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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I just get over it? I''m totally distraught and in a dark place.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Ok so after the phone call on saturday i made to my ex to ask for second chance he pretty much said no. I was devastated. I sent him an email the next day to say that i tried my best and that he didn't want to try and that i understood that hes ...

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with he...

Am I really in love with someone else, or am I just looking for someone to fill the void within my present realtionship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am in love with two great men. I am amazed to see the amount of people who are in a similar situation. I feel a little silly posting my issue like some personal ad but I really have no where else to turn. I have been in a relationship with my ...

I'm scared of telling him how I feel, which is strange as I'm always so open and honest. Can anyone suggest how I should handle it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I dated this boy, for a year about a year ago. I ended rather unfairly; and hurt him quite badly. we were both 17 at the time. A year on, I've grown up a lot and am far more mature than I was then, I have suddenly realised that I may have ...

Should I be her friend? She broke my heart...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - So I recently split up with my girlfriend. Ths split was mutual..i guess.? We had been going out for over a year and a half and the realtionship was a long distance one. We were great together, everything was perfect. We would see each other every ...

I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, I can't seem to get used to it as I was so used to all the space I got in the previous relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I recently finished with a boy I had been seeing for a year, we had been in a long distance relationship and we had been getting through it okay. But now that I am single I'm finding it really hard to be in a relationship with someone close to home, ...

For 3 weeks he stopped pressuring me abut sex... then he suddenly broke up with me. What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I need some reassurance that the breakup of my relationship with my bf was a good thing because I feel so sad about it. I really did like him a lot and generally he treated me very well, was like such a gentleman- he would always open doors for m...

Although the relationship was very troublesome, I still feel like I love and want her, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Hi all, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We had our fair share of problems. She lied to me quite a bit, once about talking to her ex for a few hours, and then about little, meaningless things throughout the ...

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5185 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was...

My boyfriend is a work-a-holic, and I'm missing his attention!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost three years. The first year and a half was great. The last year and a half has been some what of a struggle. My boyfriend is a work-a-holic. I miss him tremendously and miss the way that we used to be. I am...

Do you think she still has feelings for me or am I flying out there to get hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6078 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years which ended last July. She lived in Europe and I lived in the states. I broke up with her because I was scared of moving to Spain. The strange thing is I had a ring and I was going to propose to ...

How do I get him to show me that he loves me? How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend said to me the reason we broke up was because it wasn't working, I wasn't changing and we were always gonna fight and that he doesn't love me and hasn't for the past 2 weeks. (This is wat he said when we broke up) Now he's telli...

I feel this is all my fault and I just don't feel the will to carry on. How do I learn to forgive myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hello again. My ex and I have been apart for 5 weeks now after 3 years and a half together. It was a bad breakup and if we both had not assumed that the other wanted it over we might not have ended it. It's been 5 weeks and my sadness is growi...

My ex just proposed to me but I've started seeing someone else...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I was with a guy for almost 3 years and we were really happy. However 6 months ago things started going downhill and I found that the little things he does annoys me, such as his snoring and the fact that he burns toast.(silly I know) 3 months ago ...

Should I leave him for good or try to get him back? I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two yrs... well we've been having some problems. Last night he said he needed a break and i needed a break and he thinks its better if were just friends again. Problem is i dont think i can do that, ...

This sounds so weird, I'm scared I'm cracking up!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - This sounds so weird, I'm scared I'm cracking up!!! I'm obsessed with lookin at pics of my ex's ex on her web page!! I'm no longer with my ex, I don't even like him no more, but I keep going to his ex (whom he was with for 4 years) page and staring ...

My girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago, saying her feelings just wernt there anymore, but she still loved and cared for me. We had been coming to an end for what felt like 3-4 months, with me being frustated and her keeping ...

Do you exes ever try to contact you when you ask for no contact?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Ok well...i phoned up my ex after he initiated contact with me a week ago. At first things were ok. But then it got worse and i pretty much pleaded with him to give it another try and he gave the same excuses again and i kept asking for it for the ...

Help!!! Confused and heartbroken...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I am a 21 year old female mother of 2 beautiful kids. Their father whom I was with for many of years (since a young girl) had broke my heart. He always wanted to chill be around me and everything else. This past Easter Sunday March 2008 he wanted me ...

Differences led us to break up. Now I'm lost.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up yesterday for about the third time. he said I am weird, random, he can't have a conversation with me, and he doesnt see himself with me. However, he did this twice before, and regretted it. The first time, he broke it off and ...

Should I spill the beans?!?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I am trying to figure out what to do in this crazy situation and I would appreciate any input! I just broke up with my boyfriend (of almost 4 years)It was very hard to do, because I love him, but very justified. a few days ago because I found ...

I want to go... How do I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been with my BF for 6 years. I have known for a very long time that I need to leave. He knows I am going to leave and he does his very best to keep me down. Every time I start a new job he does something to make me really messed up in ...

Am I missing out on love because of pride?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hey. I just wanted other people's opinions please. There's this guy I used to go out with a while ago. He says he has always loved me ever since. Now he hears I am single again and immediately he phones up to see if I want to go travelling with him. ...

Am I missing her or just missing being in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hey Cupids. Perhaps you can help me. My ex and I started dating last may/june. She was always on/off with me, some nights telling me she never wants to let me go, others giving me the cold shoulder. This resulted in her breaking up with...

I'm divorced and broke until finances are sorted. My new man is wealthy but doesn't help much and says I should claim State Benefits..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Im divocing my husband at the moment and waiting to sort out the finance matter with my husband. I've met this man who is very nice to me. I am looking for a job and have no money. He has got a good job and quite weathly but he doesnt offer any ...

