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writes:19 years old and my bf dumped me. I feel so lonely and I miss him as I really did like him and was beguining to have deep feelings for him. Most of all I am just confused about whether or not the break up was a good idea or not.Apparanrlt he wants me back after 1 week, I dont know if I should take him back. His reason for ending it was he didnt want to be in a relationship but now hes changed his mind.My bf seemed to be like the perfect bf besides for one area- sex. I felt as if he was pressuring me. Very early in our relationship, in fact, 2nd date, we were at the movies and he tried putting his hands down my pants, i pulled them away and said no. He kept puting his hands back there and I had to keep pulling them away and saying no. This sort of thing went on for weeks and near the end his strength increased and somehow I couldnt pull his arms out of my pants and at one stage I felt as if we were phsyically fighting as I tired to get his hands out. Then once I slept over his place and after me giving into him to let him finger me and I give him a hand job, he wanted ot have sex. I said no and we never did it. However he was on top of me and was saying things like 'just let me see if it fits' and i said 'it will so u dont need to, get off me' but he owuldnt get off me, he dindt really force himself on me but yeh he wouldnt get off me. Call my crazy for asking this but I dont know if this was a bad thing or not? You all probably think im crazy for wanting him back. Its just apart from this he was so amazing and his family were amazing too. They really liked me. Why can't i let go of him after what he did? and should i consider geting back with him?
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reader, lolo89  +, writes (28 March 2008):
 i hate to say this but it sounds as if this boy was just looking for sex..and when you didnt give in he broke up with you and started to look elsewhere...now he's asking for you back..maybe he thinks you'll be deperate to have him back and give into sleeping with him.
this boy is bad news full stop, you deserve a loving boyfriend who will let you make your own desicions, not one that forces you into things you dont want to do.
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