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Archived questions from: 22 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why would he say he's happier when he's really not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I got together last night to watch a movie at the house.One thing lead to another and we had sex.He initiated it *he knew previously that I wouldnt be against/weird out cos of it or think we're together*.During - he seemed like he was ...

I know I like him and I think he likes me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Well, there's this boy who I really really like. He goes to my school, and ironically we never really talked in school, but then I went to summer camp and surprisingly he was there and we started talking and now we're really close. Anyway, he ...

Night attacks from my mind over boyfriends past!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Ok so this was a year ago now. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for seven months when we went to the same uni and i got involved with another man and broke it off with him. That dissolved quickly and by the new semester i was back with my ...

How can I let her go when I love her so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - After eight years, my g/f and I decided to have a open relationship with others on the internet because she said she was having problems with being faithfully..not cheating on me just liking on getting to know other people. I was having problems ...

I love him...but I think he hates me!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My now ex, isnt with me anymore because since he came back from the war he seems to be way distant than normal. Ive tried to be there for him but he always tells me hes all alone and no one understands him. We were always getting into arguments just ...

Did being pregnant ruin our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I are 21 and she is pregnant. When we first found out the news we were both scared and shocked, I would be lying if I said anything different. In the next few days we both talked and were very excited, she always wanted to start ...

Is it really over between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - How long do breaks in a relationship last? My boyfriend and I of two years have just had a son together and all the extra stress that goes with it. We've been fighting more. And he wanted to break up so I packed my things then he changed to I need ...

She knew that it would be a short-term relationship, but now she is pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been dating a girl for nearly a year, I'm on holiday in the UK and we both know that I was going back to Aus in the end, I have been completely honest from the start about all that. I leave in 6 weeks, and she just told me she is pregnant ...

My boyfriend leaves me for his ex-gf. How do I move on from this extremely hurtful pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months. I know it may sound like a short amount of time, but I began to fall for him. However, towards the end, we were having a rough time and he ended up leaving me for his ex-gf. Supposedly she was asking him back and ...

Should I give up on the love of my life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Aiight, check it... I'm 20, two years ago ago I was with this girl, she's 18.. knowing how she was.. she was scared of letting her parents find out, so we were in a private love affair... Things got really heated and we almost had sex on many occ...

I'm a little obsessed with knowing what shes doing now that shes single...any opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - How long is considered a normal amount of time after a break up to be following your ex's life through a social networking site? Im going on about three weeks straight after a year long relationship. Other than that Im over it. I wouldnt even want ...

We all need to move on, but its like we cant....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My parents split up about a year and a half ago, but the divorce is only being sorted out now. It's exceptionally complicated because they own a business together as well. There are many reasons as to why they split up - they're just two very di...

I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...

Should I stay with him? Throughout our 3 year relationship I have been depressed and I feel like I am losing my mind!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been through alot in our relationship, he's a widower and has a little daughter. I don't know if I should stay with him. He always takes his mother in law and sister in law side (they don't like me...trust me I know they ...

I've just found out that I'm pregnant but I want to leave my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Right i basically need to know what i should do. I just found out i'm pregnant last week, i knew i was for a couple of weeks anyway so it didn't come as a HUGE surprise. I'm almost 8 weeks in. I'm happy at my little surprise bambino and excited. The ...

Am I wrong for wanting to move on and find happiness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have decided to end things with my partner, sheerly because he gambles five days a week, we have one child together and i have three from a previous relationship, and he pays no interest in them only complains about their behaviour, they are ...

Why the sudden U-turn in his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man for 8 weeks and he just finished the relationship. He fell in love with me in two weeks and i said it was too fast. He said he had found the one, he spoke about moving in one day in the future when we were ready and that one ...

Why am I a secret when I'm carrying his child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i zak have been off an on for almost 8 months. Well, ous relationship has been full of alot of good things and there has been many heart breaking moments. We just found out that we're having a baby and i told my parents and they're ...

She doesn't initiate contact - should I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Since last year, it has becomes long distance relationship. It goes well for the first few months then have a huge fight. Problem rooted from trust issue and we ended up badly. I believe it is both fault. If only I trust her little more and ...

He broke up with me for his ex, how do I approach this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - So the guy i have been seeing for the past 2 months ended things with me. things before were absolutely great. texted me, introduced me to his family, his friends, told me how smart and pretty and funny i was. he wasn't the player type at all. but ...

Where is the love and why can't I get any?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - This is mainly about the relationship I have with myself; I hope that's okay...? Also, I sincerely apologize for how long this actually is and if you read through this whole thing, I applaud you... Anyhow, I was about seven when I started showing ...

Do I make the next move or move on?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - I ended my relationship because he started to distant himself from me then turned around and said that we was never together in the first place which is a lie as we did stuff that most normal couples would do, we spent most our time together then he ...

Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Are there guys out there who are happy to accept their girlfriend without trying to change her? A year ago my long term boyfriend wanted to change so much about me - my taste in music wasn't girly enough, my clothes not classy enough, my glasses ...

With him, it's constant kisses and hugs and "I love yous" and it's really starting to annoy me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 months now and hes become totally obsessed with me. I constantly get txts asking "wuu2" or "ily so much babe x" and its like really freaking me out....at first it was like aww now i find myself i...

Long long story short, rekindle or put out the flame? Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - Me and my boyfriend broke up 2 months ago after dating for 14 months. It seemed right we both, yes even myself at the time, decided maybe friends would be better, the spark just wasn't there anymore. It was a lot harder then i thought it would be ...

I love him but he doesn't want a long term relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

22 July 2009 (F) - hi, Im a young lady who has fallen for a guy 7 years younger than myself... i have deeep feeling for him and i know he has feeling for me but he doesnt want a long term relationship with me what do i do about this, do i move on as we have now brok...

She wants to end the relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

22 July 2009 (M) - hi im wondering if i may ask of your help with regards to my girlfriend and our current situation,we have been arguing just of late and she says she wants to end it although we have twin girls just 14 months old. is it a gene thing or a family trait ...