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Archived questions from: July, 2016 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Will moving to another state bring me to a happier place than all the drama I've endure here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

31 July 2016 (F) - Hey I need some advice Lately I've been going through alot of bad things. I know it's life and everyone goes through things some point. But I feel like it's only me at the moment. I'm extremely frustrated!!!! I've never been this frustrated bef...

He demonstrated flakiness in the past. Yet now he's given me his number? Can I trust him, this time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - The first time he was supposed to call me after he gets off work at 3pm to finalize our plans but I didn't hear from him untill 10:00pm, something had came up on his end. He apologize profusely and asked how he can make it up to me. Subsquently,he...

How can I stop my trust issues from a past breakup from ending my new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3063 days ago

30 July 2016 (F) - I had a really bad break up with my ex, and I'm worried the damage it caused me will end in me sabotaging my new relationship. The relationship ended by my then boyfriend of 6 years bringing home a girl he managed at work. I found them curle...

Should I ask him out or stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3064 days ago

29 July 2016 (M) - Hi I have recently broke up with my boyfriend and I have been thinking about trying to get back together with my first love the only possible is we both agree it was for the best to stay friends so should I ask him back out or should I leave an...

Best ways for getting over someone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

29 July 2016 (M) - Best ways for getting over someone ? Been speaking to a girl for quite a while but a relationship isn't feasible for us. We both get on great but the past few times I've asked to hang out she's blown me off and has always been busy, the last t...

Teen LDR. Should I hold on, or just let go? We're perfect for each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

27 July 2016 (M) - i'm 16 years old and i met this girl on an online like 4 weeks ago, she needed help so we talked on skype, we kept talking on skype and texting almost everyday. She's 15 years old, we love the same things, we think the same, we're like soulmate...

I wonder where do I stand in all of this? My deep seated trust issues are affecting me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

26 July 2016 (F) - There is this guy friend of mine. This started when we were around 14-15 years old (well I will be 21 y/o this year). He was my friend, a good friend. We were actually acquaintenced since we were 7 years old (due to the fact we were in the same sch...

I do love him, but was I right to break up with this man who is childish and one sided in his behaviour towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

25 July 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years and he recently broke up with me. He has a total of 6 kids and I have only 1, all of his kids are grown except for 2 whose ages are 16 and 9. He gets them every other weekend, so I thought I would ...

Does my obliging nature cause women to think I'm too boring a guy, for them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

25 July 2016 (M) - Am I boring in relationships, I like going out dancing to live bands, taking walks in parks, going shopping,going to movies, holding hands, nice places to go eat, I like cooking, if a woman needs help at her place, I can do a lot when it comes to ...

Should I text to ask where his head is at as I'm confused or just leave him to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Hi aunts. Am after a perspective as to weather I this situation is a waste of time and a dead loss. Been with a man for 18 months. LDR. We have a lot of problems but we have tried to talk them through and find a way forward. Most recently we were...

I was swept off my feet, then devalued and then discarded with no emotions

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

24 July 2016 (F) - Was I targeted by a sociopath? I met a 45 yr old guy online. It turned out we had many mutual fb friends. One of my exs was actually a friend of his. On our 2 nd date he'd told me he told him he'd met me. By our 3rd date he'd said he wanted more tha...

I want to date him but I don't want to rush things. Do I tell him now or give it time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - Opinions please!!! So I am newly out of a long term relationship, and after it was over, but before I was moved out a met a guy. I was attracted to him physically but that was about it. Anyways long story short we ended up hanging out, talking, ...

I need to return an item to my ex, but don't want to see him when I do it because I'm not over him. Is this wrong of me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - I had written in here a few weeks ago. I broke up with the guy who I was dating. Since I do not date much, it's been increasingly difficult to not cry because I got attached. He was super cool, casual about the whole thing. He moved on very ...

He avoids eye contact, it makes me angry!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

23 July 2016 (F) - brief backstory was seeing a guy, became a push and pull relationship, i got sick of it and ended it. went no contact for about 6 weeks until he called to check in on me, saw him in person after that and he shook my hand and wouldn't make ey...

Should I bale from this new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I am in a new relationship and my boyfriend has suddenly changed. He is not the sweet, caring guy that I got to know. He's become very withdrawn and hardly speaks to me via call or text, even in person! Though he is always on his phone when I...

Job centre compliance officer meeting. Has anyone else ever been in the same situation? Think the ex may have maliciously tried to undermine me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

22 July 2016 (F) - hi everyone im a single parent to 2 young children i split up with there dad as he was useless and didnt bother with them i received a letter from the dwp to go for a meeting at the local jobcentre in 2 weeks time it was from a compliance office...

