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Archived questions from: 3 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I don't know what to make of all this, can you shed some light on it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I don't understand what's going on. My boyfriend has a few issues with confidence and things of this nature. Recently they have become a massive problem and he said that he may need a break, but he doesn't even know if it would help him. So at the ...

How do you tell how a man feels about you when he won't talk?

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3 July 2009 (F) - How do you tell how a man feels about you when he want talk? My relationship with my b/f has spanned 23 years. Not all toghether. We have a child. We had great sex. He was great with my older kids. I have pulled away because I dont know how he ...

Are his feelings still true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - a few months ago my boyfriend ended our relationship. Hes in the army and he was away for 8 months. He came back and within a few days he text me after me returning home from his with a text "i dont feel like its working out, it feels awkward"... ...

I want to make up with him but I feel so alone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have recently broken up with my boyfriend. I am not sure why but he has stopped ringing,texting and stopped talking to me.I feel as if everyone is against me, I've heard people talking about me and making fun out of me. I don't know what to do. I ...

Is this me or is it moving to fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I have a good friend and his wife left him four months ago and they were together for 12 years. For three months he begged her to take him back. As far as I know, he didn't do anything bad and this break-up was out of the blue. He met a girl 4 ...

Are his feelings for me genuine?

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3 July 2009 (F) - I like this guy from past 5 years... I got to know that he is in relationship with someone else and after that i dont how but even i commited myself in a relationship but my feelings for this person remain unchanged. Whenever I used to talk with som...

What does his eagerness to keep contact mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a year and we made the huge mistake of living together to early and about a month ago we started fighting and i moved out. After i moved out things got a bit rough but we still managed to talk a and see each other ...

Since we've gotten back together I haven't orgasmed and my boyfriend thinks it's him that must be the problem. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hey, so I'm with my boyfriend of just over three years. We have been in love for these three years since we met, though we broke up after two years as we were both worried we were getting tied down too early, and both saw other people. However after ...

My boyfriend is mad about my past...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Hello, my boyfriend and I recently broke up. I know I still love him and I know he still cares about me, but he is extremly mad at me for my past. I gave him my msn password because I honestly didn't care if he went on. But before I met him there ...

I know I should be happy that he is with his next victim...so why am I so sad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Please help. I have written before about this. My xbf keeps getting in contact with me - for sex. Silly me thinking he would leave his new gf for me for the amazing things I did for him. She is the complete opposite me and I realized this ...

I love him, I told him, but I don't know if he gets it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Okay, I love this guy and have since the first day we met. But every time we go out (date) i always end up breaking up with him,. We both tell each other we still have feelings for one another. But recently he asked me if it was okay if he asked...

Did I do the right thing to say goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my ex were going out for about 4 months and i have been feeling a little captivated in our relationship. Like he expected more out of me than i can give, he also did little things like tell me what i couldnt wear (cloths, make up, ...

What else can I do to finally move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - What else can I do to finally move on? Two years ago, I fell in love with a guy at work and things started moving towards a relationship. Long story short, he ended up being a player who used me, only talks to me for sex, ignoring me otherwise and...

Did he truly love me? Should I contact him to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - Should I or shouldn't I? Sometimes, i think of my ex and I wonder if he thinks of me too. rarely are the times I think of him positively being that he made me go through so mamy emotional hardships. Times I thought he loved me and other times I ...

How do I not fall for verbally abusive ex's guilt trips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5072 days ago

3 July 2009 (F) - So basically I am just wondering if anyone out there has some tips or ways to not fall for guilt trips? My ex-bf who was verbally abusive "jokingly" he called it, made a promise to change but he has lied about things in the past and I don't th...

Broken...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hello, I've been in a relationship for 6 years with this woman who is now 31. She was a single mom of 3 kids with three different fathers, a high school drop out. I became daddy #4 four years ago. In our house there is a total of 6 different ...

Why do I freak out my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

3 July 2009 (M) - Hey, i was in town the other week and bumped into my ex who dumped me after a 2 month break she initiated. When i saw her she crossed the street to talk to me. We chatted for a while and i suggested we go for a coffee. We were walking to the c...