn it in the same way.
I believe that unfulfilled urges that get out of control can cause a lot of anxiety, frustration and be a distraction, so I would encourage anyone struggling with that to try taking care of themselves until they’re able to make love to some-one else.
I wish you all the very best.
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