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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

He wants to be Friends with Benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend wants to just date or just not be boyfriend girlfriend title but still wants sex. That went on for about a week and then he sent me an article from this site "Is my girlfriend needy or is it just me?" and says he wants space. Can ...

Does it seem like he wants me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hey erm never done this b4 but im in such a messover it n need help... about a yr ago me n this lad was gettin on really well but then it fizzled out n he got wiv one of my mates since then they have split up about 3 months back n we have been txt...

Do I let them be happy together or what can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I would like to tell you the whole story and maybe you could understand better but it's way too long and you'll propably get bored but heres the basics : -Meet boy -Start dating boy -Loose virginity to boy -Two weeks later we brake up -I try e...

I stayed faithful, but he is ending our long-distance relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - After 2 and half years in a relationship (12 months long distance - not my choice but his) my boyfriend has decided that its over. He told me that if I was not able to be with him (re-locate overseas) he is calling it a day. He has been ruthless ...

I wouldn't move on, but I want him to know I can stand on my own

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I recently wrote about how my boyfriend and I broke up and I needed my things back. Actually he was the one that told me I should keep in mind he has to do other things but never mentioned break up. It's been quite long since we spoke and i texted ...

Something happened while I was asleep. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - So i fell "asleep" on the couch while a friend was over with me and my girlfriend. I heard them talk about sex and then i heard masturbation noises. I woke up and the guys fly was undone. Then when i confronted my girlfriend about the whole thing ...

Will having sex with him make him mine again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i met my ex at aparty 2weeks ago and he came over to where i was and we hugged,he sat next to me and chatted for a while and later danced,i was confused cos this is the guy who dumped before and now giving me his attention,i was getting mixed ...

How can I convince him not to leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i've been datin this guy for over 2yrs..he's my 1st love..i lost my virginity to him..he wants to break up coz accordin to him..i din give him his space..i do repent all dat i did out of impulse..i love him crazy..so i told him instead of breakin up ...

In a drunken call, I told my ex I missed her. Now she won't talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I went out with this girl for 1 year and 5 months we loved each other, but we broke up because we were both stressed and we didnt know how to deal with each other at the time. we understood we needed time apart.. We broke up in august and start...

How do I deal with the fact that everyone I know loves my abusive ex bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - How do i deal with the fact that everyone i know loves my abusive ex bf? They all think he is this great guy, caring, chamring, respectful and a good catholic guy. But hes not...it just really frustrats me. People would always say when we were ...

I'm not happy but we have a child do I stay or leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - ok im going to make this as short as possible...me and my boyfriend have been arguing a whole lot lately and its getting to the point where im not sure if i want to be with him and dont get me wrong i know people argue and no ones perfect but i mean ...

I just cant understand why he would suddenly hate me..is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - hello everyone I have a big problem in my life right now. My ex, we both promised to stay friends if we ever lost our relationship well its been ended for a month now and he hates me. Noone including myself knows why. I was a very good gf to him.....

Should I ask ex if she feels the same way as I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - My first girlfriend; who broke up with me about 4 years ago. We still email each other about once every few weeks and help each other out but i never see her since she is in college across the state. She was my first love and i never forgot about ...

He was still saying he misses me the morning of the break up! Do you think there's a chance I can get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - early may - i told bf we needed a break 2 days later - he moved to another city i sent him off at the airport next day - we talked about our issues on MSN and solved it. After which things were great 2 weeks later - I visited him in his new ...

I want closure on this! He's making me out to be the bad guy to mutual friends. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm hoping that someone can help me with this issue that has been hanging over me for a while. Sorry it's so longwinded but I feel I have to tell the whole story, and if someone would take the time to read the whole story and help, I ...

He said he still had feelings for me, but I think it was the drink talking.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6048 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Hi I went out with a guy for 2 and half years and we were in love but I ended it as he wasn't around for any more, I changed my mind but he didn't want to get back together a wk or two later we spoke about it and he said he didn't love me any ...

Guy trouble! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - well i was with this guy for 12 days, however i still have feelings for him, he dumped me a few months ago. since then he never told me why we broke up or anything. everytime i try to talk to him we always end up arguing. it became really bad when...

