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writes: I was just involved in a 4 month relationship with a female who I have been friends with and recently started to date me right after her divorce of 8 years. I knew I was taking a chance with her but decided anyways, she says she needs to mourn her broken marriage, and ended our relationship. I respect her because she was honest and I still care for her as she does for me. I don't know what my next step is, do I let her go and see what happens in the future or try to get her back? thanks
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 October 2005):
 Hellfire Boy! I've got food in the fridge older than 4 months! Move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2005): Just leave her alone! The more you push the futher she'l get.
Just leave her to get over her broken marrage...be her friend and suport her and you never know what might happen once she over her marriage!
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reader, flipchickmom +, writes (20 October 2005):
Think of the Sting song "If you love someone, set them free", it's true in my experience. If it were meant to be, the person would still be around amidst all the chaos of the world. I have been married and I am also divorced. It took a looong time to get over. I met my BF only a month after my break-up and I warned him not to pursue me but he did anyway. We are currently very rocky right now as I did not have the essential time to self explore on my own. Now I crave 'alone time' as I jumped from relationship to relationship. It's good she broke it off with you as it will allow BOTH of you time to grow individually. Trust me I know, if you don't get that vital time alone to balance other aspects of your life, you will end up resenting each other. So work on other areas like for example Health and Career and take it one day at a time. Good luck and Be strong.
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