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Archived questions from: October, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I pushed to find out the truth. Now I wonder: did I really want to know why she broke it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6991 days ago

31 October 2005 (M) - My 20 Year old girlfriend Of 2 Years has ended it with me last week. Things had not been right for quite a while, but I didn't think it would really come to this. What makes it worse is that she has started seeing somebody else. I only found th...

My boyfrriend has dumped me twice, because he wants to try dating others...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6991 days ago

30 October 2005 (F) - I'm 20 years old and I've been dating the same guy for the past two years. We are normally very happy and have an awesome time together. However, 2 months ago, we broke up because he was scared he was never going to date anyone besides me. After 2 ...

I gave him lavish gifts when we were a couple. If he leaves, shouldn't he give them back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6991 days ago

30 October 2005 (M) - I am a 23 year old gay male. My best friend and I (since we were six) decided to become boy friends about 6 months ago after five years of relationships with others that never worked because we found we were looking for each other in our partners. ...

My daughter's fiance wasn't what he seemed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6993 days ago

28 October 2005 (F) - Hi My daughter was dumped 6 weeks ago by her fiance of almost 4 years. He initilly left for a couple of weeks for some space. He was really cruel, built her hopes of reconciliation only to blame her Dad when he wanted a reason. She eventual...

When I tried to break up with my boyfriend he threatened to kill himself or "make my life hard"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - Help, I have only been dating my boyfriend for three months and he has always been very kind to me, but now that I want to end the relationship, he has changed. There are 15 years between us and although it bothered me, I went along with it. I trie...

I had fun and independance until I moved in with my 40-year-old boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6995 days ago

27 October 2005 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 months. After him meeting me he wanted me to move in so I moved in. After 2 months as I knew at the time, it felt right for both of us. Now the problem is I don't feel anything toward him anymore! I used ...

My boyfriend broke up because "we're at different stages in our lives"...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

27 October 2005 (F) - Me (18) and my boyfriend (23) broke up a couple of days ago. We were together for a year, our relashionship was a happy one and we love each other deeply. Reason for bringing up the subject of "breaking up" was that he finally wants to pursue a ...

My girlfriend of more than 2 years ran off with her boss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6996 days ago

26 October 2005 (M) - I am 37 years old and have been with a lovely 28year old girl for the last 2-1/2 years.We have had our ups and dowmns like most relationships but recently things had being going better than ever. At the beginning of this relationship the girl in ...

Did we meet just to make him feel better about our break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6995 days ago

25 October 2005 (F) - Dating 8 months. Great guy, but I am the poster child for what NOT to do. Too much baggage, too needy, not happy. He broke up with me because he isn't in love with me. He says he misses me and his brain says to stay with me, but his gut says I'm ...

My girlfriend would rather break up than work on our communication!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - Problem started when we really just stop communicating with each other. We were talking, but not really communicating. I was pretty fed up with that so I confronted her and gave her two options: - 1. We work hard to try to revive our relationship...

I love my girlfriend like nothing else, but she still thinks she wants to finish it!

This question has 107 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

25 October 2005 (M) - How to show my girlfriend I love her? I am a 14 year old boy. I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly two months now, and I've never been happier, but the last week we've had a series of huge arguments about us, and she's recently b...

I think when my boyfriend's upset that he tries deliberately to hurt me. Was I wrong to break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6997 days ago

24 October 2005 (F) - Today I finished with my Bf of 2 years. I love him, he definitely loves me, he was inconsolable when he left. In the last 3 months, when we argue, he goes out, sometimes 3-4 in morning and doesnt come back to the next day. He goes round friends ...

No reason for his dumping me. How do you get over something like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - I am so utterly broken. My boyfriend of 8 months, who I loved (and still do) more than just about anything, called me 3 weeks back on my first day at uni and broke up with me. No reasons or anything. How do I begin to get over him? I'm an emotiona...

He says he's confused and might make me unhappy, but won't our love help work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6998 days ago

23 October 2005 (F) - Got back with bf after 2 month rocky patch, on again, off again, on again, off again etc.. I love him to pieces and I know he loves me but he says he's still confused! I told him to think about it for a week but I'm already head over heels back ...

Our "break" from each other is beginning to look like a break-up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7000 days ago

21 October 2005 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend have being going out for the last 4 years. We were both happy with each other until recently. Two weeks ago she asked to take a break from each other as she needed a time out to figure out what she wanted. I accepted this ...

Are my folks right? Is my boyfriend immature and lazy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7002 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - Should I end my 2 year relationship with my boyfriend? He is 17 and I am 19. He and I recently took a 2 month break to see other people. We want to get back together, but my parents don't like him. They think he is immature and lazy. I live on ...

His drinking is stressing me out. How do I break up, when he's threatened to take everything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7001 days ago

20 October 2005 (F) - I have an on again, off again relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. When I was always sick, he took care of me and my children. He would give and do anything for us. Unfortunately, he drinks and today he got angry because I found all these ...

She broke it off with me. What's my next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6996 days ago

20 October 2005 (M) - I was just involved in a 4 month relationship with a female who I have been friends with and recently started to date me right after her divorce of 8 years. I knew I was taking a chance with her but decided anyways, she says she needs to mourn her ...