I can't stand to see him any more, but our daughters are good friends. Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I split some months ago, after a 2 yr relatyionship from a guy. We tried staying mates because our children got on well. My daughter is a bit of a loner, but she gelled real well with his daughter of the same age. They are 11. But recently things ...

How do you get over an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for over 2 years and fell deeply in love with him it was fantastic! I lost my virginity to him and doted on him. We split up last september due to their being an age difference and i was really depressed for 4 months. In April I met ...

Should I send him a "congratulations on your divorce" card to his parents to let him know that he has no power and control to stop the divorce, and to let him know that I am no longer his stupid little wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - my ex was a horrible nasty piece of work and loves to control and is a power freak but since december (just gone) i have stood up to him and given him abit of his own medicine!! see how he likes to be abused although i only gave him about 1% of the ...

We are expecting our first child but she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no longer loves me, I cannot imagine being intimate with another woman...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I split with my girlfriend 2 months ago, we are expecting our first child, she did not want to stay together for the sake of the baby as she no loger loves me. I feel very lonley very isolated, every night i dream of my ex and i wake up upset beca...

She's been dating someone for 6 months already, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I've had a crush with this girl for 3 years in high school since my sophomore year. We both have several classes together during the 1st year and our chemistry developed pretty fast. We often glanced at each other but we both turned away abruptly as ...

How do I avoid getting sucked back into the snake-pit?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Just yesterday I broke up with my ex. It seems to have been a long time coming. We always (Me ending it) broke up.. over stupid little fights. All the time! But then he would not leave me alone for a few days and i would cave. He was t...

After realising my foolish and impulsive behaviour towards my ex, I changed and repented completely, but he does not want to retie the string... what more can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - i want to get my ex back...i know he doesn't love me...but takes me only as a friend..we still talk....but the reason he left me was due to my constant questioning about girls messaging him and girls roaming about with him..he didn't have had any ...

How long should I wait before I throw in the towel and just realize he's just jerking me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me, and I feel torn apart. I can't seem to grasp my mind around the fact that we are not together. I need help moving on, finding my footing again, and regaining the desire to leave my house. Perhaps provid...

We are getting divorced, so why does he keep messing with my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - In 2006 i found out my husband of 11 years was having an affair with someone he met through work in a different country. We have since seperated and getting divorced. How do i move on when i still love him and would have him back? He is still seeing ...

I'm in love with him, but he's going to be marrying the bride his family choses for him... I don't know how to cope with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi..!! i am a 18 yr old girl..i strongly love a boy who is 11 rs older to me..we met through chat..never met b4 but seen each other's pics..deciding to meet within this year....we slowly and slowly had a close relationship and even promised to get m...

How can I get the pictures of our vacation from him? We've broken up now and I've moved on, but would like to have them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I really need some advice on what to do! Me and my boyfriend broke up about two months ago. He broke my heart but since then I've moved on. He's changed beyond recognition, he now smokes and drinks (both of which he never did much before) and...

HOW can I finally get over my EX??????????????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - 9 yrs after divorce and I have been remarried for most of it. However,I still battle with being in love with my ex. I left him and he was devistated but I was young and went through something pyschologically where I just didn't like to be around ...

Read this break up email from my bf, and tell me what it means, please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I got this break up email from my bf. What do you think it means? I know obviously it means he wants to break up, but do you think I have a chance to patch it back together with him? I still love him and I know we've had some problems typical ...

How many couples out there break up because of some silly quarrel? I've never let him down, why isn't that enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - i wonder how many couples out there break up cuz of some silly quarrel, or just one party got too tired of trying, or is it due to personality clashes, or a misalignment in core beliefs.....Let's not talk about obvious deal-breakers like cheating, ...

Is he giving me a sign that we can reconcile our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I dated a man for a year and we began a relationship, but shortly after we broke up. I was devastated because I felt that we were doing well being together. We talk sometimes when we see each other. He tells me that I look nice and he still has ...

I feel like I wasn't good enough to keep him and I'm having trouble dealing with this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want to wait till there was enough trust in our relationship to have sex. He has a history of sleeping around and going out with girls who get into bed with guys within the first week of ...

