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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He really broke my heart and is acting like a jerk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - My guy, luke, left me right after sex. Then he stopped talking to me for a week straight. And when i tried to figure out what was going on with him, he got really pissed off and called me psycho. I was just worried about him, i was also confused as ...

I feel she needs to be let go, but I am unsure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for over two years and lately it's been pretty tough. Lately, she has been, to be honest, a big pain the ass. She will start fights and get mad at me over dumb little things like forgetting to say “I love you” ...

She wants to be friends but I want more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I moved to another state and my ex broke up with me a month later. I still love her but she is seeing another guy now who is much older then I am. She said she loves me and misses me but when i asked her about it she said she was just vulnerable at ...

There is massive miscommunication between what we really want from each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - (Mod note: please break up your massive wall of text next time with proper paragraph formatting. Many people fall away from such things.) My head is everywhere and I really need help and advice. I'm sorry that this is so long but I felt like all...

He takes creepy picture of other girls and is addicted to porn! Should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year and a half. Anyone can plainly see that were madly in love with each other. In the beginning there were problems with him being faithful and he "talked dirty" with another girl and...

I'm so confused! Should I play hard to get?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I am 29, and my ex is 30. We broke up about 6-7 weeks ago over some serious misunderstandings and misscommunication. Over the course after that breakup, we were talking, but then it faded to nothing. Last monday, she emailed me, and we have been ...

Does wanting to leave him because of no sex make me a bad person?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I really wonder , if it s is gearally happening or' Im just alone with this experience. Do over 40 man losing their sex drive usually,or its just me and my husbnand, How common is this? He is totally non sexual. Is this alarming,or the norm? And i...

She keeps everything bottled up! Why is she doing this to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - i have been with my partner for 9 years and we have two kids and lived togither untill 3 weeks ago when she said i make her sad and asked me to leave she said she loves me but cant live with me is she just saying she loves me and why is she doing ...

How do I split from him? He says he loves me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Right now I have a boyfriend and we've been together for just 3 months. We're in only in high school so it's not that big of a deal but a relationship is a relationship. I want to break up with him but I have already tried before and he practically ...

I love my ex bf very much, but is it love or should we just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I've been here a while now! I just have so much emotion! I am so very grateful for this site and all the agony aunts. I love my ex boyfriend very much, even though we havent seen each other in a year, but still keep in contact. However last con...

10 years and hes seeing this other girl but texting me like we never broke up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Ok so me and my ex were dating for 10 years. We had a pretty good relationship. Then all of a sudden we stop hanging out and seeing eachother. We would still send texts back and forth to eachother like we were still together. come to find out he ...

I have to end it with this guy but not sure how...Opinions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I need to end it with this really nice guy as i'm just not that into him. but its going to be really unexpected for him and he is going to be heartbroken. i've never had to do this before and i really don't want to do it in person, as its g...

My boyfriend of 7 years split with me. Should I give him space?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Should I give my ex-boyfriend of 7 years his space? I was with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years now. We moved in together a year ago and everything was great, we planned our future and spent all our time together. We have never had any problems...

Do I have a right to be mad at her for breaking my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. She was my first love and I've never gone through so much pain. She has already found another guy. She started hanging out with him only two weeks after we broke up and it hurts so much and makes me so ...

I need Male opinions on this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - I liked a guy a few years ago, though he rejected me when he was drunk about 4 times. He didn't care. He does the same sport as me, I left it for 2 years and I fell behind, now he's away ahead of me and he the same age as me. Now I'll never catch ...

Is it his pressure? Or do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Hi there... I started dating my ex boyfriend about 7 months ago, we broke up about 4 months ago but I have been in communication with him every day since. At the beginning of the relationship he was absolutely desperate for me and would do an...

Lack of trust/insecurities caused breakup, how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Dear Cupid.... My fiance has recently broken up with me because of my insecurities and lack of trust. Thing were going fine, marrage was only 6 months away but she relocated and we were having a long distance relationship for 6 months...

Is she being influenced to say this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - I have a question abou my ex. We recently broke up from our long distance relationship for good. (broken up several times) Mainly do to my deploying. I finally lost it in an arguement when i was called selfish,(which I honestly have never been to ...

Time to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Could use some advice. My girlfriend broke up with me. Over a huge misubderstanding, she has not given me a chance to explain. We agreed to meet and talk last Friday. I contacted her in the morning and she took the entire day to get back to me to ...

I know I need to get over him, but he's beign so callous!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - Wow, ok, I have a huge problem getting over my ex boyfriend, because he was my first love, at 23. The relationship lasted for a year and a half. He has 2 MSN accounts, one with his real name, and one with a fake name. I met him online, on his fake ...

3 years and now he wants a break!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

6 July 2009 (F) - if your a 3 year relationship and he asks for break should i give him space and how will i know were going to get back together and is it good to be friends?...

I want my ex back, I still love her and now she's seeing someone new!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

6 July 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I need help, i was dating a girl for 5 months and it was going amazing. We were both really in love and i thought it would never end. Then she broke up with me out of the blue, said that she needed to concentrate on her exams and she coul...