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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I nearly had an affair with a married man. No he seems to be rubbing it in my face that I stopped it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hope someone can help. I almost got involved with a married man I work with last year. I really liked him (and still do) but saw the heartache down the road and backed away. I guess he was not impressed and brings up his wife constantly to me now..I ...

Two months after marriage and we already have problems. Is this marriage already over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6322 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am wondering what to do about my marriage. I am in my early 20's and I just got married 2 months ago. I am in Germany with my husband because he is in the army. So he works for the army here and I left everything from the States to come be with ...

She insisted I am the one for her, now we're married but I found her messages to other men with sexual implications!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - i am a saved man, who is married to a womam who just can't seem to break a way from her lovers in the past. Before we married i told her that maybe God had someone else for her. She has persude me for 1 1/2 years telling me that i am the only man ...

I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5786 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...

How can I tell if he's cheating on me when he lives 40 minutes away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi I am currently in a relationship and he lives about 40 minutes away from me. We get to see each other about once a week and speak by text quite frequently. We have just booked a trip away together and he tells me he likes me all the time but I ...

I have been having sex with a married man. He says he loves me and his family. Could he just be after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - i have a colleague at work who is married with a 3 year old kid..i was new and got atrracted to him, i was the only one single in the office and many guys wants to court me, but i fell inlove with this married man and we see each other secretly,we ...

What can I do to get our relationship back the way it was?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and a week ago his mates told me he has cheated on me but we talked and we said we would give it another go. He apologised and i knew he meant it because he was crying and he told me he has not cried ...

How can I convince my sister in law to have sex with me?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5175 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Q. I am married for the last thirteen years but I am in love with my younger sister-in-law for the last eleven years. I always fantisize about her during sex with my wife. I have an obssessive compulsive disorder about her. I told her that I wanted ...

Did I cheat or do I have worry issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Umm this is a wierd one but I am a real worrier and need to know that I am just snowballing a worry. Anyway, Im in a relationship with a person a I love very much. I went out with the girls one night and saw one of my boyfs friends out and latched ...

She's admitted she's having an affair but how do i trust her now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I have just found out that my wife is having an affair and she admits she is having sex with the guy.she says it is now over because i have found out ,what shall i do to beleive her because she will not tell me who the guy is even if it breaks our ...

Why do I thrive on attention from this unavailable man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Ok well recently like a month ago a friend started text messaging me his um "secrets" which I blew off because well it was really shocking and funny to get a random text of his private parts. He has a girlfriend they have been together for a while, ...

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 2916 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...

I've just slept with my best friend's boyfriend....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - So my problam is kind of confusing.... me {Amanda} and my bestfriend {Taylor} are going out with these two guys {Dylan and Josh}. Taylor and Josh have been going out for over a year and a half and me and Dylan have only been going out for about 3 ...

Friends have told me to go to a prostitute in compensation for my high sex drive! Is it right, since I have a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6320 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - My urge for sex has abnormaly gone so crazy that even my girlfriend just can't take it all the time. Some friends have told me to try out prostitutes to save my relationship. Do you think it's right?...

How can you tell if someone is cheating? I suspect my dad is, on my mum!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How can you tell if someone is cheating on their wife...i suspect my dad may be cheating on my mom with a close relative. ...

How can the man I love truely of done this to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Am so down and hurting. How can the man I have love truely do this to me. And for my stupidity and low self esteem, I couldn't break up with him. It hurts my somuch. I have tried to forgive him but I always remember and that is . I remember going...

What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...

I'm wondering if my guy is cheating with my friend..what do you think???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for ...

I do have a loving passion with my boyfriend, but I have never felt this so sexually charged for a person in my life.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am in my 20's. I'm in a serious relationship with my boyfriend who I love an undescribable amount. However, when we were having problems, we broke up for a month. In this time, I dated a male friend. We stopped dating because I knew he...

My friends guy kissed me. I really like him. Shall i tell my friend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - hi recently i kissed one of my friends boyfriends, i really like him and a couple of friends have told me he likes me more than his own girlfriend. he had made a pass at me a few times before this time and i rejected them, then finally i just gave ...

When he jokes with me he he really wanting me to to do stuff, but afraid to come right out and ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - my question is kind of embarrassing but here goes i was dating a man last year and during that time we would engage in oral sex we have since then broke up but remain friends im still very attracted to him and think about him all the time but he is ...

Is she dating someone else or is it just hormones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6312 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - I have a pregnant ex girlfriend who may be seeing someone else. She won't even discuss us or getting back together. She just says it's over and I need to get used to the fact. Is it just hormones? Most of my guy friends think she has someone else ...

What do you think about affairs?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - What do you guys think about affairs? Esp when someone has one when only in the first few years of their relationship. Does this mean generally they are unhappy, missing something? And if so once the affair has started and even stopped, will that...

My ex just split from his girlfriend after she cheated on him, he wants me back. What should i do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Right my Ex boyfriend is in the army and he had a habbit of picking me up and putting me down when he felt like it. We split in December last year (just gone) and he was going to propose to me on new years. We dated for 3 and a half years. However ...

I've been having an affair with an attached girl, I want her to leave him, can her relationship survive with him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - Just after some different opinions bout me problem. I know its bad but been having an affair wiv a girl whos got a boyfriend of three years. It was both emotional and sexual and quite highly charged. We became v close through it. Think it started ...

My guy of 3 years slept with another girl - several times! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6325 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, we have a child together, he works away alot, I found out a month ago he has been unfaithfull to me several times when working away, and slept with another girl. we seperated, he now wants be back, saying ...

