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Archived questions from: 23 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He wasn't making me feel good, so I broke up! Should we try again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - Well... my boyfriend and I been dating close to a year, never been perfect, he sucks in bed, but I have fallen in love regardles. For some reason, can't explain it why, he casues for me to withdraw, I like him and want to be cheerful and happy ...

How do I deal with him staring at me all the time at work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - okay I have been working at my same job for about three years. I always remain true to myself, I know I am attractive, and that I am a people person. well, there's this guy at my job, from the beginning when he got hired to now we have been staring ...

How do I get my psycho boyfriend to come back? And then when he does how do I make him work for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - hi, ive been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and i have recently lost my virginity to him. I love him more than anything and want to be with him for the rest of my life. However, we have manyyyy fights and basically fight over ...

How do I leave controlling bf without being guilt-tripped back in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Hello everybody. I have been in a relationship for about 2.5 years (with 2 "breaks" in between). In the 1st break he went out with someone else and hid it from me and lied about it. Yes I know I'm dumb to take him back. He showed great improvem...

Should I break up with him? If so, where, when and how?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm going out with a boy from the year above who really likes me and I kinda like him. He kept asking me out for months and has liked me for a year I think. The only problem is he gets jelous easily, but tries to hide it, coz I have lots of guy...

Can anyone give me an idea about what's in his head?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My ex split with me few weeks back. I'm not sure but think he cheated on me with his new girlfriend as they got together couple of weeks after we split. After weeks of him being undeceive of how he wanted me in his life as friends of not, I sent him ...

I was in danger and could of died, but he couldnt care less because he needed his sleep!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had a rocky beginning. I loved him more than anything and it wasn't mutual. I did let him go and it took me dating another for him to realize he loves me. We've been together for five years and I thought everything was fine but ...

Does my ex like me more than his new girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Right, here is my problem. At the beginning of this year I was dating my dream man. Tall, gorgeous, funny and loving. The fact that I was with him was a dream come true! After a while things became rusty and we ended up spliting up. I was gutted. ...

We broke up, but I still want him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Me and my bf broke up for about a month now. We've been together for about 4 years (next Saturday). We've remained "friends" and he called me almost everyday. The problem is that we keep on fighting over and over for the same mistakes that we made. ...

I don't want to be a second wife but I love him so much!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5576 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i am 24+ and i really need someone in my life(a fiance),i dont want to be too desperate about it because i dont want to fall into the wrong hands. i dated my boyfriend for four years but i have broken up with him because he doesn't trust me, he is a ...

He's looking to move out because I'd rather walk away than fight with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I have a pressing issue. I am with a loving man and we get along 95% of the time. He moved in with me last year and we are to be married next year. Here's the thing. When it's good it's good, when it's bad it's horrible! We fight about the kids, he ...

After 11 years he left me for another woman but I don't think he knows what he wants!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years he moved straight in with her after only knowing her for 3 weeks and this is true as she told my ex sister in law that they been together for that period so i know its true. she has a 8 year ...

Broke up, went out, she kissed another guy and I freaked!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (M) - 3 weeks ago my girlfriend and i split, although we were only together 4 3 months we built a very strong relationship and it has taken some getting over. Last night we went out together for a drink which resulted in us heading into town and making a ...

He picked her! I'm shocked and upset and disappointed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - Hi I originally posted this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/we-have-been-getting-on-so-well-but.html Please read that first because this is a follow on from that. Basically he picked her. I am shocked and upset and dissapoi...

Will I be able to trust again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I was wit my boyfriend for 5 month... he was first love, my first everything... bt wen he cheated on me (twice) everything fell apart and I broke up wit him. Now ever since I broke up wit him my relationships with men have been down hill. But n...

How to help him get over me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My sister had a boyfriend from which she had a son who I love, my only and favorite nephew. They never loved each other and the relationship deteriorated fast and broke up. But he ended up falling in love with me, I liked him too so we had a ...

We've got back together, but now he's acting differently! I feel lost, please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i met a guy on the internet a year and a half ago and when we first met ahh he was great the usual and clamed to love me very much , alot has gone on since we have had alot of small rows lead to big fights and even splits, we were going through a ...

My ex says he loves me but won't date me anymore... How do I get over him?

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23 July 2009 (F) - hi, i have had problems with trusting guys wen i got hurt a year or two ago. well i meet this guy and he promised he wouldnt hurt me. well we went out for a week when i have liked him for half a year. he broke up with me and i cried so much. he ...

I'm not sure I want to be in this relationship, but I'm scared of breaking up and being lonely

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - I'm really confused!! I'm 22 and currently with my boyfriend of two years. I dont know if he is the one, I dont even know if I really wanna be in this relationship anymore, but at the same time in not sure about breaking up either. I think im just ...

He really likes me but I just don't feel the same. How can I get him to leave me alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - i broke up with a 24yo guy as I'm just not that into him. he still wants to meet up all the time and calls me all the time. I took his virginity and was his first real gf. I know he really likes me, but at the end of the day, i didn't feel the same. ...

My ex hates me and hurts my feelings, but I really want us to be frineds

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - What should I do I want to be friends with my ex but he calls me a bitch and says just give up i don't want to be friends. He really hates me and he hurts my feelings sometimes but i know deep inside he wants to be friends hes just to afraid to ...

He left us for his internet woman. I need to move on, but cant!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

23 July 2009 (F) - My husband of 15 years left me and our 2 sons for a woman he met on the internet. He walks around and acts like nothing is wrong, like this is the Reba show. I was totally devastated. When i do talk to him he just blames me for the way our ...