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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Why am I so upset my ex got married to someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i probably sound really silly writing this but im really upset that my ex fiance has got married to somebody else. im upset because i dont understand why im upset after all when we were together we had a house which i left to him after our bad sp...

Should I take him back? We have this chemistry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Ok let me break this down for you in its simplest form, if possible. Me and Sam click. Theres always been this chemistry which we both find difficult to gain from other relationships. Theres almost an oxymoron persona between us; love is always f...

One day I'm the girl he's going to marry, the next day he's stand-offish!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I am quite hurt and confused and would really appreciate any advice! Me and my boyfriend of six months broke up about a month ago but during that month we have been in contact every day, talking meeting up and even going away on a trip together! For ...

She screws with my head, but I love her. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i have been on before and got good advise, so here we go again. i broke up with my partner just over 4 weeks ago. she asked me to move out as i was making her unhappy but now i have my own place and am decorating it. she is being nasty and very ...

We both cheated now he wants a week break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months, we've both cheated on eachother and i felt awful. After that we worked it out and then the arguing happened again this time more often and we got more verbally nasty with eachother. ...

Will he contact me or will the male pride stop him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up over a month ago but decided to remain friends. A week later we had a row via email which resulted in me saying that I didnt think he cared enough about me and therefore I was saying goodbye. I explained that I hoped one ...

Stages of getting over a break-up, can you tell what stage I am now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - I am still not completely over my ex. I know it will take time but when will that be? I can't wait for the day that he becomes a name I would just remember and the feelings like it was a part of a dream I had before. Right now, I can say I am don...

We broke up a year ago, but still 'hook up'!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up a year ago, and since then we've been hooking up every so often. I'm not sure what to do, its like we cant get back together in a relationship because it just doesnt work out, but after a while we miss each other so much, ...

How can I leave this awful relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I have been in a bad relationship for three of the longest years of my life. I am only 20 years old and i have a two year old daughter. this relationship as been so bad till i cry myself to sleep sometimes. Now we live together everythings in my ...

I can't move forward in my life with all these feelings I have for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Hi guys, first of all Id like to tell u that im gay, im feeling really down because me and my boyfriend broke up almost a month ago, he ended up with me in very hurtful terms telling me he didn´t love me anymore, added to this problem i have a bunch ...

Am I heartless for even thinking about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if ...

Should I accept it's over and never contact him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I have just split up with my boyfriend of 18 months and I feel really confused, hurt and upset. He broke up with me because he felt too pressured to commit and knows he can't give me what I want. He doesn't think it will ever work a...

Heartbroken over 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I dont know how to stop this heartache feeling, it never seems to fade. I lost my virginity to this guy in december after a few too many drinks, we meet each other in the summer and liked each other but nothing happened because i was scared because ...

How do I get over my ex when I have no opportunities to meet new girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - my ex girl of 3 years and 9 months broke up with me 2 months ago... and iv been hurting ever since... i didnt talk to her for a few weeks till she called me for a favor to which i bent over backwards to make her happy by doing it... although i ...

I thought I didnt have romantic feelings for her anymore but now I wonder if I really do love her?

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21 July 2009 (M) - ok the story is really interesting ...long story short ..i dumped my gf cuz i didnt have romantic feelings for her but only loved her as my bestest friend which i realised really very late ...our relationship was for 9 months... we were friend...

Should I tell my ex's new girlfriend that he cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me by email over the Easter bank holiday, after an on/off relationship that spanned 26 years, telling me he had moved to Italy with his friend, which I knew was a lie because he had been phoning supposedly from Italian hotels ...

When will I feel okay again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my live in partner of the last 4 years 4 months ago and I'm still get pangs of pain. We have had barely any contact over the last 4 months. We did speak once and he said he was in as much pain as I was but he didn't want to try ...

Broke up, trying to stay friends but I'm unsure how to proceed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Hi All - i have recently split from my girlfriend (3 weeks ago) and for those 3 weeks we have been going through the angry, bitter stage as you do - i have been pretty gutted about it all and she seems the opposite however sunday night we we're both ...

A Fickle Ex BF. How Do You Fix A Fickle Person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I just realized that my ex and I broke up cos he's fickle. He claims he just wasn't feeling it anymore. But he seemed happy daily, contacted me daily and even when given the opportunity to be alone or hang w/ friends - he'd wanna see me. He made up ...

Does this seem like an overreaction?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - Okay, so here's the deal. Around late June, my girlfriend asked me to hold onto a piece of sheet music for her because she didn't want to lose it. She would ask for it a few times to practice, seeing as how her choir class would be performing the s...

Would getting away from everything be a good move?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was with someone for over 5 yrs. Almost 2 weeks ago we split as per usual. Think our record has been 2 weeks without breaking up. Always the same thing cropping up again and again. Lets just say some would call it cheating. Last week i realised i ...

He's gone from contacting me daily to hardly ever

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I don't get it. My ex and I had a good relationship. He called/msged me daily or would offer to come see me daily. I hardly ever initiated contact cause he always called/came over..but I dug it. We broke up cause it seems like financial/home life ...

I've changed since me and my ex broke up, and now I want her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I was in a relationship for almost 2 years with this girl.. We broke up because of my jealousy issues. About 2 months after breaking up i met this other girl and now we're dating. She is awesome but a HUGE flirt. She flirts with other guys left and ...

Am I wrong? Is he? Is my relationship over??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Last night I came home to my man and told him that I was considering taking a pole dancing fitness class with a workmate who asked me to join her. It has always looked like a bit of cheeky fun and I really wanted to do it. He didn't like the idea, ...

He said he's not ready for a girlfriend right now, but he also told me he'd never let me go!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - ok so im 15 and theres this guy ive been in loge with since december.. hes 16 and tells me he loves me too. first he had a girlfriend and we started talking and were like best friends. then i started to like him more than a friend. i just figured it ...