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Archived questions from: September, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Why do I put up with this? We both like jazz. But why do I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, here's my dumb question. I have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. In that time we have had our ups and downs. I have never asked him for sexual fidelity, which means that he is pretty open with me and doesn't feel like he ...

I feel like giving up on dating. Is it me? No one seems to want to be in a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - Hello. I had been seeing this guy recently (about 5months) and things were going pretty well then out of the blue he began acting strange and distant. I asked him why and a first he said he was fine and later said that he thought I was going to ask ...

Why did he disappear when I expressed interest in him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

30 September 2015 (F) - So I was talking to this guy that I met.We haven't spend time in person yet but we coommunicate regulary.He brought up sex the first time we spoke .Last time he wanted to come over at my apartment but I told him that I'm not comfotable inviting him ...

This is a second attempt at our relationship and I'd like feedback on my suggested guidelines!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - So my boyfriend is in president of his fraternity and I know how important his frat is to him so I don't want to prevent him from his duties/fun. However, we recently broke up because he did something while drunk at a party that I didn't approve of ...

I am finally getting on with my life after a bad relatsionhip, but have concerns about the change in myself in increased low tolerance levels.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear all, this is not a relationship question, but it kind of is as it is to do with freinds and people. Please can you help me get some insight into this. Thank you in advance. I have recently come out of a bad relationship with a guy,( well abou...

I'm not happy and his dog also causes me problems. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3336 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone Hope someone could give me some good advice me and my boyfriend have been together nearly 4 years we have a 2 year old and a 1 year old and he Has a dog a rottweiler that he had when we met we moved in together. He is at work all day ...

Can I save this situation? What can I do if the girl I like is starting to show less interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 September 2015 (M) - Dear all To summarize, a girl i like may be losing interest. what should i do? I met this girl online 15 days ago, she lives about 1 hour away. we did not meet via a dating website, she chose to contact me as she had just moved to the area. ...

Is there a possibility for someone like my husband can change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid. I have been living with my husband for 7 years now. For past 2 yrs things have been a roller coaster. I have left twice just for 5 wks at least to get a break from him and his tantrums. The first time I left I took our two kids with...

Help ! Should we get back together? Did he really cheat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3340 days ago

29 September 2015 (F) - First off people of the internet, I apologize for the really long post I really just want you all to fully understand the situation (: So.. I recently broke up with my ex boyfriend because my friend told me she saw him grinding with another gir...

I wonder if maybe my ex was the one? But I really like this new man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (M) - Hi all, Me and my boyfriend of two and a half years broke up about 5/6 weeks ago now. WeWeren't making each other happy and the break up was fairly mutual, he had suggest breaking up two weeks previous to this. Before breaking up I met anothe...

Am I being unreasonable? How can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

28 September 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I am very stuck. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months and we were very happy and content together. I never thought that I would be thinking of breaking up with him but I really feel stuck. We were making plans for...

How do I soften the blow? I want to break up with him and he has no idea I feel this way!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

26 September 2015 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and he says he's madly in love with me and that I'm his soulmate, but I haven't been feeling the same the past few weeks and I've decided I want to break up with him. My question is, how should I ...

Is it possible that she really does love me? Despite the fact that I was a jerk earlier?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

25 September 2015 (M) - I dated this girl for about 3 months in the summer. Extenuating circumstances happened that basically necessitated that we break up. Except things were really good, like we were totally right for each other. So she was reticent, and fought me on it. ...

He dumped me and then died suddenly a week later, I'm hurting badly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

25 September 2015 (F) - He was my first love. He broke my heart and then he died one week later very suddenly. He ended things with me and I was crushed. He wanted to get back with his ex. I had moved to his city 3 months before our break up so I was especially hurt ...

To love? Or to live? Or to leave? That is the question

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of seven years is seriously ill and this alone brings heartache because his life is inevitably shortened. I have offered him to move in with me but he likes to keep his own place and it does make financial matters easier to handle. H...

Do I stay? Just dating yet he expects me to be full time stepmom without the promise of marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

24 September 2015 (F) - My bf won't marry me but expects me to be a full time mom to his child while he works and goes on vacations. I'm feeling trapped. His son in five and has displayed major violent and angry behavior. He has attacked other children during outings a...

Is this his anger speaking or should I break it off with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - So , I ve been talking to and hanging with this guy I like for a year and some ... He's never really asked to be my boyfriend or make it official. I have but he didn't give me a direct Yes. Anyways, He says he likes me, he said he loved me once or ...

