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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Opinions please. Why won't he have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a week ago. We're still attracted to each other - obviously and our break up had no real reason/ I think he just felt overly stressed w/ everything his life but neither of us were happy bout the breakup. We've been ...

Help me unravel her intentions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Hi, I got out of a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago and have been doing fine being single, recently I came across a really cute girl and we hung out together twice, both times with a bunch of my friends. We have a fair bit in common and we...

I've got this great guy, but all I think about is my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - dear cupid i need your help. im nowhere near over my ex, "robert", and we were on and off for almost two years and inseperable bestfriends for two years before we decided to turn romantic. i love him with everything i have and i mean truly madly ...

We apparently act like a couple, but we've been broken up for 6 months!

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20 July 2009 (F) - Well this is a bit of a long story but if you like essays then here it goes! My ex-boyfriend and I were great together and everyone used to say how cute we were together, i thought everything was fine until one day..totally out of the blue he t...

I'm consumed by jealousy that my old boyfriend has married! Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - really need some help i have tried to get help for this and my friends have been great listening to me but i still am in despair. i have recently finished a relationship with a guy which lasted 5 years. the last 4 were awful-i shudder no when i...

I want to end this relationship with a married man, but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I'm been seeing this married man about a year now. I just don't understand how he can sleep with me and then turn around and sleep with her. i think the best thing is to stop this relationship but not sure how. Does anyone have any advice? ...

What was your technique in forgetting about your ex? How were you able to do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Please give me some effective ways to forget an ex? I have tried everything from listing down the bad things and the reasons why I have to move on. I also tried saving an SMS on my phone reminding me that past is past and there's nothing I ca...

I know this is a relationship cul-de-sac, but it's so exciting. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am currently in a realationship with my boyfriend of three months,although this seems like a short period of time to be serious,he has introduced me to all his family and friends and there is a very strong bond there.However,he is leaving in two ...

Help me decipher my exhusband's motives!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Why does my ex husband text me then ignore me the next. He has a girlfriend and says he loves her, but meets me to talk. He told me the other day the have issues they might not be able to work out. He also told me not to text and he has my number if ...

I broke up with her because my friends said I should. Now I want her back but she said no!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - there was this girl lets say she is called j and we went out and we really liked each other and it was great until people started making fun of me because j isnt the prettiest and i ignored them but then my own friends said they will fall out with ...

Do you think I should get back with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - i dated this guy for 2 weeks which is a very short amount of time. B4 we got together, we would always talk and all that. and he was sooo sweet and nice to me. on our first date i could definitely tell that he liked me alot! he definitely showed it ...

Due to college, we are breaking up in late August! What are some other options so we don't have to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for a full year but have gotten serious since march. I'm 19 years old ( going to be my 2nd year on college) and he's 26 with a stable job ( has his life straight for the most part).since march, we've been doing a long ...

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

Do I stick it out with the current bf or give the new Welsh guy a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling very confused at the moment. I have had a very on and off relationship with my current boyfriend for just over three years now. I have recently moved to Wales and he's still in the Midlands and we have found the long distance thing ...

I still love him and I really don't want to anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hello, i am an 17 year old and newly single. My ex relationship was huge. He was my bestfriend and a great person everyone loved that he took care of me and loved me. I am sick and tired of thinking I did something wrong. He and i got into a fight ...

Should I change my number, or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Okay, so I starting seeing this guy about a month ago and we used to date about 3 years ago and I left him because I found out he was talking to another girl. I just had a baby about 5 months ago and really was hurt by my child's father and haven't ...

I broke up with my boyfriend of four years a month ago...is it bad I'm dating again already?

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20 July 2009 (F) - I Broke up with my serious boyfriend of 4 years a month ago....is it bad im dating already? Only been on one date but have another this weekend.......i still think about my ex but know it was the right thing to do as i was looking else were and ...

My boyfriend excludes me from EVERYTHING. He lies and he cheats but I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Ok, Im 26 and im Bi and im out...my BF is 21 and he is severely in the closet. We have been together almost 9 months. Nothing in our relationship is going good. But I love him to death and I know he is my soulmate (im not just saying that) If ...

My ex has a new girlfriend, how do I get him to date me again without being the reason they break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - ok so my ex who im really not over called me a few days ago and said he hates his gf and needs help on breaking up with her. i said ok?? but the thing is he has called every night since then. and i always answer and he always says i love you. so the ...

What is the best way to forget an ex-boyfriend who doesn't like you?

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20 July 2009 (F) - ok, my ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a year ago and im still very much in love with him. ive known him for about 2 years but we only went out for a month. i miss him alot and i tried to text him and talk to him but he never answers, when he ...

If he loved me completely then why did he lie?

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20 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid, I fell deeply in love with a younger man, We were perfect for each other and I wanted to marry him. Then life got in the way and we parted. We got back together, and he promised me to make things better, IE: help me financially with wha...