Text How do you tell an ex you don't want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - How do you tell an ex you dont want to try again a THIRD time in the nicest possible way? My ex lied a couple of times, we split, but tried again, it didnt work out again. That was begining of the yr. We are friends and thats fine, but recently...

My girlfriend wanted a break from me, but I found out she doesn't want to get back with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wanted a break from me 2 months ago, and i have found out that she doesn't really want to get back with me, this is because i was to clingy and controlling. I love her so much and she says she still has feelings for me...but wants to b...

Shall I go back or get on with my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi I left my husband 2 years ago and moved into rented accomodation were i still live. He spent a lot of his spare time in the pub. My weekend became very predictable. I have three children who all live with me. He still lives in the matrimonal ho...

I was so mean to my ex should I apologise or just let it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My ex and I broke up in august and he pretty much hates me. i messed up, i lied to him about something big and continued lying even when he found me out. Obviously he was devastated and furious and i really hurt him. he cut all ties with me and...

I have broken up with my girlfriend because we were always fighting but I cant bear the thought of her being with anyone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up cause all we did was fight now because of her im going through alot of changes such as my anger the way i treat people my self centeredness, now just tonight we had a great talk she said she had her guard up wich ...

I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, I am not comfortable with our mutual friend updating him on what I'm doing now. Should I dump her too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hoping people can help here. I broke up with a guy about six months ago. I liked him but felt that the feeling was not mutual so I was wasting my time. He and I have a mutual friend and he moniters my comings and goings through her which I find odd. ...

I divorced my mean husband but my new older boyfriend also prefers to save rather than spend although otherwise he is an sexy and attentive lover. Should I stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I divorced my husband of 22 years. I wanted to leaves for years. He is selfish and unkind and very mean with money. We always argue over money cuz he just want to save. I met this new man 18 years older than me right after my divorce. His ...

My partner has starting hitting me, where will I live with the children if I left him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 11 years and we now have three children together. Recently he has started to hit me [once causing a black eye]. He says its because when we argue. I won't back down and resort to tears which makes him angry. Beca...

We have two children, he says he loves me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man i thought was the one for me we have 2 children together and we have not long split up. We have still been having sex but he has a new girlfried. He says he doesn't love her and he is only with her because her aunt...

He dated me just to get at my younger mate and cheated, what can I do to move on??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and i know this 19 year old boy for over a year and i really liked him. We went out for 3 weeks but my 14 year old mate went out with him before me. It lasted 3 days so me and this boy spent a lot of time together and then he asked me...

I am not over him and think about him 24/7...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Last year I got really hooked on this radio station, it was a right wee hobby of mine! I became famous in its own wee world with the djs and the listenors who all called in and it was alot of fun. At the time I got very close to one of the djs. At ...

Why does he still contact me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ok...ex bf dumped after 2+yrs together saying he wanted space and wasn't sure whether he loved me as gf or a friend. Gave him space then few weeks ago said he doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be friends with me. I never bothered to ...

I'm trying soooooooooo hard to give him the space he asked for.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

28 March 2008 (?) - Ok here's the story, my boyfriend and I broke up last weekend but when we talked during the week we realised that there was a few things we hadn't told each other about our relationship. So instead of splitting up totally we decided to go on a ...

My heart is hurting...

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28 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy on hi5, he's a ghanaian like me but aunty we always fight each other, he thinks I am the one causing the problems and I think he's the one causing problems, we really don't know our faults so he later broke up with me and is ...

My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...

He said he doesn't love me anymore but should I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - i'm in a bit of a confusin situation atm me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up and now i dunno wat to do, he said he doesnt love me anymore but i don't believ him, he hasn't taken me off his profile or anything and he makes it out to hi...

How can he break up with me and then change his mind in 1 week! I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - 19 years old and my bf dumped me. I feel so lonely and I miss him as I really did like him and was beguining to have deep feelings for him. Most of all I am just confused about whether or not the break up was a good idea or not. Apparanr...

He said he wants "space" but then calls me at crazy hours! Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6081 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi! Me and boyfriend broke up because, he said he wanted space and feel not ready to be in a relationship. It's only been a few days he contacted me again telling me how I was doing.etc. We are still friends and we go out together usually. Wha...

He has major mood swings, will he come back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I would love some advice ...particularly from a male point of view. I have had a fantastic and fun relationship with my boyfriend for three years. We laugh, we connect , we have a great sex life, we have so much in common and we have ...

He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont ...

Broke up with her and now she's in a relationship and I feel hurt! Is this love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - Hello all, Me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up for almost 4 weeks now even though it feels like only 2, i found out just today that she is in a new relationship, and it makes me kind of upset, i dont know why. I was the one that broke ...

I love him but nothing is good enough for him. I can't get over him. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi, I am 24 years of age and life seems to have come to a stand still...I met a guy through a friend which I ended up dating we were two different kind of people always argued he was never really there. As funny as it may sound I celebrated both my ...

My ex wanted to stay friends so why is she ignoring me now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - hi, I have a problem with my ex-girlfriend. after she finished with me we decided to stay friends and i really wanted that because i didn't want to lose her. However i've been feeling like she doesn't want to now. she never makes any effort ...

We have broke up but I want him back for good-help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up, we kno the love we had, hav.. shared.. i thought that it was the best thing and stuff but i don't think so anymore, i miss him so muchh.. i dunno! we broke up coz we had fights and he said he didn't love m...

Feeling the pressure of a steady relationship. What can I do and how can I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Ok im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, we regulary have great sex and i love him.. however im starting to feel the pressure of going steady for so long! its like when im with him everythings graet but when im not with him i have my ...