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Archived questions from: 26 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He has left me, but still wants to control what I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, I am having relationship difficulties with my boyfriend at the moment. I felt as though I wanted to be more committed to him and spoke about moving in together. This immediately caused arguments as my boyfriend does not want to...

We had a messy break up but I want to rekindle him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. We were nasty in the break up (he refused to return calls, I couldn't stop calling). It ended with a "don't ever call me again" and "don't call me until you're an adult" rant fest. We were both in the wrong, ...

How can I be playing him when he said he doesn't want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Right me and my ex was going to try again but due to things that have happened lately he has decided he no longer likes me and does not what to try again. It was hard to accept at first but i have accepted it now and began talking to an old friend, ...

I want him to see that he needs me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hello there , im new to this site and i cam across him because im in need of cupids help. The story goes like this ( short version ) we were a couple for 2 and a half years and 2 weekes ago we had a fight and he said to me that he had enough he ca...

How can I get closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i met a guy on holiday, we got on brill although i could sense that he was possibly insecure and jealous by a couple of things that he did and said. 2 days before i was due to leave i had a talk with him, he said he would come on holiday to where i ...

Does this silence mean he's thinking about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my bf of over a year a few months ago. We tried to stay friends. I only did bc I was hoping things would respark. (kind of hard when this is long distance.) anyway, on his visit home I told him I cant stay friends with him anymore...

Married for 3 years...What's going on? Need female perspective!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - Well were to start. I was married for three years.. some of it was a happy time. We seemed to have our problems like every couple. Sometimes when it got to a point where it was a bad fight. She would say somthing about just leaving... and of course ...

He became ill and the relationship fell apart, almost a year on he wants to try again, I'm scared of being hurt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for 3 months a year ago, last summer. He became very ill after about 6 weeks of us being together and was hospitalised for near on a month. I know 3 months isn't very long in terms of relationships, and even though it's likely ...

We've been together over 4 years, but he says he's falling for someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I have being dating my boyfriend 4 1 and half years,now he is falling in love with another girl but he claim he loves me and cannot leave me,since i discovered he is cheating on me:can i quit the relationship or still be patient with him...

Does lack of sex kill a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5419 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - My friend just told me that her husband had filed for divorce which I am really shocked by as they seemed to get on so well together. When she talked to me about the things that were happening that she didn't like in the relationship, it sounded ...

My ex wants to be my "friend with benefits"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up , now he wants to be friends with benifits ,, we broke up because i'm not ok with him talkin to a certain girl ,whom we once broke up because of her , it's not that i'm jealouse but we have sex and in the middle of it ...

Should I stay with him for the sake of our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been w/ my "fiance" for 5 years, with our son 3 yrs, he wants to marry me but he has cheated several times,even while and after pregnant he'd continued I've left him, kicked him out but because of our son we kept trying to work it out, I ...

Is there a chance he will change his mind get back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I broke up with my ex in May. By mid of June, he starts to contact me again. At first it was about some important things then later he started asking me personal questions like if I have a new boyfriend and other stuff about my family and frien...

We've broken up, he's sent me a cryptic email, what do I make of it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - i need to know how to respond to an email from my boyfriend of two years. we broke up last week. for the past few months we have been riding the breakup/cant live without you roller coster. this past week, i flipped out and completely went ...

We broke up, I told him I needed space, but now I want him back, how do I know how he feels?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I broke up with my bf a few months ago. We stayed friends in the interim. I just sent him a "would you consider getting back together" letter. I told him to take his time to think about it. I think I was so subtle in the letter that I never ...

How can I end this abusive relationship safely? And is there any way I can restore the self-esteem he has damaged?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - Hey everybody. I don't know what to do. I have recognized that I'm in an abusive relationship. It's a mixture of extreme control/jealousy, verbal abuse, slight physical ("play hitting", has hit me 1 time, threatens to punch/hit me if I dont do somet...

Help me get her back! I don't want to lose her to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - hi after 2 years with my girlfriend(who lives next door) we had a pathetic argument and she finished with me, ive told her how i feel and that i want her back , but she isnt having any of it she is 19 and im 26 , we are friends at the moment,s...

How do I let him know I'm here for him and how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 July 2009 (F) - I've been broken up w/ my bf for 2 wks or so. We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it" although during are whole relationship up until the end - he called/saw me daily, told me i was better than everyone he's dated/had me meet his family, ...

What does this girl really want? Should I back off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - I've been broken up with my ex-girlfriend for about 4 months now. We were in love, but she couldn't deal with gossip and drama so she broke it off. Now, we're working at the same sleepaway camp so we see each other every day all the time. For awhlie ...

Opinions needed. Should we stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 July 2009 (M) - So me and my girlfriend have been living together for a while now and we just broke up. I screwed up in the past while out with my friends(not cheated or anything)and lied about it. So we came to an agreement that to gain her trust back I wou...

Ex won't talk to me...

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26 July 2009 (?) - Ok, so recently I broke up with a boyfriend, because I think we are better as friends (i specifically told him I wanted to stay friends with him and everything to go back to normal). As soon as I did this, he suddenly starts hanging out with these ...