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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Does he have a crush on me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - This guy has been initiating conversation with me over IM the last few days. He starts the conversation saying things such as 'Merry Christmas missy', 'Forgot to say, I'm glad you enjoyed the movie, you should also watch _. --- [name of another ...

Has he lost all interest in me, and if so, can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I can't get this off my mind, and I'm wondering if someone could possibly understand what's going on, because I sure don't! For a few weeks I knew my crush liked me back because he told me and also reminded me about it. He wanted to ask me out, b...

Was she trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Hey, So my problem is this, at a flat party a year ago I drunkenly made out with a girl I work with. Afterwards I told her I liked her however she had just ended a relationship and said she didn't feel ready for another one yet. So a year has pa...

I finished the job, now can I ask her out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

31 December 2013 (M) - Not so much a problem, more a dilemma. I am a single self employed tradesman of 25 with not to much confidence/luck in the lady department. I have recently been doing a bit of work for a lovelly girl who seems about the same age and from what i ...

While he is planning our future, I am just not feeling 'it'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3969 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hey all, just hoping for some advice. I've been meeting a guy for about 6 weeks. At first, we met up and I didn't feel it but we agreed to be friends. However, I knew he kind of would have liked more, but he said he was happy as friends was better ...

I keep self sabotaging potential relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3971 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - I''ve got a really bad pattern when it comes to guys. I meet someone I'm attracted to, I assume that they would never consider a relationship with me, I have sex with them and then freak out because I assume that they would never want to date me, ...

I have longterm feelings for a friend, who also used to be my teacher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - Well, here it goes. It's a bit lengthy, so I apologize in advance. When I was younger I had a really hard time making friends my own age because I was so serious (maybe some would say mature). I just had to grow up quickly for personal reasons....

I like my best friend's sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?! On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been o...

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3971 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentiv...

Hopeless romantic falls for his teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I think that I'm obsessed, or maybe in love, maybe both, with my teacher. She is 24 and I am 18. At the moment I am a senior in high school. I've honestly had a crush on her since my sophomore year, and ever since I've grown more attached to her. ...

I told her I was socially awkward and she laughed it off.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I spent a day with a girl I like and her friend. I'm kinda socially awkward and didn't say much to them at all. It was really ridiculous on my behalf. She did say that she wanted to see me again so I don't think I came off too weird or creepy. So ...

What's the best advice on how to read men? I want to understand this man's intentions better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I went out last night and bumped into a guy i dated for about a month 2 years ago. Just wondering if you could help me understand 2 little things. 1. Him, his friends and I were talking, I cant remember the conversation topic, but he sa...

Is this a double standard? She did not like me using harsh words. So why is it OK for her to do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend were leaving a pub, and we were joking around, and then as we were talking I saw my coach there, and I accidentally let a word along the lines of go away but more harsh. It was a slip. She got really mad at m...

My married man loves me but can't be with me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Please bear with this long story. I am unmarried and in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. I recently moved to a different country and there I met a guy friend. We both are aware of our situation from the very beginning when we first ...

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to ...

I cant stop thinking about my neighbour...do I have a chance with her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - Ok so lately I can't stop thinking about my neighbour. Her and her fiancé have lived next door to me and my parents for 2 years and I hit it off with both of them Immediately! They were nothing like the previous neighbours who were much old...

Not sure if he likes me, or not, after he avoided me. Have I ruined my chances with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I thought a shy friend of mine liked me, and i think I am starting to develop feelings for him too, but i think I ruined my chance to form a relationship with him. The only reason why i think he likes me is because of our mutual friend's teasing...

Does this mean I'm not in love with my fiance? Am I meant to be with my old manager?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Urgently need some advice please... A few years back I worked as a PA to several managers- I got on with 1 manager in particular and everyone in the office used to tease me saying he had a soft spot for me. The truth is I fancied him like...

I feel like a weird stalker, which I never was!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Really need help so low I can't get over this guy because of how he treated me Ok 2 years ago we were working together he helped me through personal problems and we became close friends he was texting up to 100 a day sending poems etc - we never h...

I don't want to chase him, so what next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 15 and I'm in love with a guy 2 years older. I met him like only weeks ago in a singing contest and I'm melted by his voice. This is actually the first time I fall in love with someone as I've been studying in girls' school and my mom ...

Is he just in this for the sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise ...

She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her g...

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3976 days ago

23 December 2013 (M) - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best ...

How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3888 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how ...

Will he always be a cheater?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - So I have met this guy through one of my coworkers a year and a half ago and we went out for drinks and he quoted ur "beautiful" and I said thank you and didnt make a move since he had a gf and obviously he lives in New York and I live in Boston. ...

My colleague seems to be eavesdropping on my conversations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - There is this guy at work who seems to eavesdrop on my conversations and recently he's started butting in on my conversations. He had stopped talking to me but now he inserts himself in my conversations. I'll give you a back story: I had a crush ...

After meeting him once I know he's 'the one'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

22 December 2013 (F) - I really like someone that I only met once. I know it is absurd, maybe it's all a big fantasy in my head, but I just can't get him out of my head. I convince myself he's not the one, or force myself to stop thinking about him, but it all just ...

Should I come out to him, or is he just being jokey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

22 December 2013 (M) - Hello, I'm having a little trouble. I'm 17 and Gay and I have this 18 year old "straight" friend. I've known this guy for about a year he used to go out with my old bestie. For a few months know he's being very flirtatious. Sending me topless ...

