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Archived questions from: 5 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I get rid of this man who won't eccept that we are over!!??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - How do I get rid of a man who won't go away? Won't accept that we are over? One would think that my calling off our first engagement shortly after it started would have been enough. And then calling off our second engagement the day before t...

Should I book I flight to try and rekindle the passion?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Okay this is the deal…my ex and I were together for 4 years. We owned a house together, about 20 minutes from my family. He broke up with me 2 weeks ago because he felt the passion had died. He moved back in with his parents, 14 hours away! I ...

Ladies... What could a gent do to prove he's changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I know this is VERY general question but here goes anyway: ladies imagine or think of a gent you've known. The two of you were close, very close. Over time you began to believe he just wasn't happy being with you anymore and that in turn was ...

I cheated on her but I still miss her, she even misses me too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello, Summing it up and asking for words of wisdom; was in an 18 year relationship- I cheated. I left and she found someone right away and they live together now. We have had lots of "conversations." Not too long ago, she contacted me and said...

Can I win her back or is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - im 30yrs of age been in a 5yr relationship with a girl who means the world to me we lived togeather ive got a 6 yr old boy by a previous relationship which wasnt a problem to her she accepted him and was like a mum to him every thing been good with ...

How can I turn her down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - i'm an 18 year old boy dating a 16 year old girl that threatens to hurt herself and she acts inmature out in public and i just can't stand the way she acts when we go out somewhere and i'm at that point where i just wanna break up with her ...

How to get her back after you've said really awful hurtful things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfreind broke up about a week ago. The problem was that she started to help a male friend with his business and he was willing to help her get into better shape. The problem started when every time we would go out she would always ...

He'll chase some slutty girl and then come back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - so my exboyfriend and i have been going through it for a year and a half. one minute he loves me nothing in this world can change that, when we fight he cant eat or sleep it turns his world upside down cause i am his world, no matter how mad he gets ...

What can't I ever let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - I just wanted some opinions on this subject because Im finding more and more that Im in the minority here. The thing is I really dont understand how people can cut each other out of their lives after a relationship breaks up. When Im with som...

I'll never get over him if he keeps calling every day!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hello again. Clearly waiting around for the guy I love isn't an option. If he can't make a commitment, or respect me, there isn't really a point. But the problem is, we're really close friends and we talk almost everyday. I know that I'll never get ...

I don't know how to fix my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - i need some advice-hopefully i wont get any nasty comments but if i do so be it. i just need advice. ive recently finished with my ex-i was with him 5 years-5 years too long. in that time he has never visited my family, never called, calls once...

He had a picture of his penis on his phone

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - i've been dating this boy for quite a while now, almost nine months- and up until the other day we were quite happy together.. until we had a little arguement, i walked away with his phone because he walked away with my shoe.. and as i walked away ...

What does a guy from Kansas have to offer a girl from Italy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - note: i am changing all details and painting the picture/situation accurately to find advice/suggestion...should i fight for her. title: Boy from Kansas meets girl from Italy. She's 33 and i'm 36. ...we dated for 3 years, i'm 36 and to be as m...

I'm scared he'll move on, but I won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had a on and off relationship for the last while. It seems like forever since I've had these feelings for him. It feels like he is all I know. I feel as if without him, I will never be happy again and I hate feeling lik...

Really forgiven or a panacea for her pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5654 days ago

5 July 2009 (M) - I have been married for 25 yrs. My wife is 57 and I am 45. Our marriage has gon stale in the last 5 yrs, which led to me seeking love elsewhere. I left my wife and the other woman to start a new life. My wife found out about the affair since ...

My boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have currently been in a LDR for the last nine months. It was a hard nine months, but he finally moved back to my home town two weeks ago. Everything has been going so great. We have our up's and down's, but nothing to major...

My main problem is why we broke up, how can I fix things between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5658 days ago

5 July 2009 (F) - Hi Cupids, this is a bit of a long one so apologies!! :) My boyfriend of four months broke up with me a few weeks ago saying that we didn't see enough of each other, that we didn't talk enough and basically that he felt like he didn't know me a...