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Archived questions from: 24 July, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

My lover left his family, now his health made him decide to go back, how do I cope with ending our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a man for 10 months now and we are totally in love with each other. He left his kids 24, 20 and 15yrs and wife of 23 years and moved to a flat to be nearer to me and work. I ended my relationship with my partner of 6 ...

I told everyone I dumped him, problem is I haven't actually told him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (?) - I have a little problem, well, it' not really small to me. I've told everyone I’ve dumped my boyfriend, because i really want to, and i will. Just finding it incredibly hard cause i love him, but the bad things outweigh the good by far (i posted...

I need positive advice about how to get my ex back in my arms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hi. im looking for optomistic....possitive advice and testimonies to getting your Ex bakc into your arms. Basically I fell in love with my BEST female freind. and she feel in love with me after a week of telling her......after 4 months of sort ...

My mom wants me to spend less time with my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok Here's my problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and he loves me just the same, our relationship has had some really rough times and he broke up with me for one whole day. and we patchd things up...

One minute he wants to work things out, the next he is pulling away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Please someone help me:( My boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me out of nowhere a month ago. Everyone, including me, was completely shocked. Throughout the month we have been in contact every day, talking, texting, meeting up and even going away ...

What can I do to speed the process up and get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - im in need of a little help here. a little background for you, i dated this girl for nearly 4 years. she left me about two months ago to see other people and if we were meant to be together she says we will find our way back to each other. i love ...

How do I get her back? I've loved her for 2 years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - basically, i have been involved with this girl for 2 years we've dated twice and the first time other people put an end to it and then we got together again about 5 months ago, and about 2 weeks ago she broke up with me because i lied to her but not ...

Why did he come all the way out to my house to be the way he was, especially seeing as we're over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hi..PLEASE PLEASE help me. My boyfriend and I were together for 6 months and brokke up a month ago completely out of the blue. It was very unexpected. We were deleriously happy and everyone, even people we didn't know would comment on it. For the ...

I always thought we would remain friends, but she has told me to stop bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - I'm 30 yrs old and I was in a relationship with a single mom who is 7 years older then me. The relationship lasted approx. 3 years in which we lived together the entire time. It's going to be a year since our break up next month. She has a 7 yr...

Extremely Lost Teen...Please help Me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

24 July 2009 (M) - Hey there, Im in sort of a bind, but I'll get to the point. Me and a girl, who I will call "Jen", dated for almost a year. We broke up several months ago, although we still talk a every once in a while through text messaging. Lately, she has been ...

Was I wrong to talk to my friend on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago, within that time i talked to a guy i had only kissed before (years ago) just catch up, what have you been up to etc my bf then hacked into my facebook and read the messages between us. this didnt ...

How do I get over this? My self-esteem is crushed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I feel very bad. My first boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me. Basically, once he heard about my past, he thought I was a whore, and because I lied about the past a couple of times, he lost his trust in me. Now, I know lying was wrong, but ...

Tired of drama and heartbroken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Hello to all, I just recently got out of a 14 month relationship with what I thought was a great guy, we met through friends. I had been separated from previous 8 year relationship for 2 years and figured it was time to give dating a try!! W...

Should I move on or stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for 4 years now on and off. About 2 years into our relationship I found out he had cheated on me and that he was lying pathologically just for the sake of lying. At first I tried to make it work with him. I spent a whole ...

How can I get my optimism back and go about getting what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Normally I try and always have a positive attitude towards things, and for a long time I kept up my positive way of attacking this problem, but lately I've completely lost my optimism, I'm almost heading towards bitterness and I don't want that at ...

I'm damaged goods... should I just settle for him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - Ok so I hope you can take time and read this, as I dont know know who else to reach to. I am a woman in my mid twenties, I have a small child that I raise at home alone. I was married to the father of my child for four years. The relation...

How do I stop lying and just end this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

24 July 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf for 5 years. Over the past year or so my feelings for him have really changed. I can't pin point exactly when it happened or what caused it, but I don't want to be with him anymore. Everytime I hug him, kiss him or we have ...