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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He's either upset with her and trying to keep me out of it or he's trying to break things off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am having a hard time figuring out what is going on with a guy I have been getting to know over the past 5 months. We met through an online dating site, and we live a few hours away from one another, so we don't see each other very often, b...

Should I stay positive and confident or accept what is happening.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 years just moved out and i find out last night that there is no chance that "we will get back together right now". She says she still loves me but she doesn't know if she is in love with me right now. We were engaged at one time ...

My ex is really starting to creep me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - not so long ago i wrote about not being able to broke up with my boyfriend because he wouldn't let me, he would start crying and begging and that broke my heart and made me unable to do it. then a week or two ago i finally did it. But now i have a ...

No reply to my text -- is this the end?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5159 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi, We have a casual relationship lasting for several months. From january we used to talk everyday. He was the one initiating it and he was always very into me. Both of us we know this could never be a "real" relationship but both of us accep...

Do you think she will come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm a 19 year old college students and my ex is a 16 year old in high school. We dated for a little over a year and we were inseparable. While at college we missed each other a ton and it hurt a lot. Over the summer she dumped me because she said it ...

His parents wont accept me as thier daughter inlaw

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi My bf yesterday informed me that he cant marry me since his parents wont accept me as their daughter-in-law since im elder to him by 3 yrs and divorcee (no kids though). we are seeing each other for past 1 yr, we started off as friends and then...

I said harsh things that led to our breakup

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I orginally posted a question, but for some reason the moderator(s) rejected it for being inappropriate, which does not make sense to me as I have seen so many similar questions being posted. Anyway, I will repost this without a lot of details, and ...

He's leaving the wife!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5150 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My man is in a loveless marriage, and he's leaving his wife very soon. We've talked at length about this and he just doesn't want to be there anymore. He's not moving in with me, but finding his own place. I know when the shit hits the fan it...

My girlfriend had sex with another guy because of me!! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost 1 1/2 years, i got real drunk, some girl jus had 100% intention on doing everything with me, i barely spoke to her the entire night. I still dont know to this day why i followed her up to her room. We had sex. My ...

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

Should I move to my ex's city like I had planned while we were together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broken up we were together for a year and it was mainly a long distance relationship. When we were together I was planning on moving to her city and whenever I would visit her city I fell in love with ...

Coping with Guilt and Lost Love, Please Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - It's been about six months since the end of my relationship and I am still in agony. Get got very close and very deep very quickly. Everything feel apart so fast I had whiplash. I loved this person with my whole soul. When we met I didn't want a ...

Still Broken Over Break-Up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Last May (2010), my boyfriend of a little over a year broke up with me. It came out of nowhere, and completely destroyed me. He broke up with me right before we both Graduated, and said that he was tired of not being able to do what he wanted. ...

Tips on finding someone in my situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - does online dating work? I am finding myself more and more socially awkward/self conscious around girls ever since my ex treated me horribly and left without reason over a year ago (she has since apologized and we are still friends), I think it is ...

She broke up with me and was with another guy three days later

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5157 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I recently broke up, and just 3 days after she started dating this guy that she met when she was still involved with me. The feeling has just been so incredibly painful, I don't know what to do when she told me this I was ...

We split because she said we didn't do anything specal together. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - me and my gf split on amicable terms...i thought things where on the mend and improving she says she split because we didnt do anything special, i spoilt her too much and we spent too much time together...she also got tired of my anxiety disorder...

Do I vanish or tell him how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5165 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi....I liked this guy G for a while. We dated unofficially....then he hurt me a lot and I ignored him....I still like him a lot. I just found out he has an official relationship.... Should I just "vanish" and do what I do to supress my feelings...

He wants to be single?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday ...

It hurts like hell, how do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I ended my relationship with my lover 2 weeks ago and im trying to forget him but its hard.I miss him and i have crying spells but i had to end it because i felt that it was all one sided.How do i get over him? Because its hurting like hell....

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after ...

I think she knows I still like her, but I'm afraid to tell her how I feel about her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My x girlfriend split up with me two months ago, we were getting on great and one day she turn round to me and said she didnt feel the same way about me anymore, I was devastated. Anyway she got in contact with me through facebook chat, we seemed ...

Help me get out of this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5164 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which ...

I know she still loves me but she won't say it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - hello, i am 25 and split with my girlfriend 4 weeks ago, we where together for 3 years and its really broken my heart when we ended, the reason we finished was because her mum passed away and a week later she ended our relationship, she said she ...

She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my ...

My ex is self obsessed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Hi, my GF left me and wants us to "be friends". But its too painful even seeing her. How do i tell her? Also i think shes self obssessed, as apparantley she thinks that i was aiming a performance of the song "Sunny Afternoon" at her, what do i do?...

Breakup Pain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm sixteen and have just started college. Three weeks ago my boyfriend of two and a half years finished with me. He said he didn't love me any more and started fancying other girls. Up until that point he'd acted normally to me, sex, I love you's, ...

