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writes:Ok, so I posted a question the other day and got greta responses! Thanks!My next question is: So the guy who I like that is trying to work things out with his ex-wife has kind of let up on texting and calling me back. I told him that I had a few dates this weekend. He suddenly stopped texting and calling. It is probably for the best, but I feel weird not talking to him, as we have talked everyday for the past 3 months. Should I let him stop texting and calling me or should I give in and call and text him? Its killing me. I feel almost heart broken. Help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): i have just found out the father of my children and my loyal boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me. im not going to be nasty but my family is torn apart now and were over, just think to yourself how would you feel if you met the man of your dreams and he was having it off with someone else? this blokes not worth it anyway if he cheated on his wife he would have probably cheated on you aswell if the relationship progressed. you have learnt a very valuable lesson; never mess with taken men and familys...it causes nothing but heartache...go and find yourself a guy who wants only you!
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reader, agony_uncle_r  +, writes (26 August 2007):
hes doing the right thing by trying to save his marriage, you knew the risks when you got involved with a married man surely. leave him be and go find a nice single man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): For goodness sake, LEAVE HIM ALONE! He is trying to work things out with his ex - so let him. You have had some other dates lined up, enjoy them.This is for the best. You'll just have to put up with having no further contact with him, no matter how much it hurts. Its the right thing to do.
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Let him go, He's not sure what he wants. Don't go back to him either, there are consequences for his actions. He's now shown you his weakness. Be thankful it wasn't 2 years down the road. There's 160 million men in America, surely there is another one for you looking for a good relationship.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Did i hear u say he had a wife with whom he's trying get with again? If thats so then am afraid there's little chance that u are an issue in this guy's life anymore. You should simply pray for the worst in his efforts but that would be devilish of u. What am trying to say is that get a life and give up even texting this guy at all! okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): It sounds as though this guy needs space to sort his own head out.He probably thought it only fair to give you the same space to try out dating other guys too.You only use the term "like" when you talk about him, could it be like so many of us do, that you have fallen into the habit of texting and calling each other on a daily basis. Being guilty of this myself in the past, i know only too well how much this consumes you. Try to focus your attention on other things, and you will find time soon passes by without a thought. If it's meant to be, he'll be back in touch, if not, then face the harsh reality of things and move on, for your own piece of mind! Good luck. X
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