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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:i've been datin this guy for over 2yrs..he's my 1st love..i lost my virginity to him..he wants to break up coz accordin to him..i din give him his space..i do repent all dat i did out of impulse..i love him crazy..so i told him instead of breakin up we shud jus take a month's break..he's not totally convinced n stil prefers to break up..i still feel at t bottom of his heart he loves me..its vacation ..n we r in our respective native places..i send him a long email bout how i regret..n dat i don wanna lose him..n dat dis 1months vacation break'l heal t recent hurts..do u think he'l come back??wat can i do to improve t chances of him comin back?is it ok if i contiu mailing him dis month..we agreed to stay in touch..
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reader, Aunt Letty  +, writes (31 May 2008):
If you e-mail him, keep it light. Send funny stories or anecdotes about crazy neighbours, don't talk about your feelings for each other and don't be too interested in what he's doing. You never forget your first Love. The chances of him coming back to you are slim. But by using the time apart to get your head and heart sorted, to make friends, find someone else to be the first person you want to share news with, and find laughter again; by the time he sees you again, and realises that you're fine and strong without him, he'll regret the day he ever felt the need for space. You are young and you have a lot of Love to give,...don't waste it on a guy who's willing to let you go.
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