He prefers to play his guitar than be with me, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Me and my b/f were moving along very smoothly. It was getting even better, but then all of a sudden we got in this huge arguemnt. 1st of all he REALLY loves guitar. 2nd we both go to the same church. We were both going to go to youth camp toget...

Relationship issues... he just told me that he wants to be just friends. Will he come back to me or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Was dating this guy for 10 months, he has past relationship issues that scares him, but we did enjoy each other's company, we have a lot in common, and had planned to do different things this summer together. I saw him 2 weeks ago,then I got a ...

How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - How do you know the difference in really being in love rather than just being used to a mate? I sometimes think a fling is just a temporary thrill and not for the long haul. how do you determine the truth?...

She wants more experience, she's only 15 and isn't ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life! But it's tearing me apart...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (M) - Me and my best friend started dating about a year and a half ago. Recently, she broke up with me because she told me that she isnt ready to have a relationship for the rest of her life. She wants more exprience with boys. I agreed because i want to ...

How do I cope with this first time hook up? I'm completely and utterly disappointed in myself...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I really don't even know where to start. I'm completely and utterly disappointed in myself and filled with regret. I met this guy Dan through a friend a couple of years ago. We really hit it off, but he was then deployed to Iraq. I haven't seen ...

Question for the girls, will she give me another chance? She broke up with me because of depression.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hi,i have a question 4 the girls!,some1 recently said 2 me that a girl will always tend to give thier ex another go before starting somethin with someone new,i am goin through this situation where my ex split up wiv me cuz of home life,basically she ...

Will I ever find another girl like her, who loves me as much as she does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hello everyone. So me and my gf of a year and a half have been having alota problems. Its got to the point where im not happy anymore and iv been thinking about us breaking up for a while. Two days ago i mentioned us breaking up and iv been trying ...

Is it really easier for a guy to stop thinking of his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - do men really just move on or is it just a front. is he going throught the same hurt and sadness that i am going throught, why do men make it seem so easy to move on after a break up. And how do i move on when all i can do is think about he and that ...

When will she tell me why she left?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - when will she tell me why she left. the reson she gave was i have nothing left to give. but that is not a real reson there must be more to it we have 2 kids that i have at home with me. she live with a work mate a man and say that it aint how it ...

She broke up with me because we live too far apart! How do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Right, I've just been to see my girlfreind for the first time. she lives about 200 miles away, i really liked her and she really liked me, i came home and cried on the way back. she broke up with me today because we live too far away and we'...

How can he move on like that and just stop caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I am a married woman for about 4yrs i have two children and i am having an affair with a man who has been married for 18yrs and has two children as well. We both work together this is his part time job he works full time during the day elsewhere. We ...

I.m afraid my parents will oppose me living with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend thinks I'm too negative when it comes to finding a solution to a problem. I always say it won't work. When I face a problem, I always want to leave it until I really have to face the problem. I also think about the worst scenario when I ...

Should I ask my (female) ex back out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 15, and finally accepted I was gay about 18 months ago after a lot of soul-searching. Last July I fell for one of my mates, and managed to get up the confidence to ask her out. She saif she felt the same way, and we sort of persued a secret ...

Is there hope for a future relationship with her, even though we're not in contact now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - hi i was wondering wot anyone makes of this. i was sort of seeing a girl for the last month and for some reason i totally fell for her straight away. its so weird because im really picky and i told myself id never let myself get in2 someone ...

Guys, have you broken up with a girl, then want to get back together? Girls, am I delusional or should I find someone who is ready for commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Posted this earlier but no replies...really hope to get some advice here! My ex-bf and I had been together for almost a year. I want commitment, he doesn't want commitment....thus we did the classic girl nags at guy for commitment/guy i...

Is this a break up? What's in his mind?

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28 May 2008 (F) - i dunno if i broke up wid ma bf,whom i was datin for more than 2yrs..each time we have a fight he says "lets break up"..then i go pleadin behind him n he comes back..but this time i told him he's free to go n to not expect me to come pleadin..told ...

Is it that she doesn't want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - I split up with my girlfriend almost a year ago after I found out she was cheating on me. The break up was quite hard as we lived together but although she tried to keep in touch I managed to avoid her. Recently I started replying to her emails and ...