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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Why is he INNITIATING texts if he HATES talking to me?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - A guy I like and will start dating soon (after the holidays) always randomly texts, then IMMEDIATELY ends our conversations abrutly, with a "good night". We hardly talk now, if at all it is probably about once a week or twice at the most. As opp...

I need help - I feel like a fool

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - Hi. Need help! I really liked this friend of mine and he knew about it. We met a couple of times but he started behaving strangely later on. Stopped responding to my texts and every time it was me initiating a conversation and ending up feeling like ...

Is there some way to tell if he's ready for a girl friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3615 days ago

28 December 2014 (F) - I met this guy in 2013 (he's 45, I'm 42) and we've stayed in touch, texting back and forth. When I met him, he was going through his first year of separation, waiting to be divorced. We met at the worst possible time. This year in Aug-Sept, we ...

My friend doesn't feel the same way about me as I do about her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3616 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - i have been friend with a girl for over an year,i liked her from start but die to our families, we certainly cat get married.so i never told her that i like her,we both knew it but still my feelings for her grew, now i am cmpletely in love with her ...

Should I text my crush "Merry Christmas"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - So there's this guy who I have a crush on. He's about 5 months younger than me. We have a common friend who's trying to bring us closer to each other, because he knows I like my crush. When they were talking about girls and dating, my friend showed ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

I think she's perfect for me but she wants to be friends for now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

24 December 2014 (M) - I met this girl at work. Started talking to her I never thought we would like each other I was just making friends... in a short period of time (around 5 6 weeks) I ended up liking her. Alot. I never mentioned to or tried to it just happened. We ...

What's up with his behaviour? He has a Gf. Would it be weird to hang out with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I saw a guy friend today that has a GF, he admitted he liked me and that he didn't want to hurt me or his GF by cheating but still bothers me to hang out with him. Its like he is obsessed. We used to hang out alot but I stopped since his GF is home ...

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?...

Is he hinting he is interested even though I am married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3618 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - A few months ago I got to know a man at his place of work. I used to go there for business related issues, and we got to talking. He then got transferred to another location (also near by) and hinted for me to pass by and say hi. I thought nothing ...

How can I get him to show more affection for me and be lovey-dovey to me? we have been dating for 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very good at making moves? So weve been dating for a couple weeks now and before that weve been best friends for nearly 2 years. He asked me out, however he isn't really the "lovey dovey" kind of person. I want him to be and my f...

Why did he change so quickly? Now he has said we can still talk and we can be friends, but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I really need some advice? ok so I met this guy about 9 months ago, we started texting and then went out for some drinks where I ended up spending the night at his house. Nothing happened because I was a virgin (I know strange as I am 22) anyw...

When I'm with him I feel loved. I love him. But am I getting too attached if he does not yet feel able to say he loves me after 3 months of dating? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Hi thanks for reading. In a relationship with a guy three months this month. He's 25, I'm 24. We live other side of england in a sense so we go for weekends away. I did suggest dates etc (we only ever had one day date was our first date) sinc...

I'm 21 And Like a 31-Year-Old Guy, But I'm Not Sure If I Should Tell Him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Recently met this guy who's 31. He's kind, single and I really fancy him. We get on well. However, I'm only 21, and though I'm a nice person I can't compete with a lot of the older women he knows (he's quite borderline flirty with everyone sometim...

How do I find the strength to stop allowing guys to treat me as an option only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid at this point of time I feel like a complete loser at love.. my previous bad experience was when I was dating this guy for Abt 2years and he finally came n told me he was going to marry his relative or some girl then his parents chose fr...

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she sa...

I already have a boyfriend but what do I do about my crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Iam studying 3yr in college.iam already in a relationship with one boy.. I love him so much.he too loves me to core. But I'm sTudy ing in abroad. We are not together.here in college iam having a crush on my friend who is also having a ...

I've never talked to him. A bit shy too. Is there any way to determine if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Im a 19 year old female. So there is a guy that I really, really like. We have so much in common and he already knows that we do. At first, he thought that my friend liked him, though she doesn't , so he blocked her online and he once gave he...