We have a secret friendship.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3977 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - A long time ago I briefly met a guy at the end of a festival. He lives on the other side of the country. We exchanged numbers and ended up talking online for almost a year. We both were in relationships when we met and I still am though he is single ...

Every girl needs a bad boy...... right?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3978 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Okay so i need help, theres this boy who i like and he likes me too but people including my friends tell me that he's not a nice person and that he will ruin everything for me such as see other girls. However, when i talk to him i never see that ...

He loves me but crushes on her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

21 December 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend for a few months. Before we got into the relationship, I knew about the fact that he had a crush on another girl for quite some time before he fell in love with me and decided to confess. Even now, he still has feelings ...

I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with his sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup ...

I am still in love with my old teacher.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

20 December 2013 (F) - Ok so about a year ago I asked a question on here..it was wht should I do..I love my teacher one of the replies was dont do anything about it its probably a crush..but I've moved onto high school and its almost a year and a half later and I am still ...

I told him how I felt and he confirmed he didn't feel the same -- what now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

19 December 2013 (F) - I told a guy how I feel about him over facebook. I told him all the things I admire about his character and how I wish he strives well next year in university (he'll be about 600 miles away). I knew how he felt (or didn't feel about me) but it hurt ...

Cute Girl Who I Got An Amazing Feeling About!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3981 days ago

19 December 2013 (M) - Too make a long story short, There is this girl who i met today in class and she is very pretty we talked the whole time we were in the class together, me and her have a past she complimented my good looks before but i was a stud and didn't pay her ...

Would you romantically date a co worker even if it was against employer policy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3979 days ago

18 December 2013 (M) - I work at a school where most of the teachers are female and many are single. As a single male I'm attracted to a few of them but I never show interest or do or say anything to alert them to my interest. 1 of these teachers has invited me to her h...

I have a boyfriend, but a crush on another guy has me perplexed! Any words of wisdom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

17 December 2013 (F) - I apologize beforehand for length/tediousness I am never really attracted to anyone other than the person I'm in a relationship with. I'm happy with this, as it makes being faithful a no-brainer. No exaggeration, I've only been even ATTRACTED i...

Even though I'd never do anything about it, is this attraction wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

16 December 2013 (M) - I am in high school and I play football. Since it is a high school football team, we have players from 9th grade to 12th grade. I am friends with a lot of the players in all grades. The problem is that I am beginning to be attracted to one...

Do I reply to his lovely response?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - Hello aunties and uncles I was friends with a man for over 5 years, he's 3 years younger than me.. During the first 6 months we had a fling, and then we became just friends. I fell in love with him and all the way through our friendship I yea...

Did I scare him off and how do I fix this mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

16 December 2013 (F) - I think I may have scared off a guy I like. Here is the background on this: he lives in my building and had told a mutual friend of ours that he liked me. We’ve been casually running into each other a few times per month, and I had no idea the guy ...

His weird behaviour makes me curious!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

16 December 2013 (?) - 2 Weeks ago I met someone through a common friend. Lets just call him G. G is a good looking guy, kind and always a gentleman almost to everyone. He never failed to say hi or message me almost everyday. So I always thought of him as a friend...

Should I try and persuade her to date me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

14 December 2013 (M) - Hi, I've never posted here before but here it goes. I dated this girl nearly three years ago. A friend set us up, and things didn't work out. I didn't know her that well and she didn't know me, not to mention the fact that I had just gotten my heart...

Is it okay to date someone who teaches at my college?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

14 December 2013 (F) - Okay I'm currently 17 and turning18 in about 2 months, about April last year I was seeing this guy who was 21 but cause we were both busy we sorta drifted apart, he recently started to speaking to me again and were getting on really well, only thing ...

I feel like more of a sulky teen than an adult!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - hello, hope you can help am living with my boyfriend and we are really happy things are going great, am in danger of sounding like a spoilt brat so please bear with me... my boyfriends ex (a girl he really liked who he dated for a while) is due to ...

Four weeks later, has he lost interest already?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - Hi there I met a guy online we met and instantly hit it off... had a great time met at my local... saw him once a week since then so had x4 dates... he used to text me everyday or send a late goodnite sms too the sms have stopped... I did send him a ...

Is there a way to platonically get to know my crush more, or does he already assume that I'm interested in more than that? Also, what should I do about the current situation with my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3970 days ago

12 December 2013 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy for about 2 years, and we've been best friends for 3 or 4 years prior to that. We get along great for the most part, and it's really hard to picture what my life would be like without him since we know each ...

Do you think she knows my intention? What should I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3986 days ago

12 December 2013 (M) - Hello guys, There is this girl in my class that I like and I've developed the courage to walk up to her one day and talk to her. The first time I spoke to her I made small talk with her about the class we are in together. The second time time...

My ex asked me if I was willing to have sex with him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3980 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - So, there's a lot going on. Me and my ex broke up about 4 months ago. We only dated for about a month in a half but we have been friends for about 4 years prior. After we broke up i started having feelings for him and I think I love him. So back ...

I have a 'thing' with a guy but he wants to keep it secret.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - So I have a thing with this guy, and my bestfriend over heard him telling his friend that he doesn't want anyone to know about us. I believe my bestfriend and he's the type of guy to say something like that too, what does all that mean and what ...

I've got nobody to talk to about my teacher crush!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

11 December 2013 (F) - I really like my teacher and it's really hard when I'm in her classes, but I know I can't say anything I'm not stupid. I told one close friends but she just seems to get really awkward when I talk about it. I wanted to tell a teacher but I don't ...