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writes:I had an affair with a coleague of work. Everything started because I was unhappy on my marriage and his girfriend had left him. We were also very good friends and he always told me that he was still in love with her. 1 and 1/2 has passed and I left my husband because I could not cope with the guilty. Before that I felt we were closer than you are now. As soon I left my husband he started to be more distant. I said to him that I wanted a relatioship but he said that he was confused. Then I said that We had to finish this affair. A week later i saw him dating sameone else. I was devasted. I asked him why not me and he said he has an issue with is I only left my husband for months. He thinks I need time on my own. I can see that he is very upset and he is very nice and kind with me, specially because we work together. Do you think he like me? Shall I have hope?
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 No you shouldn't have hoe for this man. He doesn't trust you, why should he you're a cheater. He wants a woman he can trust. You obviously weren't happy in your marriage. Good that you split up, your ex is probably relieved too.It's time to move on. Find out who you really are and what you really want. Have fun in the meantime, enjoy yourself in your new opportunity for discovery.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): No don't hope, he is obviously not interested in being in a relationship with you, or he might have issues with you cheating on your husband and eventually him, and he's probably thinking if you could do that to someone you promised to love and cherish forever then you could do the same to him. Or maybe he was interested because you were the forbidden fruit but now that you're not the interest might have gone. Either way don't waste your time on this guy, so take this time to re-evalute your life. Spend some time on your own, loving and taking care of yourself and if it's meant to be he'll come back, but if it's not you'll still benefit from taking care of yourself.
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