I've cheated on him 4 times but feel so guilty. Should i tell him??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Please can you help me. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and love him very much, we talk about getting married and having children. However last year I cheated on him 4 times. Even now I cant explain why I did it; I lost both my grand...

Where are all the honest men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - This question is for all the guys, male, testosterone driven individuals. I have had bad experiences in my life with boyfriends. I have had the cheaters, liars, players, you name it. My current boyfriend happens to be a big liar. I am loosing my ...

I have been with a married man for 6 years, am I wasting my time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6318 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for six years now. He and his wife were having probs when we met. Eventually he told her about us and she moved out of the house. After a year though she has now moved back in as the kids live...

The love of my life is married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. Wh...

I'm a mum of 2 and have met a great guy but cant help cheating with my FWB. How do i move on???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I am a divorced mum of 2 and last year i met a guy who i totally fell in love with. The only thing is, he only wants to see me for sex. He said he enjoys my company but doesnt want a relationship. I know this is wrong but i cant brake the habi...

This guy knows i like him, he has a girlfriend but wants to start seeing me! What shall i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - okay, well the guy i like is now 16 (im 14) and we've been really close for ages. he always used to flirt with me alot, but i just assumed he was just being a good friend and messing about. But about a year ago i realised i liked him as something...

My mother in law told me she's having an affair, I told my husband. Now she is angry with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My mother-in-law confided in me that she was having an affair. I kept the terrible secret for a long time but finally broke down and told my husband about it. He told his mother that he thought she was betraying his father and he was disappointed ...

Our child passed away, he blamed himself, we've tried sorting our problems but he's txting someone else. Help..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has moved out of our home and told me he needs his own space. I really need some advise. I been with my boyfriend for nearly seven years we've had two boys but our younger one passed away whilst in the care of my boyfriend he has ...

My guy sends off signals that he cant be trusted, I've found some txt from another girl, do I contact her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I have been together with my boyfriend for almost a year now but something about him sends off signals that he cant be fully trusted. Maybe it's that he constantly checks out other women in my presence. Anyway, I will openly admit that I am a s...

How can I read his texts? He is sending suggestive texts to other women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Can anyone out there with a recent Sony Ericcson cellphone instruct me how to open the text message box and go to the in box to read the texts. I tried to do it today but couldnt quite work out the keys. My boyfriend recently changed his phone and ...

He talks about his times with other women, we're extremely unhappy, but neither of us will leave

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi. I want to know how I should deal with my relationship that I am very unhappy in. I have a 7 month old daughter with my boyfriend of 2 years. Before I reached my seventh month in pregnancy, my relationship was perfect. We were happy, we enjoyed ...

Why would a man join an online dating site if he has been in a relationship for almost 2 years????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Why would a man join an oline dating website if he has been in a relationship for almost 2 years?...

I left my husband for him and now he has gone cold on me and is dating someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I had an affair with a coleague of work. Everything started because I was unhappy on my marriage and his girfriend had left him. We were also very good friends and he always told me that he was still in love with her. 1 and 1/2 has passed and I left ...

My boyfriends work mate fancied me, to me we were only friends. Recently my feelings have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - ok, here is my problem and i need help. ive been with my bloke for almost a year and i was best friends with one of his work friends. I know that this friend saw me as more than that and no matter how hard i told him we were only ever going to be ma...

He's set a date to leave his wife. But i'm paranoid he wont! Help with advice please..

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6002 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - How do i stop loving this guy? I have been seeing this guy for a while, he is beautiful amazing funny.... married and my boss. His marriage has been troubled for a while, they have both had affairs. We are fantastic together and i do know he ...

I love my guy but i want to cheat on him with an older man.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6323 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I love my man but i love to cheat with an older greyer greeneyed man. He is well endowed and my guy isnt. Why am i attracted to older men? Im in my 30's He is in his mid forties-fifties ....

Ive got a boyfriend but i like this other guy, what shall i do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Ok well i have a boyfriend and everything i really like him of course but the guy i've liked for a long time just told me he really really likes me.He asked me out when i was already going out with someone i told him that i couldnt because i had a ...

He says he loves me but he has been conversing with another woman. How do i confront him about this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6327 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I desperately need advice. I am in a relationship with someone that I am truly in love with. we have been together for two years. He says he loves me and we have plans for the long road. I recently discovered that he has been conversing with anot...

He's trying to work things out with his wife and has stopped calling and txting me now, i miss him, shall i call him???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6321 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so I posted a question the other day and got greta responses! Thanks! My next question is: So the guy who I like that is trying to work things out with his ex-wife has kind of let up on texting and calling me back. I told him that I had a ...

I was seeing a married man for 3 years but he loves his family so i ended it. But i'm missing him. What can i do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I was a girl fallen in love with a married man.I was 20 that time and he was 43 when we had an affair.i love him so much i even sacrifice all for him but nothing i can do. He loves his family thats why now i broke up with him. For 3 years of relation...

Are my girlfriends out of town work trips all work and no play or....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend works out of our city and state most of the time. When she travels, she usually goes out with one of her co-workers, a guy her age who is single. I have noticed that there is genuine affection between them and this guy even kissed her ...

I am married and dont want to jeapordize that, but I think I met my soulmate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6315 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I'm wondering if anyone else is in my situation. I'm a happily married woman. I still love my husband dearly and we have never had any problems. A few months ago, I was blown away when I met another man. We were introduced through work and were ...

He cheated online , and now I dont trust him and am a jealous maniac!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I have recently found out my partner of three years have been 'cheating' online with a girl he claims he never met. I came across a saved msn conversation on the computer which was quite graphic, this girl knew I exsisted as she asked where I was, ...

He wants to cheat on his girlfriend with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6328 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him ...