How can I persuade him to give us another chance?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

19 October 2005 (F) - Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect ...

I've lost my sense of security since we discussed whether to break up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7003 days ago

18 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 18 months. He's 28, I'm 26. We were friends for 5 years before we got together. We don't live together but we see each other 5 days out of 7. We have a very happy, loving relationship. 2 weeks ...

He lies to me and I feel like crying when we're together. I just want to break up with him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6988 days ago

17 October 2005 (?) - Hey everyone, OK so I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and he's lied to me a lot, although the other day he crossed the line. I'd found out he'd been sending pictures of his genitals to other people via texts. When I asked him about it...

How do I prove to my boyfriend that I'm innocent?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - I need help and advice. Me (16) and my boyfriend (16) dated for about eight months. Everything was going great. But he called me one day and said that one of his friends told him I cheated on him when I didn't. We broke up and now he wants me to ...

My boyfriend's ex lured him back, after he swore he'd never see her again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6999 days ago

13 October 2005 (F) - My name is Joanna. I have been in a realsionship together with my boyfriend for five months now. We have so many problems because of his ex girlfriend. They were together for five years. When I first got together with this man, He said that he did ...

My partner says we're "on a break", but I don't know what that means!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

12 October 2005 (F) - We have been in a 10 month relationship and we have just taken a break. What does taking a beak even mean? Does it mean that we can date other people or even think about it? I don't know. Can someone please help!...

Lost my job after my affair with the boss ended...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

11 October 2005 (F) - Me and my boss had an affair, and it ended soon after he had a new born baby. This is a job in theatre so it means the world to me, and may not get another one like it. I said a few nasty things to him before we split but that was just because ...

Can't believe my ex could say he loved me in September, but be going out with someone else now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7011 days ago

10 October 2005 (?) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months in July. It's my first serious relationship and we really loved each other, but another guy was making it impossible for us and we kept fighting. Now that other guy has moved on and we told each other in...

My heart and mind conflict about whether to break up...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6910 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - If your mind tells you that you want to break up but your heart tells you that you love them...which do you choose?...

Why does my boyfriend keep breaking up for trivial reasons?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7012 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 years, and for some reason he always seems to break up with me, because of weird things. Like the first time the reason was he just said some space, then the second time was because in my he...

He told me so many sweet things about our future, but now he avoids me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

10 October 2005 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 8 months. I thought everything was going good until he dumped me. He told me so many things like marrying me and having kids with me... after a while, I believed him. It was less heartbreaking when he said he ...

Afraid that my ex will find someone else, while we're still friends...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7011 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Hi. I have a question concerning how to take my ex. We have been broken up for 3 months. For a while we hardly talked, now we are starting to date once a week and talk on the phone daily, which I am very happy about. We both talk (as friends)...

I know we should stay broken up, but can I still talk with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6850 days ago

9 October 2005 (F) - Me and my ex just broke up after a year and a half of him lying, cheating, mentally and physically abusing. We still talk on the phone a little and I want to go back with him so bad. But I know I can't. What is the best way for me to let him go and ...

My wife says she's forgiven me too many times in the past...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

9 October 2005 (M) - Hi all, I am currently going through a seperation with my wife. We just had a daughter together. She left me because we argued a lot and that she felt the trust was no longer there, because of broken promises and stupid lies on my part. So...

I pushed for commitment, and ended up pushing him away...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7014 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I had a long distant relationship with a man I fell in love with and he loves me. He broke up with me because he has things in his life to fix and he is scared of commitment. I've been pushing that. I know now not to do that. How do I get this man...

I moved on from my married man... to another married man. Why do I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7000 days ago

8 October 2005 (F) - I ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with a married man about 6 months ago. Since then, I have become close to someone who told me he recently ended a relationship with another woman and had no contact with her. However, I just found out that he has ...

Is it time for my girlfriend and me to break up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7012 days ago

8 October 2005 (M) - I've been with my gf for 1 year now. I don't feel as though I love her anymore. We don't spend time with each other. We don't trust each other but yet I don't want to lose her. I feel as though I don't love her anymore, but I couldnt bear to lose ...

He's said he's not sure he loves me any more. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7013 days ago

6 October 2005 (F) - I have 3 kids and recently my told me he's not sure he wants to be with me or not. Also he's not sure if he loves me or not. Please help me understand why or what I should do. I love him so much. I don't want to lose him. Thank you for some hel...

Why would he break up with me as a girlfriend, if he wants me to "wait" until he's ready?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7016 days ago

4 October 2005 (F) - Alright I was with this really great guy, :wub: my first boyfriend, but I started to notice that he was falling away from me and then he just up and dumped me. :( Now he never really talked to me on the phone which I understand. I'm not that much of ...

He broke it off with me without even trying to fix what was wrong...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7019 days ago

2 October 2005 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 2 years and recently engaged and then dumped. He says he doesn't want a relationship as too many things were missing, although he loves me. I have explained to him that I behaved in the way I did to protect myself. I ...

Our breakup was due to distance and circumstances. That makes it so much harder to get over...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7019 days ago

1 October 2005 (F) - So I am living overseas and have been here 1 and a half years. I met my boyfriend here and we dated for over 1 year. He left last weekend because he had to go back to the States (army). Hence, we broke up. I don't know HOW to get over someone that I ...