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writes:I dont know where to begin but i am in a relationship that has to end. It's horrible. I have never been so unhappy and so alone. I often find myself wondering about my exboyfriend. Ive been in this current relationship for 5 uears now. The more i do for this man the more he takes me for granted. There are so many things that i am growing sick of... But i will share with only a few. Example#1 i paid the rent this month so my fiance can pay can pay off some of his fines. I haven't asked for any money i have paid the majority of our bills in the past 4 year's. Well i find out today that he plan's on sending his unborn grandsons baby mother money to help pay her rent he doesn't offer me rent money and he has lived with me for 4 years but sends her money. There is more I have been pregnant 3 times but his response was get an abortion. Which i did all 3 times because of financial difficulties. So he is too broke to have a child with me and help me with our bills but he can send his son's baby mother money for her rent. How can i hang in this relationship any longer? Lately all I do is wonder what things would've been like if i didnt leave my ex man for my present one
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (17 September 2015):
 Wondering what might have been will get you nowhere. What you must do now is end this relationship. If you are renting you can find somewhere else, that is if he won't move out.
Get a grip on your life and you will feel much better. Don't be a doormat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2015): First of all, if you are unhappy in a relationship and you see no ways of making it better, then leave. Don't stay attached to someone who makes you feel lonely and unhappy. Why do this to yourself? Even if you're alone, you'll be happier, right?
Secondly, have you ever thought that he doesn't want children because of the fact that he sees his son's baby mother stressing for food and money and it's unhealthy to bring a child to this earth and not be able to care for him/her.
Maybe if he had more money, a better job and you both are financially more stable, then things will be different, but right now might not be the time?
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