Is it normal to still be so angry and hurt? Why can't I forget?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Well nearly a year after the split I'm still angry and hurt that my friend went off with my ex behind my back. I have tried to do all the things I should do - like no contact and blocking off social media - but it still hurts and I still ha...

He cheated. Now he's devastated I'm leaving. Do I give him another chance or give up ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - Hey everyone, I just spent the last few months getting my 25 year-old live-in boyfriend of nine years to confess that he cheated sometime last year. We'd had a great relationship other than this. I knew that he'd attempted to cheat at ...

My now ex Bf goes missing in action, but is furious if I don't pick up the phone. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

23 September 2015 (F) - My Now ex boyfriend of 2 and a half years gets really annoyed with me if I don't answer my phone or text back or call back quickly. He always said "keep me updated". He made it clear how he feels and I honor this request as best I can. He has had ...

Do I go or stay out of guilt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

22 September 2015 (M) - I left my wife and young sons for another woman, I am not proud of it but I fell in love. So walked.She left her marriage Still with the other woman missed the kids best years, my ex let me have access and it must have been hard for her. Fast...

It feels like he's distancing himself from me. How can I improve my relationship with my bf who has PTSD?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

22 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has PTSD from the war and he is hard to deal with. He gets mad at dumb things and always thinks I'm mad at him when I'm not I'm just chill or quiet or relaxing or thinking. If I talk too much he gets irrational especially in fr...

I don't have any additional time to give my Gf and I feel that she's eventually going to find someone who does have more time. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - So I'm in a bit of a dilemma. I'm a law student, which takes up a ton of my time. I also have a weekend bartending job to pay my bills, and a gf. So needless to say, I'm painfully busy and don't have a lot of free time. My Gf and I were tog...

Should I try to understand where he is coming from? Returning to my religion is important to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - I've been with my fiancé for 5years. Being financially stable is very important to him. This keeps him from wanting to wait to get married. We attempted to get married 2-3 years ago, but I didn't have any income cause my disability got cut off....

How do I make him feel comfortable with me in that department without being pushy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hi I really need help. My husband and I broke up a few years ago. He now wants to give it a go at fixing things. He wants us to be a family. I've always wanted this and we have given it a go before but he changed his mind and left. Now he said he ...

I have developed this really bad phobia of marriage and relationships! Help me see reason!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Hi! I had a very bad experience of my first marriage of 1 week! I asked for divorce and am still a virgin, that's how bad my experience was. Anyways my problem is that now I can't seem to trust anyone! Everyone says that not everyone is like your ...

Why does he treat her better than he ever treated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

21 September 2015 (F) - Yesterday I was on Facebook and came across my ex's current girlfriend's profile on my 'people you may know' list. Both her and I are friends with my ex's cousins. I was curious and clicked on her profile to take a look. Two years ago, my ex and I...

How can I get my husband to recognise that I cannot handle his 90 year old mother living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - my husband thinks it is perfectly ok to have his 90 year old mother living with us it has been like this for our entire life together 14 years. Seven years married. I really cant do it any more how can I make him see sense i'm ready to leave...

How can I get over this extremely painful breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - My and ex and I split up in March and ive taken it badly. We split because we argued a lot and he had money problems. Ive been in turmoil ever since. Ive blocked him from facebook and changed my number and tried to move on with my life. He started ...

Should I contact my ex to talk things over? Or wait until he contacts me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi cupids, my ex boyfriend is so engrossed with my life. I have told him every single thing about me. He knows my family history. I have given him so much information about me that he can use to destroy me. It doesn't really bother me I did all ...

What are my options while my husband treats me with such contempt, by telling me ''if you don't like it, move out''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

20 September 2015 (F) - Hi, my husband and I have been married for 35yr's. The problem is if I ask him to flush the toilet,or rinse the sink after he brushes teeth he tells me if I don't like it move out. Always telling how to drive,we are both retired and disabled and he ...

Blind-sided. He says he loves me deeply but isn't ''in love'' with me. What are the chances that we could get back together, eventually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

19 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last Friday, whereas the night before he took me to dinner for my birthday, bought me flowers and gifts. We were also intimate. He lives an hour away, but showed up unannounced. I was excited, because he is always ...

Should I just stop wasting my time with a guy who is so like my father? Neither my father nor my Bf have much patience.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - I have been dating someone for the last 3 months, and he painfully reminds me my father. They have one thing in common, it's the way they conduct all the conversations. My father has no patience listening to something that he thinks is not imp...