We were forced to break up, and I don't know how to treat her when we see each other at school!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3055 days ago

20 July 2016 (M) - Hey guys okay so I have an important question. My ex girlfriend and Iwwere forced to break up she had her phone taken away and this happened almost 2 months ago and we were pretty upset and we both said we won't give up on eachother at the time of ...

How do I get him to move out? I feel trapped!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend of 4 years lost his job and he had no money and nowhere to go so I said he could stay with me while he sorted himself out. He got a job a year ago and is still living with me and not paying for anything except food because he pays ...

Were his family opposed to me? Or did he just want me for one thing? We broke up but he said we could still be FWB.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

19 July 2016 (F) - Hi, I met this guy nearly 2 years ago, we were really good friends. He then became flirty with me and I had an attraction to him, but then he said we could just be fwb I guess I couldn't go through with this idea and we agreed to continue being fr...

Should I stop worrying about him and continue working on myself ? My husband is being very cold towards me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

18 July 2016 (F) - My husband and I have had a rocky marriage of 4 years. I have a very good share of the blame for that, as I have been very selfish and immature in our marriage. On my husband's end, he is very controlling and emotionally abusive, pretty ...

How long after a break up should I find new love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

17 July 2016 (F) - Hello so I just ended a relationship with someone I have been with for five years. I was wondering how long I should wait until I would get into another relationship. He was my first love but I grew out of it fast because we dated young. Things have ...

Dating 101 help please. When women dump a guy do they ever consider how much it hurts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

17 July 2016 (M) - Do women ever think about the guy they dump, who treated them like they were an angel, am talking about lets say six months down the road, after being with other guys, like I seen an ex this weekend, but I didn't talk to her, she didn't deserved ...

I am better off out of the relationship but seeing him still hurts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - I split up with my boyfriend earlier this year. I was with him for two years and I always suspected he was biopolar or had a personality disorder. He also has issues with alcohol and a temptation for other things too. And i suspect he wasn'...

I found out he's still married, but separated, he lied about his son and he's a borderline hoarder!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 2 1/2 years. He is older than me (I am 35 and he is 53), and when we started seeing each other he said he had been single for awhile. He has a house that is in disrepair, and approaching hoarder status. ...

Is he stringing me along? He doesn't know what he wants?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

16 July 2016 (F) - My LDR is turning kind of confusing. My bf and I have been dating a short while and we spent abt a month together before he left. He wanted this, but when he left, he started going hot and cold. Yes we skype, but other then that its like he ...

I understand that I shouldn’t have gone for his best mate but I was drunk and he got with other people! I need advice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - Hello, I was seeing this guy from uni for 4 months and he used to come round mine all the time and it wasn't just for sex. He told me he liked me and I really liked him but it was casual and we both agreed we could see other people. I started to m...

He wants to be friends but I’m not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - Ok so I was seeing this guy for about 3 months. I met him in work and he found me on Facebook to ask me out so he did all the chasing. Things started to get kinda physical a few dates in so I had to tell him I was still a virgin because I just ...

How can I stop looking for revenge? Is it a case of "what goes around comes around" ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - How can I stop looking for revenge? I just recently got dumped by my ex of 6 months via text - my stuff all is still is at his house . This was two months ago and since being hurt the stage has moved on to anger and waves of depression. I have ta...

How Do I Move Forward?? ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 July 2016 (F) - okay so, i was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years, which was fairly complicated. We started out as close friends which then turned into something more serious, it ended sadly 6 years ago, and there isnt a day i dont think about her, sometime...

What to do? He says if I don't work out with both of them then he wants a divorce

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - My husband had an affair, after I found out and got past the initial shock, I approached his mistress. Asked her to have a threesome. We did, it went well. It didn't take any of the pain away that I am feeling, like I guess I hoped it would. ...

Can you advise me on how to get over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - How do I get over someone? My ex broke up with my over 3 months ago now and it gets easier sometimes but then at others it feels again as bad as when it happened. I have wrote on here before about this situation but this time I just want to get over ...

Ending friendships when the friendship is going no where. Does this happen to others? Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3082 days ago

14 July 2016 (F) - Would it be weird if a 20 year old starts feeling the need to end most of her friendships? I feel like i wont achieve anything big with the friends that i have now. I would like to know if there is any of you who ever felt this way and how did ...

Guy I'm dating is leaving for an internship, Can you please help me make sense of what is happening?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - I'm dating a guy I feel very comfortable with, we both open up a lot and there is a lot of safety, good feels, and emotional connection. However, we both know its short-lived. He's leaving for a great internship and may not move back after his inte...

