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*uvsikpupi
writes:basically, ive know this guy for as long as i can remember, and he is 4 years older. he has a g.f but he always says how she moans n stuff. recently he has been textin me askin me to meet him, and i have fallen for him. i am meant to be meeting him soon, and i dont know what to do. i have never done nothing with a lad and he said he would help me and take it slow! i know his girlfriend really well, too. i dont know what to do. i really want to meet him.note from moderator:please do not write in text speak!!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 No matter what others always tell you the most important person in such a contescious matter is you. Am madly in love with adventure but that doesnt mean i have no limits. If my vriend's gal wanted me to do sth with her, i would give it a thought. But that is only after if there is nothing like a set up.One night stands are still in fashion and its as long as you can be extremely careful how you do it, there is nothing wrong with having a little fan here and there. Gal, if you are sure his gf will never get to know and he's ready for safe sex, give it to him.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (26 August 2007):
The answer is simple, you know it is wrong so don't do it. If you were looking for someone here to tell you it is okay since that is what you want to hear, you've found the wrong place!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (25 August 2007):
 Hi
You can do so much better than this, especially for your first time! I fear you will do it anyway, but spare a thought for his girlfriend that you say you know?
Your entering into choppy waters & i expect you know deep down its a non starter, and maybe your hoping enough people say it, to put you off him. But you need to want better for yourself then you will definately say thanks but no thanks to him!
Good luck.
C xxxx
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reader, x_goddess_x +, writes (25 August 2007):
 well i think u should not let him cheat on his girlfriend with you cuz if he can do it to her he could easerly do it to you if he don't like this girl has much has you why don't you tell him to break up woth her then he could go out with you besides if your good mates with the girl he should do that or it will hurt that girl more than just tellin her
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