Why do some men turn really nasty when they dump you?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - Why do some men turn really nasty when they dump you? I had a bad fall out with my ex. We had only been seeing each other a short time but after a few months we fell out over a misunderstanding and he dropped me - just like that - no warning, noth...

I left my husband because he hangs around his uncle who is a drug user and drug dealer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

18 September 2015 (F) - My husband has a horrible uncle who is a cocaine addict and also selling the drug and other things like stealing etc..and going causing trouble with other drug dealers. I have had many an argument with my husband about him associating with him as ...

My ex has confused me. Why would he block me? Was he mad that I defriended him on FB?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - I would really appreciate it if I could get an outside perspective of this situation I'm going through. I'm really upset and don't understand what's wrong with this guy. I recently turned 20 and my ex is 21. I met him during the end of January (...

How can I hang in this relationship any longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3353 days ago

17 September 2015 (F) - I dont know where to begin but i am in a relationship that has to end. It's horrible. I have never been so unhappy and so alone. I often find myself wondering about my exboyfriend. Ive been in this current relationship for 5 uears now. The more ...

I miss him and I'm not happy with my classes and schedule! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

16 September 2015 (F) - So at the end of July I went through a breakup... The guy and I broke up because of the fact that we were going to different highschools... So this year I get my schedule and go to a school that I hardly know anyone in and am not very happy with ...

How can I show him love when I have no confidence and feel so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - I'm looking for more advice - I am begging...I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal ...

Why is my ex-friend even trying with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My female friend treated me badly - she had an affair with my boyfriend behind my back, lied to me and basically treated me like dirt. We fell out obviously - but now she wants to make up and says she feels bad about everything she's done. ...

Boyfriend admitted that he's attracted to another woman but says it ends there and has no feelings for her. Do I believe him?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

15 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend (not sure what to call him right now) have been dating for over a year now. We have had our ups and downs but have a lot of love for each other. I just broke up with him last week because I found out that 8 months ago he had a crush o...

Should we end the marriage rather than try save it for the sake of our daughter

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (F) - I did it. I have finally confronted my husband to let him know how unhappy I am in our marriage. We argue about silly things. Mainly most recently due to our toddler growing up and how different we deal with her been corrected. For a long time when ...

I'm in love with a difficult housemate and I don't know if I should move out or not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3354 days ago

14 September 2015 (M) - Around 9 months ago I received a facebook message from someone I've never met before and a friend request :" Hey man, how are you? You were proposed as a friend and I think I remember having you as a tinder match. ;) You seem like a nice person, so ...

What happened to change his mind ? My LDR broke up with me after we met in person.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

12 September 2015 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for around 10 months but we've known each other for a year. We met on an online game we play. We started as just gaming buddies but then over a couple months we got to know each other, we called and video ...

Is there a way to know for sure when a girl has an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

12 September 2015 (M) - I would like to know if it’s posible to tell when a girl has had an orgasm and how noticable it is. I’ve heard that lots of women use to fake orgasms, and I find it embarrassing to ask if they had one. I don’t have problems with mine, it’s simple to ...

He said the only thing that works for him is porn and now I don't want to have sex with him either! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I(both 22) started dating a year ago. I think that we both have a rather high sex drive and at the beginning sex was great. Unfortunately we had to go LDR for a few months and he started using antidepressant medication. W...

Boyfriend and I broke up and now I'm lost, scared, no family to turn to and financially not very well off. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years and living together for the last 7 years. I have my own job and helped pay what I could but we lived in his house that he owns. He took over his fathers business about a year after I moved in and started m...

Am I a fool for falling in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

10 September 2015 (M) - Did I do the right thing, I turned around an walk away, without saying a word, I was seeing this gal for three months, fell head over heals in love, her ex beat all the time, she was going through therapy, for the abuse, when he got out of jail, she ...

Should I cut my "friends" off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3359 days ago

10 September 2015 (F) - So I've been friends with these girls for almost 6 years now but we started to hang out less once both of them became mothers (I'm not) and we got jobs. However, my two friends are still close and hang out regularly. So one of the friends invited me ...

To say goodbye? Should I simply leave now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

9 September 2015 (F) - I had an one night stand two months ago. Fast forward and we have decided to go long distance, as I moved abroad for a semester. He's my worse nightmare. I cannot believe how much I came to like him. I want to be with him long enough to say "I...