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Archived questions from: 25 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

What is the best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - hi, i dont know where to start. i was in a relationship with someone who was very good to me. we broke up or should i say i broke up with him because i felt neglected. He would make time for his family and friends but me. 7 months later he went to ...

My ex mentioned he'd kill another guy if I was with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - A while ago me and my boyfriend broke up and we decided to be mates with privileges, it was all good until we actually had sex, he got like half way through it and then said “what are we?” and I said “mates?” and he stopped? Eh, don’t think he’s got ...

I don't want to be a single mom! How do we get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - So I've moved out of the apt that my boyfriend and I shared with our son. But I want to be back with him . I don't know what to do everytime we talk he sits there and tells me he tried to make it work and everything I did wrong. Our son is only 2 ...

I don't want to leave her but feel like it's the last option... What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm having some problems with my girlfriend, We have been together for around nine months : Now, I have told her several times that I have wanted to leave her, Since to be honest, She doesn't act like a proper girlfriend. And lots of...

I am in love with a man who doesn't want children!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I am in LOVE with a man who i recently broke up with because he does not want to have children. I felt like he was rejecting me. He loves me and tells me so. I have ended this relationship, then poured my heart out to him repeatedly as i do not want ...

We weren't in a relationship, so why say he needs to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times ...

I want him back so badly but don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Is it ok to just express yourself on this site? I am feeling the lowest since last night. I cried till 4 am but I still don't think I cried enough. I really thought I am slowly getting over my ex who I broke up with 3 months ago but realized las...

He doesn't get that I BROKE UP with him! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - Okay, so I ended it with my boyfriend today, and I don't think he knows I'm serious? :/ He keeps saying love you baby in texts and stuff, when I don't say it back he gets upset, eh I just ended it, why would I say it back? :( It's making it pretty ...

Do you think I still have feelings for her?

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25 July 2009 (M) - hay Im really confused at the moment i dumped my ex gf last year for this other girl, the mother of my child. anyway things never happened between us and i carried on sleeping with my ex, then i found this new girl who im still seeing and is pregn...

I just found out she slept with another guy 2 weeks after we split! I feel like he took advantage of her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - ok in need of advice. i just found out last night that my ex slept with a 26 year old guy 2 weeks after we broke up and shes only 20... i never liked this guy, he was a guy she met at her new job and in the last six months of our relation...

He's being hot then cold! Is he just getting me back for saying I wanted a break and not knowing what I want?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 months now. Our relationship was fantastic, madly in love, couldnt keep our hands off eachother, loved spending time with each other etc. We had a little dis-agreement a couple of weeks ago and i told him that ...

Should I feel badly because I ended things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (?) - I just ended it with a guy I've been with for 2 years, but I didn't feel bad in any way, I've been trying to end it for months, but couldn't because I felt too bad to, then I just did it and I don't feel bad in the slightest? Is this normal? Sho...

Would this be a terribly selfish reason to end a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - So, I've been dating this fellow for a while now and things have been going pretty well but our sex drives seem to be drastically different. I feel like whenever I'm "in the mood" he is too tired or just uninterested. Which as a result has taken a ...

What can I do to get my now ex-girlfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (M) - I had a gf for 2yr 8mnths. It was a very solid bond between us. Then due to some misunderstanding we dint speak to each other for some time and then she broke up with me. During the time when we dint speak to each other she kept thinking about the ...

My boyfriend doesn't include me in any special dates and I'm sick of it. Should I go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Ok everyone I really need some help here. My boyfriend and I are in are very early thirties. We have been together for four years. However, about two years into the relationship things got bad and we ended up breaking things off for a few months. We ...

He ignores me and is rude to me, so we break up. But he always wants me back. How should I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - I really don't know what to do anymore..my boyfriend is always ignoring me but he gets mad at me when i talk to other guys. hes always so rude to me. i dont get him. he acts like he doesnt care, but sometimes he can be really sweet. i broke up with ...

How long before the pain ends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - so the day has come when I finally need help...though it might be too late but anyway...me and my bf...now ex...have recently broken up...he says i'm hard to talk to....I get it...but what I dont get is how cna he have started dating someone else ...

I'm having paranoia problems, worried that my boyfriend won't get home safely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

25 July 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend couldn't be happier with our relationship at the moment. The chemistry is amazing. We see each other nearly every day and he often stays over and we are really in love. But when he doesn't stay over, he stays in the city unti...