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writes: Oh where the heck to begin?Ok, so this is kind of messed up. I'll go back to the beginning so you get all the facts. About 3 years ago, I reconnected with a cousin that I didn't know existed. He didn't know we existed. So, in 3 years we have talked almost constantly, almost everyday! Told him things about me that I've never told anyone, and him the same with me. We've just always kind of had a strong bond from day one. I've never met him, but plan a visit really soon!Thing is, and I know it's completely wrong, and would never act on it, but I fell in love with him a long time ago! I believe he is my soul mate! What you need to understand is, that I know it's wrong. I don't say or do anything that would give my feelings away. I'm very guarded and I wouldn't want to hurt him or family by telling anyone :/ I guess I just needed to vent more than anything, just to get it off my chest! If I grew up with him, I know these feelings wouldn't be there, but.... I just don't know what to do!Thank you for listening
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2015): Its not illegal to shag your cousin.Your family may disaaprove but it is not incest because you are from different parents.Its also ok to marry a cousin.
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