Is it time to leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - i have been with my current partner for 11 years. he refuses to get a job to help with the bills. If he gets any money he will spend it on drink. he is verbally abusive and on a few occasions in drink he has been physically abusive. i am at the end ...

I want to get back with her but she has already started dating again! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - So here's my situation my girlfriend and I recently broke up like 2 weeks ago and apparently after a few days of us being seperated she's already began dating someone else that she met when she was still with me. Suffice to say this isn't a good ...

I am giving him a deadline. By next fall, he needs to be in a school or have a good steady job, or I am not going to be with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend of 3 years. First off, he is not in college and doesn't have a job. He graduated high school last year, but he never even applied to a school until after. He does not have a job either. He goes around ...

My heart is smashed into a million little pieces...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago, my heart has literally been smashed into a million tiny pieces and it hurts so much. It hurts this much mainly because it was a sudden breakup and that I wasn't expecting it. What's even worse is ...

I really want to speak to my ex... it ended badly

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My ex broke up with me for her ex after she went to see him in hospital after he got beaten up. I had done nothing wrong to deserve this. The last time we spoke was when I told her that I had been threatened by him (he sent me emails telling m...

I am an idiot!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I am currently engaged to a beautiful woman with 2 kids, the story is as follows. Beautiful woman was with self centered and controlling man that liked to see her bang other guys, she did not like this went though 10 years of this to stay married....

How did she manage to get over me so quickly???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend for the last year dumped me on Saturday, and we had a good relationship, and i really loved her. But she left me because she "didn't have any time for me" I was ok with this, until she got a new boyfriend today. How did she get over ...

He left me for my cousin!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for quite a while. But we recently broke up because he left me for my cousin! turns out he heard rumors of me and he believed them so as a "revenge" he dated my cousin. he swears he loves me and will never do that again. ...

The difference between the sexes, or getting over a break-up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - So, last Saturday (9/25/10)I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt he wasn't fulfilling my sexual needs. He was my first love and we were together for three years. Because we have been together for so long, we are also best friends. Therefore we ...

What should I do with this ex who said we can't be friends? He keeps looking at me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I had a great relationship with a guy i met through friends. He dumped me after 9 months due to our 'differences' although he still loved me and meant all the nice things he had said. I handled the break up quite well and despite feeling sad at the ...

I'm willing to change to get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. We had been dating a little over a year. The reason we broke up is I would start arguments with him and I admit I was a little too pushy. When we were together, we did have a lot of fun and ...

I cant deal with the fact all my ex's have new girlfriends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - In the past couple of days Ive come to realise that all my exes (4) have got new girlfriends and for some reason it really bothers me. Apart from one (the love of my life am still not over him), the other 3 I dont even have feelings for anymore so ...

I feel incredibly disrespected and am not sure how or if to move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5161 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I can't shake what happened between my ex bf and I over the summer and am unsure of what to do. The month of March was really rocky for my boyfriend and I. We had been dating for 4 years and a lot of stress was coming to a head. I was graduating...

He wants a break, but what if he doesn't have any answers by the end of the week?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I am looking for some guidance and maybe some encouragement during the hardest week of my life. My bf and I have been together for almost a year and 8 months and just recently he has decided he needs time to think and we are taking a break f...

He said we are on a break, what does that mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5166 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Well my boyfriend came to talk to me last night and asked for a break. I wouldn't call it asked though cause I did not really have a choice, and I know why we are having this break. There are a lot of things in his life he needs to get together ...

Obsessed with my best friend - need some help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5153 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Hi there, I'm new to the forum so not sure whether this is the right place. Hope so! I'm currently a student and feeling pretty low at the moment. I'm a 19yr guy and bisexual. Even though I feel "safe" behind a computer screen it feels hard to ev...

How a crush destroyed my marriage.....what is your opinion?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5155 days ago

28 September 2010 (?) - The excerpt below is a series of narratives I wrote 2 years ago after I developed a life-changing crush on a woman. Since then, this woman moved away, I lost touch with her, I fell away from my wife and had an affair (with a different woman), my ...

How do I find the strength to leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles I really hope you can help me. I have been in a relationship for close to three years now and for the duration of it I believe my partner has been cheating on me with different women. Back in March something wasnt right so b...

A snapshot of my lonesomeness

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - Not a relationship question but i wrote this recently, after getting out of a long relationship...Its kind of a snapshot of my lonesomeness, wondering what the next chapter in my life will be(even though i am more than happy its over i still felt ...

How do I deal with this emotional pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend recently left me for another guy and I just realized how alone and pain I'm in. The worst part is that I don't have a lot of friends either. Is there anything I can do to alleviate my severe emotional pain?...

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

How can someone just suck you in and then 3 months later spit you out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I just broke up after 3 months. In the first 2 months he told me that he was crazy about me, and loved to be with me, always called me, and I thought we were both very happy. We have a lot in common and we both wanted a long term ...

Totally devastated. How do I get over her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend and I broke up and today I found out she's already dating someone else. As you can imagine this is really painful for me right now, it feels like someone just ripped out my heart. Can someone please tell me what I can ...