We had a good date, kissed goodnight, but this morning I am blocked!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hi, hopefully going to be a short question! If not forgive me. So I started talking to this guy a few weeks ago. I know him through my ex but they aren't good friends they jusy know eachother. He asked when he could take me out we chose frida...

Flirting leading to some kissing at Christmas work function. Will my reputation be tarnished? How do I handle any reactions at work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Hello everyone. Ive been at my current office job for about 3 months now and we've just had our annual Christmas work do. I'm 22 and I have had a bit of a crush on one of my coworkers for a while. He is 45 and married. I'm also in a long term r...

Why not me...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3623 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Where do I start? This may be a long question, but I've been agonizing over this for over a year... I'm a graduate student and I think that I may be in love with a guy I go to school with. We habitually stay up until 2 or 3am texting one anot...

Is he interested? If so, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - There is a guy I am interested in who lives near me and we surf at the same break almost everyday. Whenever we see each other, he paddles up to chat to me. He seems a bit shy at first, but most of the time he makes good eye contact, smiles a lot and ...

First he was very keen. I wanted to proceed slowly. Yet now he seems to be becoming less interested. Why? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

19 December 2014 (F) - Hi I'd like some advice please. I've recently started dating a new man but I've had really bad experiences in past relationships and am extremely insecure. When we first started dating he was very full on - flowers, mix tapes(!), dinners, he treat...

Is he still looking out for me on Facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

18 December 2014 (F) - I was close to a guy on Facebook and having quite flirty chats with him - until he suddenly decided to move onto another girl who was obviously more appealing to him. I feel sad that we don't talk now like before, but I have noticed I am still on...

I really like her, but so does my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3624 days ago

18 December 2014 (M) - me and my friend are at the same uni, same course and same accomodation and we live next door to this girl who is a really nice girl and very pretty. my friend and her have a close friendship with each other. my friend feels that she likes him and i ...

I thought things were going well but now he's behaving strangely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Hey guys. So I recently started having a crush on the new guy at work. I've been working as an admin. assistant for 4 years now and he's a teacher. We're two of the youngest employees at my job (25) so it's nice having him around. We have been ...

Now that I have him, how do I keep him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I finally got my crush wrapped around my finger we make out, laugh,have fun and just have great sexual and emotional chemistry but my only concern is how can i keep him interested i finally got him now the problem is how do i keep him entertained so ...

What should I do from here? How do I choose between the two?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3624 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - Ok, im a sophomore in high school and I have hard core crushes on 2 guys. sense we are not supposed to use real names, I will use their first letters. My story is long, if you read it all bless your soul. Both guys and I are in band and during ...

Met someone new. Is feeling like maybe I might be the crazy one for thinking and feeling the way I am normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3626 days ago

17 December 2014 (F) - I was here in october questioning about my relationship with my boyfriend, basically if i still loved him. and I do not, in all honesty probaly hadnt in a while, had just gotten comfortable and put of the inevitable. I was back in November after th...

Why didn't he look for me, is he not interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - Why didn't he look for me, is he not interested in me? So my brother invited me a function at his church and I got talking to this lady and she said I was very beautiful and that there is a guy she'd like to set me up with. I caught her...

Would a letter be a good way to tell him how I feel?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - I might be going to meet a friend that ui realy like i have known him for 6 years and loved him for 5 years i was wondering how to tell him i realy like him and this is one of the rare occasions i get to see him . I was thinking of writing a letter ...

Thoughts about how to give her my number?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

16 December 2014 (M) - So there's this unbelievably cute girl that works at a drive thru near me. Shes 19 and im 24. She and I always chat it up when I go there and she's really friendly and funny. The other night after talking with her for a few minutes I popped the ...

I know its my hormones but sometimes I crave sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3626 days ago

16 December 2014 (F) - I'm 15, this is a weird question, I know. I sometimes crave sex a lot. Every time when I see my crush want to grab him and kiss him, when I think about having sex with him the feeling sometimes goes away but I still want to kiss him. I never ha...

I'm struggling on how or if I should tell her how I feel about her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3589 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - I'm struggling a little bit on how/if I should tell her I feel about her. My friends already refer to us as going steady. I wouldn't quite push it that far, but within the last month and a half, from the time we met, to now, things quickly e...