We've broken up but keep seeing each other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

11 July 2016 (F) - My ex broke up with me 3 months ago now as he didn't like being in a relationship. Ever since we have talked a lot and met up (mostly when drunk after nights out) and every time we are both out, there is always an issue when one of us get annoyed or ...

My dad is pissed that I don't love my boyfriend anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3086 days ago

10 July 2016 (F) - Hello. So my boyfriend and I have a complicated on and off relationship. We have been together for four years. I invited him to my birthday party thinking that my dad still doesn't like him (my dad never said a word about liking him until last ...

He called me nasty names. No apology. We broke up. What should I do, in the circumstances?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

9 July 2016 (F) - Hi there everybody I recently had the biggest argument with my now ex boyfriend. It all started because it took him 7 hours to reply to my text Anyway after 2 days of arguing over text he tells me I'm a heartless gutless liar. I did not e...

Going no contact isn’t easy, so how do I make sure I’m not swayed by his efforts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

8 July 2016 (F) - Since my original question regarding my narcissist, we have gotten back together and just recently I discarded him because I am sick and tired of being sick and tired. All of the motional turmoil hit me all at once and I vocalized myself to my ...

He ghosted and came back... what now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - I posted a couple weeks ago. I dated someone for three months. The first two months were great. He was affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I) and reached out daily. We met 1-2x a week. However everything changed last month and I ...

How do I fill this void? I've lost hope in love and in a new begining.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - I have written here previously as I am trying to collect myself after a series of events and a breakup that happened And wanted to know if, 1. This is normal and will it go away? 2. Any tips of developing a self esteem right as I hit 30 years old...

Should I continue as a friend and hope he'll change his mind? Or let him go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - I am in love with a friend of mine and he has told me once before he doesnt really see me as what I see him. He doesnt want to date; at first it hurt but I got over it after a while. The feeling is back and I cant shake it off as I used to wors...

She thinks it looks cool. Anything I can say, or do, to change her mind about smoking again??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

5 July 2016 (M) - I apologize in advance for anything I'm not making sense on. I've had this issue before and now its cropped up again but this time it's even worse. Just over 4 months ago me and my girlfriend finally came to an agreement that she wouldn't smoke c...

All I've met is harsh judgement. But I need advice and some support on what to do in my situation. Help, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

5 July 2016 (F) - OK first of all please don't judge me on this but I got with my boyfriend while he was still married, he is now separated from his wife and with me. I guess he had fell out of love by the time he met me. There is 20 years difference between ...

How to create a life of my own after hiding behind ex for 6 years?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3089 days ago

4 July 2016 (F) - I regretfully revolved my life around his for 6 years. It was emotionally abusive, am trying to work on my self esteem after it was battered for years. I am starting to realize in many ways this is a good thing that I was dumped. It did blindsid...

I do like the guy, and we've talked since we had sex, on our first date. How do I handle myself when we meet next time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3092 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - I went out last weekend to the bar district. I had broken up with my boyfriend of 6 months about three weeks prior and just wanted to go out and have a good time. I met a really hot and fun guy. The two of us went back to his place and, obvi...

My boyfriend dumped me after 6 years out of nowhere. Did he plan this???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3093 days ago

3 July 2016 (F) - Both 23. It has been 2 weeks and everytime I hear nothing from him I am slowly hardening my heart to ever speaking to him ever again. He has been in college these past years, and has not been that happy but I stuck by him, when he got a job a few we...

My boyfriend ghosted without any warning. How do I let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months ghosted a month ago. Everything was going very well until the last two weeks it all came to a screeching halt. He took longer and longer to reply and eventually not at all. I saw he logged back onto his online dating s...

Does the evidence suggest that he's gay or transgender?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

2 July 2016 (F) - I wrote the post "We had our first kiss and it wasnt magic as expected! Now what?" few days ago. After the advice i got from my lovely aunties here i was on my way to end things with him but before that i asked my trusted friend what she thinks ...

I let personal issues destroy my relationship and I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3095 days ago

1 July 2016 (M) - I met my ex 2.5 years ago. She came into my life during a really dark time and I made a huge mistake during it. In short, my self esteem took a major hit for a while and I ended up using tinder to swipe on photos in order to make myself feel good, ...

She's moved on, so should I, but how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3094 days ago

1 July 2016 (M) - I miss my ex girlfriend, but I don't want her back. But I do. It's odd. Hense my screen name, I feel like I am going insane. We met in church in early 2014. Became best friends. Started dating by Valentine's Day 2015. And honestly for the first li...