Unhappily married and strongly attracted to another woman

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

15 December 2014 (M) - Hi last week I went out for a Christmas meal and drinks with colleagues and it ended up with just me and a girl. We both work remotely from the office and see each other on the odd occasion but live near each other. Anyway we ended up have a couple...

I think I may have missed my chance

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - I was getting pretty close to a man in the last few months but was unsure if I wanted to just stay as close friends or go further with him which he was wanting to do. Anyway, because I was indecisive and unsure he has suddenly moved on to another ...

I really like him, but does he really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

15 December 2014 (F) - so i really like this but i don't know if he feels the same about me. i read online that if a guy like you he will try and touch you a lot and he never does that to me. he hasn't asked me for my number either sometimes i think he does li...

We both fancy one another but he went off with another girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - I love this boy , and he likes me too but theres a girl who ask him out and he said yes to girl.But he always ,you know flirting with me and he mostly talk to me than he talk to the girl, he always touching me places like hes my boyfriend but I dont ...

She is not responding to me but is using other social media

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

13 December 2014 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for about a month so not long. It has been going great. We've seen a lot of each other and when we've not been together we've communicated by text or phone call pretty regularly. It's been nice cos she's been very kee...

What should I write so I don't seem creepy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3625 days ago

13 December 2014 (M) - There's a girl from Norway on my course, let's call her Emily, that I've adored for some time now. I've seen her go through a rocky relationship with someone in this time, its difficult to see her unhappy. I've been spending more time talking ...

On the last day of class I developed a crush. !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

13 December 2014 (F) - i developed a crush on one of the guys in my PE class on the last day of class, which is awful timing, since I probably won't see him again. I friended him, though we have no mutual friends, and he surprisingly accepted. We were taking waterpolo, ...

I don't know how to read her -- does she want to be friends or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3631 days ago

12 December 2014 (M) - Hello there I need help regarding a girl I was pursuing about a year ago at my university. Background In three months, we became really close and went on few dates. We were talking three four hours a day and meeting as well at campus. Then,...

I am a lesbian crushing on my older male co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3622 days ago

12 December 2014 (F) - I am so confused and lost. I am a woman, and I currently have a girlfriend, we've been together for three years, we met in college, and we've been through hell and back. The problem is, I have a huge crush on my older male co-worker. It's been alm...

She wants to be with me but feels guilty about dumping her boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 December 2014 (M) - I started hanging out with this girl whom I knew had a boyfriend of 1.5 years. In our talks, I found out that he had been nice to her. However, had a tendency to look at other girls on the internet and that crushed this girl. She tells me that she ...

I want long term, but I don't know if she wants it as well

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

11 December 2014 (M) - Hi, Just a question if anyone ever succeeded with respect to different views about living together. I was married for 16 years and then divorced after my wife cheated. I met a new woman after that and we have been together 3 years now. She i...

I cannot imagine dating him. I like him as a friend only. Yet I've been told he likes me. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3632 days ago

11 December 2014 (F) - Today, a friend of mine told me that this guy, let's name him A, is interested in me. However, I consider A as a very close friend, possibly even a best friend. After hearing he likes me, I don't know how to react to this. I never realized tha...

I snooped, found something I didn't like about my boyfriend, and now what??? ADVICE please!!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - Been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We currently live together; have been for 2 years. We also have a 1 year old together! The first two years of our relationship was a long distance one. We lived three hours apart and we saw each other f...

How do I overcome a major crush on my tutor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - I posted this a few days ago but did not receive a reply so re-posting...... I am in my late 20's and started Uni this year. I seem to have developed a big fat stupid crush on my tutor....I think it's a crush anyway! I have a long term boyf...

How would a guy's friends act around his crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - So say a girl likes a guy, but he has no idea, and she feels he likes her too, but she's not sure. And she walks up to his friend to say 'hello' and make small chit chat (while the guy crush is nearby in the room). When she starts talking t...

Is he just playing me? Could he really like me? Or has he met someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3633 days ago

10 December 2014 (F) - I met a man on an online dating site. We exchanged long emails for about a month before meeting, out of circumstance. When we met things got pretty intense quickly. He obviously liked me a lot (I liked him too) and he started sending a lot of text ...